Singles & Dating - 31 October 2006

if a girl is happy in her new relationship . . would she still be calling her ex that she dumped for this new guy every couple weeks? . . .even though he hasnt answered or sent her something back in 4 months? and she still tries to contact him . . also . . can girls act completely happy on the outside and really be torn up on the inside? is there any way to tell if a girl is feeling like that? . . and if she wanted her ex back why would she still be with me and acting fine? why wouldnt she go back to him? maybe because she dumped him and doesnt know if he will take her back? they did go out for 2 1/2 years so i dunno . .. whats goin on?
and she hasnt told me that shes been calling him . . . and we have been dating since april and have been in an actual relationship for like 2 months . . . how long would she use me as a rebound if thats what i am? wouldnt it be over by now? it been about a month since she called him now since she was calling him. . . so maybe she will stop . . .
then just today she sent an email to him . . . it was this

hey! i just wanted to tell you that i hope you had a good birthday. i was going to call but i figured you wouldnt answer like usual or stop by and give you a card but you would have probably acted like you werent home lol. so i hope you had a good one. it would really mean a lot if you just sent something back lettin me know how ya were doin and stuff...i'de really appreciate it (name)! kayyy bye. . .

so if he hasnt responded to her since june why is she still trying to get ahold of him . . . when he hasnt responded since june?

Additional Details

34 minutes ago
and then she just sent this message to him today


"look i know that you are getting my messages...i really just dont understand why you cant even say hi or something?? can you honestly please just give me a reason, like if it still upsets you or something, i mean thats fine. i just figured you could atleast do that for me...so please?"

2006-10-31 05:04:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

completed me.I found that my heart and mind where not insync.I let myself get caught up in "what the future will hold" and left my new love to go back to my boyfriend.Now that I am back, I find myself completely in love with new guy and only here with boyfriend to make him happy.I am 30 yrs old and feel like my life is a disaster.Do I follow my heart or do I stay and build a life that I know will be secure.I'm scared to make the wrong decision.B/f is 34, divorced 1x and is on the path to success,my new love is 31,divorced 2x and has 2 children.He has a good job and does what needs to be done. For me it is not about $,for you can love a rich man as well as you can love a poor man.I am just sooooooo confused and am in desperate need of some input. Please help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-10-31 05:04:01 · 16 answers · asked by Mystery Girl 3

i have known this guy for about two years when i was 18 and he was 22 me and this guy shared a kiss. which i had tingle from it and we slept together also. he asked me to brake up with my abusive boyfrind and he brake up with his girlfriend and said that i look very nice with .make up on. the thing is we stop all off this thing because he was me mum boyfriends son but on my 20 birthday he asked me to dance with him. when i was dancing he was watching me and also gave me a hug and a kiss on the cheek.and he sometimes says hello but what done my head in today i saw he in the pub and he didnt say hello or looked at me. but he was talking to his mate at the time. unless he was in a funny mood i dont know or could it be because my mum she doesnt like him i dont know why i asked her but she hasnt told me and she didnt agree with me and him but his dad was fine about it do u think this guy doesnt fancey me any more ???i am 21 and he is 25

2006-10-31 05:03:15 · 12 answers · asked by yates1239 2

How many of you like a man with a deep voice? Something about that voice gets me going. I don't care what he's saying. Just as long as he keeps talking. I think I've been close to orgasm just talking to a man. Maybe I'm just nuts but anyone else like that?

2006-10-31 05:03:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-31 05:02:01 · 10 answers · asked by maricela m 1

I am in a dilemma.

my gal suspects that i distrust her by posing another guy to test her if she might be interested in him.

she also wonder too, i believe, that i flirt with other gals.

i do have other female friends, but i took them as pure platonic friendship and my conversation with them is plain as bore. but they does like my company cos my conversation with them is always clean. perhaps that is why they find refreshing from other guys who seek them for sexual advances.

I like to talk with the gals cos i found that they have relationship problems and i hope that i can help them on this. i enjoy doing this as i know ppl appreciate my listening ear and i do hope they could marry faithful husband and not those who flirt or sweet talk.

how will u feel or react if u are me? gals or guys input much appreciated.

i am looking forward for a marriage with my gal and to be faithful to her and keep to marriage vow is something a cherished dream for me since i was 15, i am now 33. tks.

2006-10-31 05:01:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-31 05:01:45 · 24 answers · asked by michael s 1

what is it that first attracts you to a guy. what is it that iniatilaly draws you into to a guy without talking to them or knowing them.

pls could girls/women around the age of 20 answer

2006-10-31 05:01:39 · 19 answers · asked by blu 2

we do it all the time at least twice a day almost every day but I still masturbate and fantasize about other men and having threesomes with my fiancee and someone else. by the way the sex with my man is great!!!

2006-10-31 05:00:40 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm in love with my long-distance boyfriend we have had this relationship for a few years now, we met before and spent time together, but live in diffrent places, recently he asked me if i would consider marrying him and i told him yes, but a couple weeks ago i started getting closer to someone i have been friends with for some time and this happened because my long-distance boyfriend cheated and confessed so i felt betrayed, was pissed because i had never had sex with anyone the whole time we were involved,

anyway me and this guy have been friends for a few years, and we started getting closer and eventually ended up in bed, it was not planned but it happened so quickly, i am wondering if i would be wrong to continue a romantic relationship with this friend or have sex with him again cuz it was great
i love my long-distance boyfriend very much, but cannot be sure if he is cheating again or not and and i don't want to be a fool

2006-10-31 04:58:24 · 11 answers · asked by nicky 1

2006-10-31 04:58:17 · 20 answers · asked by saranjit k 1

some one tell me please

2006-10-31 04:57:32 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

I get my haircut at this hair school and shes a student and she cut's my hair...anyways I been there the first time she was asking me alot of questions not really personal and plus shes a hair stylist shes supposed to be outgoing...i went there the 2nd time and as she was calling my name and she saw my face shewas like smiling like she was shocked and said hey....she had told me something about...she saw my name in the list...i didnt really understand what she said (kinda mumbled or idk) anyways we talked a little only this time and she mentioned shes graduating in 2 weeks and i wa slike ur getting ur bachelors? she wa slike no from this school ....( i totallyforgot she didnt go to a college) then after taht it was quiet but i did ask what her plans were she was like u know idk im not sure...later on i asked her if she shops at this store i work in and she was like not really i was like well heres ad iscount she wa slike my bro shops there i wa slike yeah give it to him or w.e she said

2006-10-31 04:57:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my boy friend just broke up. now heres the twisted part... he hardly tlked to me and he just did't act like a bf. so a while back he smashed his car up real bad, right? and he told me we should break up til he gets his new car... what would u say to him.... to get the point through that u like him still and want to make it work.... he still likes me too... (and if ur gunna put a nasty answer don't bother writing)

2006-10-31 04:56:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just started going out with my ex-roomate. How we met is very complicated, but we have known each other for almost a year now and we just started to date two months ago. I know my heart belongs to him and no one else will ever love me like he does. Lately I have been going to his house and we make out and he starts to take off my clothes and we end up in his bed, but we haven't had sex yet. Is this wrong? I know when I finnaly decide that I am ready that he will be my first, but will he grow tired of waiting for me to make up my mind?

2006-10-31 04:56:14 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay I don't need anything dirty...or anything too deep...just something that say, "I like you".
There's this one girl i like, i've joking around with her. She laugh or at least smile at my stoopid joke...I want something more than a joke but nothing dirty or deep....
So can u help me...
10 points.................................plzzz

2006-10-31 04:56:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is what I am going to tell my "gf". I say it like that b/c she's been so distant lately and she is really torn up about what she wants. It's like there's two of her, one that loves me and one that refuses to love anyone. She has said before (we HAVE talked about this stuff) that her relationships always end up here, she ends up pulling away. Anyways, I am just going to tell her to take some time, but I want her to figure out if I am who she wants or if maybe she just has never found someone who is just right for her. What do you think? I really only want her to be happy and know we could never be happy if she's not. How long would it take some of you to figure this out? If it's any consideration, we've been "dating" for about 6 mos.

2006-10-31 04:55:56 · 4 answers · asked by randyken 6

for 5 1/2 years. how do we keep a relationship alive? We are on another level of commitment now as we are living together. how do I keep him interested in me? What exactly is a relationship supposed to be like? We seem happy - but I dont want him to grow sick of it.

what exactly does a man want out of a relationship?

2006-10-31 04:53:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-31 04:53:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think I am playing "hard to get", but not on purpose - my man wants me to say I love him over and over. I am a very reserved person, i speak with my actions. Him on the other hand, he is very vocal. I can write better then speaking. I can express, better by writing to him (words flow easily). I am just a hopeless romantic. How can I open myself up to him, he always says that i judge him by asking questions. He says that he is "in love" with me and "wants" me. He is 35, divorced w/3 kids (joint custody), I am 28 a single mother..........what do u all think is goin thru his head, and how should i feel?

2006-10-31 04:53:04 · 8 answers · asked by Fairytale_girl 1

2006-10-31 04:50:47 · 26 answers · asked by Joe S 1

how do you find someone to share your life with if you do not go to the popular places to meet people

2006-10-31 04:50:27 · 6 answers · asked by just4me1165 1

2006-10-31 04:50:00 · 19 answers · asked by A True Gentleman 5

2006-10-31 04:48:52 · 2 answers · asked by Maria O 1

My girlfriend(I use the term very loosely here) and we have been together for a very short time. Its been kind of a whirlwind romance unfortunately plagued by great distance. She recently told me that she would be understanding of my "needs" due to the distance between us. What exactly does that sound like to you? Is that understanding or a lack of interest in commitment? (feel free to be descriptive because I am very confused at this point)

2006-10-31 04:48:40 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

How can I get over my ex boyfriend? I was with him for only 4 months but I really liked him loads, and I still do. It's been 6 months since we broke up, so I know it is really pathetic. I have had other boyfriends since but I still really like this guy. Before he split up with me everything seemed fine, the week before he told me how much he cared about me, brought me flowers over and chocolates etc. But then the next week he said he had been thinking and he didn't want a girlfriend? Now he won't hardly even speak to me and the last time I did talk to him was when I gave him and his friend a lift home after a night out and all he went on about was some girl he got with that night?! I'm confused!

2006-10-31 04:47:27 · 12 answers · asked by hannahrarian 1

2006-10-31 04:47:11 · 9 answers · asked by Jackie 3

they should be more indepent on themselves

2006-10-31 04:47:01 · 13 answers · asked by michael s 1

i used to do it almost daily. but now i thnk somthng prblm in it. bcoz almost all the religions says to avoid it to maximum.

is there side effectss or anythng lik tht to my body or mind?

2006-10-31 04:46:07 · 31 answers · asked by TOMY V 1

i didnt think it was, because i never tried. but heres the deal. i met a dude from aus about 5 months back on myspace (i know iknow) and we get along wonderfully and in this time, we feel like we are very much into each other. we talk on the phone all the time, webcam, msn...ect. we have plans to meet and stuff. the reaosn i feel its possible is because we've gotten to know each others personality and arent so drowned in physical aspects of things i dont know, what do ya'll think?

2006-10-31 04:45:19 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous