I know this sounds very weird, but... There was this guy I used to go to school with in USA, who I was pretty good friends with and we used to talk a lot with each other. I used to like him a lot. Later, I moved to Europe from the time I was in third grade and now it has been over eight years that I have not seen him. This year I went back to USA and met my ex-classmate. I realised that this same guy joined the school I was in right after I left and we called him and talked tonns and tonns about nothing and some more nothing. I was shown some pictures and I didn't get to meet him, but I started getting a crush on him. I am so CRAZY ABOUT HIM. It is weird, but I can't stop thinking about that guy - he is so charming. So, now I will visit again in a couple of months and I have no idea what to do when I meet him. How do I talk to him, give him signals or - I don't know. Advise needed!
2006-11-07 02:42:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am sorry I can't just walk up to him and tell him.
He does remember a lot about me too, apprently. He told me.
2006-11-07 02:51:49 · update #1
idk
2006-11-07 02:44:46 · answer #1 · answered by 1 luvly LEO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You HAVE to see him, there's just no two ways about that.
When you fall in love with someone before meeting them, truly in love, and you find chemistry when you do meet - oh my you are in for such a wonderful experience!!
You spoke tonnes and tonnes? You do realise he was on the other side, so if you spoke that much, and he did too, it's called BINGO!!!
You don't need to say ANYTHING... you just go over and meet him, and wait to see if there is a physical attraction to go with all that mental/ psychological/ spiritual heat. If he was not enjoying the conversation he would've hung up girl!!
Okay, so go and meet him, be yourself. Be happy and enjoy the moment. If you find there is chemistry, then look into his eyes a lot - he'll soon catch on, and if he's interested, a brush of hands, or a light touch on the arm when he makes you laugh is all a man needs to know the girl he wants is interested too. If it works out great, and if not, you have just made yourself the best friend ever and can look forward to hours of talking about nothing whenever either of you feels like it, without the strings.
Life is beautiful. Cease it. NOW - Go get him girl!
2006-11-07 10:52:06 · answer #2 · answered by Sugar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could just smack the person who answered this with "idk"!!! I hate when people do that! Anyway hon, I am sure you are very excited to see him again! Since you live such a far distance away, I don't think giving him clues and subtle hints is the way to go. Just be straight up with him and say, "I have had a crush on you since the 3rd grade and I'd love to get to know you better and see if we click..." That's all there is to it. If he has the same feelings, then you's can start a long-distance relationship. Thery can be very romantic:) Good luck and I hope he feels the same way about you!
2006-11-07 10:50:18 · answer #3 · answered by stacianastacia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And if the night runs over
And if the day won't last
And if your way should falter along the stony pass
It's just a moment
This time will pass...
What you don't have, you don't need it now
What you don't know, you can feel somehow.
2006-11-07 10:47:40 · answer #4 · answered by Js_5 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fantasy-land is wonderful, but things are different when you meet in person. Try being yourself and don't add more drama.
2006-11-07 10:49:46 · answer #5 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmmmmm
that sounds creepy, for him to want to meet u after talking a little, but.....be careful i guess
2006-11-07 10:46:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite yourself to his place and have crazy monkey sex
2006-11-07 10:48:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say everything str8 out.....guys like it that way
2006-11-07 10:45:41 · answer #8 · answered by roddy414 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋