I just broke up with my boyfriend for someone else and now we are together..and i feel like i did the wrong thing and i feel nervous everytime i get around him..was i wrong to end the realtionship for someone else?
2006-11-07 02:48:38 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well everyone would probably say oh my god ur so selfish thats nasty.. etc etc
but i mean if that guy was good enough for u u wouldn't break up with him right?
u obviously found some one better.
i just hope that there's proper reasons for wanting to be with this new guy.. not stuff lyk ooo he's so hot, or rich or wotever.
cuz then that is just sad..
but if thers proper reasons like you think he cares about u more, or he respects you, or i dunno things like that.
then theres nothing wrong with that!
you are the one that has to chose who you are with.
im quiet sure u havent done the wrong thing.
but even if u think u have.. its too late now, so stop worrying about it and hav fun with your life just learn from your mistakes :)
2006-11-07 02:54:37 · answer #1 · answered by Mj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the only one that can answer this question... Were you happy with BF#1, are you happy with BF#2? What made you break up with #1 in the first place? Do you think you did the wrong thing or is it just guilt because you hurt #1? Look at your situation from another perspective, you will be surprised with the answers you come up with. Hope everything works out for you....
2006-11-07 10:52:43 · answer #2 · answered by hoppinalongthelilypads 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should never end a relationship for someone else. if you want out of a relationship, you should do it for you, or for the fact that the relationship wasn't healthy. You probably feel nervous just because that's how it goes when you break up with someone. It's unconfortable, especially when you feel you did them wrong.
2006-11-07 10:53:12 · answer #3 · answered by Amanda SSS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends were you in love with the person u left if so its never gonna work out and if the guy u are with now it could of been just lust you may have felt good having all this attention from 2 people now that you left the 1st one you are probably feeling guilty
2006-11-07 10:51:41 · answer #4 · answered by Heather C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u didn't want 2 b with your boyfriend anymore than end the relationship was the best thing 2 do, but leaving him 4 another guy is wrong, goodluck.
2006-11-07 10:51:35 · answer #5 · answered by D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope.
In my opinion, you did the best for yourself.
He will find someone else and soon he will forget you.
Remember, breaking up is OK while you are dating.
Once you are marry, it's a big headache.
So go ahead, break up as much as you like while you are still dating. Find the right one so you will not fell sorry later. :)
2006-11-07 10:58:17 · answer #6 · answered by Tuan T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on how you ex treated you and how you are getting treated by the new man because the most important thing is that you are happy and make sure you get the respect and love you deserve.
2006-11-07 10:51:30 · answer #7 · answered by lilmomma91206 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as he doesn't think it was something he did and your honest it's always good to start a new relationship clean (no baggage) and it sound like you have some so stop dwelling and move on so that this relationship can last.
2006-11-07 12:39:58 · answer #8 · answered by ERIKA G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you wanted someone else at the time. if you dont feel easy around this guy maybe you should finish it and get back with your old boyfriend.
2006-11-07 10:53:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not as long as you were straight with your ex and made sure he understands that'a why...nothing that he did, you just liked someone else better....so you think. Don't give him any false readings.
2006-11-07 10:51:50 · answer #10 · answered by flashpro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋