Usually, when I meet a man,they usually say that they want to be my boyfriend, or plan to live with me, That they want to go out., but ALL i want is a friendship first, they are usually very FAST.How do i say that ?????
2006-11-07 02:45:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be honest with them! Say no and MEAN no!
2006-11-07 02:49:24 · answer #1 · answered by huggz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best way is upfront and honest. A quality person will accept it and a man not of quality will be offended, but if they are offended then you probably don't want a friendship or relationship with someone so volatile anyway.
Also keep in mind that love often starts as friendship. My hubby and I were friends before we dated. He's still my best friend.
2006-11-07 10:50:18 · answer #2 · answered by lorilou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply state, during the "dating phase" what your looking for, dont be snobby about it, just say your not looking for a relationship right now you want to date and keep your options open....
2006-11-07 10:47:20 · answer #3 · answered by voluptoustaureanfemale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you need to tell men what you want -- just pull back when they make advances of the kind you don't like.
2006-11-07 10:48:51 · answer #4 · answered by keyman_o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lets find out if we can be friends first then see if there is anything more
2006-11-07 10:48:09 · answer #5 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just b honest with them and tell them how u feel from the get, goodluck.
2006-11-07 10:52:53 · answer #6 · answered by D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Slow down! Let's get to know one another first."
2006-11-07 10:46:44 · answer #7 · answered by Lt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont lead them on and they will get the message
2006-11-07 10:48:18 · answer #8 · answered by kitten6444 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Would you like a hand job while we get to know each other?"
2006-11-07 10:48:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"all i want is a friendship"
2006-11-07 10:47:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋