Okay so this guy that I am talking to came over the other night after work and we just hung out,watched TV, and talked for like 2 hours and then we were talking and hes like are you ready for the next step and i was like what step and hes like a relationship and i said yea im ready for one then like a few seconds pass and im like well what about you and he said i dont know....why ask if you dont know??? and then hes like i didnt expect you to say yea..and then he leans in for a kiss and im like uh i need to go make sure my straightner is off and then we just went back to holding hands on the couch i dont get it why would he ask and then be like "i dont know"...and he is the one who has been calling and asking to come over and saying he misses me but then hes like i dont know if i want a relationship....whats up with that?
some info:
we are in our 20's
he has a kid
2006-11-07 02:51:50 · 9 answers · asked by Monica H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's confused and he probably was just seeing if you said yes. My advice is to not deal with it and not stress about it.
He'll respect you if you show you're not really worrying about it. Then if he really likes you, you'll know. If not, oh well.
2006-11-07 02:54:06 · answer #1 · answered by Js_5 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men can be weird,but just talk to him about how you feel right now.He may not want a relationship and he wanted to see where your mind was first,and now he doesent know how to tell you.You need a man,not a boy who cant communicate! Good luck!
2006-11-07 10:59:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know i dont understand that ither
he has a kid, has he been hurt before? if so he could be afraid of that happening again
talk it over with him
good luck
2006-11-07 10:53:54 · answer #3 · answered by Jordan Alexis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol- you actually type 'like'....
I'd say since he has a klid, maybe his last relationship didn't work well, and he's a bit wary this time around.
2006-11-07 10:53:47 · answer #4 · answered by wvucountryroads 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wasn't expecting you to return the question.
2006-11-07 10:55:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has no idea what he is doing -- he could also have been angling for sex
2006-11-07 10:56:34 · answer #6 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THey can't help it, there just not as good as us women.
2006-11-07 10:54:43 · answer #7 · answered by kiss me under the mistletoe 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
they just are!!
2006-11-07 10:53:54 · answer #8 · answered by cutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are STUPID!!!!!
2006-11-07 11:01:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋