bumped into my ex?

Question

i bumped intomy ex at a fair i wa swith my new bf he was with the girl i thought he wa sinto (when we were dating) i asked whetehr iit was her and she sed yes. he didnt look happy but wa\s annoyed i questioned him and stormed off.

but i left a text saying i onyl wnated the truth and he replied immediatley when he got home .

i phoned him up and he seemed stressed and wasbeing rather nice to me. and he said well ur happy with ur bf sou get what u want? his gf had dumped him because of whta id done. but he didnt seem bothered.

i asked y he said in past that he still loved me and yet goes with another girl and he just sed well y has it been a month wihtout u contacting me?


heklp people help help

no he didnt cheat

Answer 1

Let him and why he left you go...

You know it was for another girl and you have successfully been able to move on. Does your boyfriend know that you sent a text to your ex?

Truly - I don't think you would appreciate someone coming up to you at a fair and saying something to you regarding your boyfriend so its really not appropriate to do that to your ex.

When you see him in public places, if you can't just be civil, move on without saying (or texting) a word.

Miss Cris
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Answer 2

That was very confusing to read. WHy are you even talking to him if you have a new one. That is not fair. I know I go ape **** if my man is talking to his ex. It is not what you would want I am sure. Let it go. You seem young anyway. There will be plenty of more fish in the sea. And if you are with the new guy to make the old one jello then you gotta let him go. DOnt be with someone for the wrong reasons.

Answer 3

Good for you. So you toppled over the apple cart....cool beans. I'd suggest you hang on the the new boyfriend (the guy that took you to the fair) and continue to have a blast. The ex-boyfriend has already proven his character...surely you don't need another lesson, do you? He was involved with someone else behind your back when you dated him previously, so what do you need help with? Good Luck.

Answer 4

Stick to your reasons for dumping the previous one. Does teh new guy have some weakness which the old guy was covering. Evaluate both the guys and what you need from your 'guy' before taking next step.
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Tom
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Answer 5

He cheated, what else is there to say, of course he feels bad, he got caught. Keep moving forward, going backwards will only get you more of what you already had. Be strong and keep moving forward. Good luck and God bless

Answer 6

I don't see what you need help for.... Do you still like your ex? If you do, then he probably still likes you. If you like your boyfriend, then don't torment your ex by messaging him and explaining situations... that'll only hurt him more. Just apologize for breaking them up... and if you don't like him, don't falsely let him believe that you still care about him going out with other girls because then, he'll get his hopes up

Answer 7

You should have never talked to him in the first place..obviously you where thinking correctly when you 2 where going out since you seen him with that same girl. I dunno but i think you still have sum fe3lings..if u do you need to leave your current boyfriend and maybe try to talk to your ex ♥

Answer 8

if u have a new bf y r u trying to contact ur ex? u broke up for a reason.

Answer 9

so...what's the question??
You want to date him again? Your call. He's free, your not, but you called him, clearly you're still into him.
Flip a coin.

Answer 10

what is it you are looking for someone to fix your life...sorry it is up to you....