After writing a question, someone told me that maybe I should start calling just a couple of times week. I had a previous issue of calling too much that caused a break and now we are back together and I don't want to loose him again. I have been calling once a day. Is it a good idea to cut back on calling to 2 times a week and if I do so, will he think its weird or welcome the break?
2006-11-07 02:47:24 · 9 answers · asked by Just a girl... 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sit down and chat to him ask him how many times he would like you too ring and then stick to it. if you explain to him you dont want to make mistakes this time round. good luck
2006-11-07 02:52:18 · answer #1 · answered by kitten6444 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if calling your boyfriend too much will cause to break up, then you should move on and be with someone else who doesn't mind you calling all the time, and wants to talk to you.
Before me and my husband got married, he used to call me every single day, sometimes like 3 or 4 times a day, and I don't mind when he calls me, because I like talking to him, even up till now we're married, he still calls me from work, and before he comes back home, that's what I call a good husband.
2006-11-07 02:53:12 · answer #2 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't know till you try!
Give him a chance to call you and see where it leads.
As for normal, depending on the relationship and how involved, once every 2-3 days is good as long as you actually have something to say. Don't just call him up and say "I was thinking of you and wanted to just say hi" ... or "are you thinking about me?" - guys are not into that.
Miss Cris
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2006-11-07 02:50:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um.. i would think that i u're in a relationship with someone they'll love to hear ur voice. once a day is fine. more than maybe six or seven for no reason is a little stalker-like. if he has a problem with u calling him once a day, he's a jerk!
2006-11-07 02:52:26 · answer #4 · answered by poison 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY ARE YOU LISTENING TO EVERYONE BUT ME !!! COME ON NOW CUT IT DOWN TO NOT AT ALL REALLY IS THIS GUY CALLING YOU AND RIGHT OFF THE BACK YOU ARE LOOKIN CRAZY, IF A PRIOR RELATIONSHIP FAILED THEN THINK THIS ONE THREW ONCE A WEEK IF YOU HAVE TO BUT IF HE LIKES YOU HE WILL BE CALLING, WHEN HE CALLS JUST LET HIM KNOW YOU LIKE HEARING HIS VOICE AND TALKING TO HIM IF HE CALLS BACK THEN THE FEELING IS MUTUAL.
2006-11-07 02:51:50 · answer #5 · answered by ?asker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if once a day is bothering him forget it-mine hates when i call but 2 times a week-NOT
2006-11-07 02:51:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well caring for someone i want to talk to them at least once a day ---- so dont cut back --- well i would not want to cut back
2006-11-07 02:51:01 · answer #7 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him how much is too much!
2006-11-07 02:50:20 · answer #8 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him every day......trust me i cant stand when i dont get a call
2006-11-07 02:49:48 · answer #9 · answered by roddy414 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋