Singles & Dating - 30 October 2006

2006-10-30 05:00:08 · 24 answers · asked by chesscrazz 1

was reading about attraction.

mostly biological reasons. eg facial symmetry, cute infant-like features and expression, and proper proportions of face.

on body, a 70% waist-hip ratio is the optimum.

as 4fat/skinny, depends on introversion/extrov*(in fact most quieter introvert guys prefer small breasts), +overall ego same reasons why sum women mor concerned w/ height than others.

generally has very little to do with the media and what ur friends think, and different societies will have different preferences depending on the environment, things like that. eg fiji

proof is fact that despite XTREME thinness promoted by fashion magazines, virtually same number men have this preference(a low number) as if didnt exist.

virtually no males are primarly attractd 2anorexics.

we're IN8LY WAY more concerned, w/ looks than most conventionly brain-head party-girls, apart height.

so how easy is it for a not-desperate man with a lot of selfrespect 2 make himslf like biologicaly ugly women?

2006-10-30 04:59:21 · 6 answers · asked by doe12345 1

If i gave you my heart, could you make it start?
Do you have the ducktape to ducktape my heart back together?
If i gave you my soul, could you make is whole?
If i gave you the sun, would you make me one?
If i gave you me, would that set you free?
what would you do if i gave you my all
would you give me a call and hold me so i won't fall?

2006-10-30 04:59:05 · 21 answers · asked by Youngling 4

2006-10-30 04:57:44 · 21 answers · asked by chesscrazz 1

this girl means the world to me she lives in another state and I havent seen her in 5 years but she means the world to me and I love her so much and when I talk to her I feel like apart of me comes to life. Every time I hear Far Away by Nickelback I start crying cause it describes how are relationship has been . I have no idea how she feels about me and She is coming up for the holidays so should I tell her then I am so confused. Girls would you think its weird if someone you havent seen in 5 years told you how much they love you and everyday with out you is torture and you love them so much. Be honest I would rather you be honest then tell me what you think I want to hear. Thank you

2006-10-30 04:57:02 · 40 answers · asked by Redd_09_hawaiian 1

We've been together for almost 5 years. We count on each other for everything. and we both have future plans, academic and professional. but we need to separate (move to different countries) for a while. Still, its in my plans to marry him and have kids, etc... We broke up 7 months ago, but still go out, kiss, sleep together, and everyhting. He isnt seeing anyone else. Nor am I. Were still a couple, but without the pressure and formality. I feel he Genuinely Loves me, but is afraid to admit and accept it. But some friends say its only for the sex. What do you think. Is it solely sex, or does he love me but is afraid to accept it. He's 25 and I'm 23.

2006-10-30 04:55:49 · 35 answers · asked by ssota 1

My bf and i have a tirbulent relationship sometimes breaking up three times in one week over piety arguments over anything.This has been going on for a year the getting back together and breaking up all the time. Jealousy attacks on both sides and bad argument where things get thrown.We are both in college which does not help.We are both polar opposites me the good girl, with good grades who is shy, but likes to let loose sometimes when with friends. Him the bad boy who is smart but cuts class and passes by skin of his teeth is very outgoing and thinks he nows everything!We are both stubborn and he likes to mess with me to get me mad and both of us has a temper.

2006-10-30 04:54:16 · 7 answers · asked by Tiffancy L 1

If u felt someone was 'the one' for u, even though u split up, n looks unlikely to get back together, is it possible to get over that person, and fall in love again? Or do u think u should fight for what u want, even if it means u making a constant fool of urself?..thanx

2006-10-30 04:51:59 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex-boyfriend treated me like crap, broke up with me for no reason and told me to never talk to him. Real easy when we work together, huh? Well, we have been getting along fine as friends until he pretty much insulted me the other day. I am so frusturated because I want him to realize that he is the one who hurt me, not vice-versa. If anything he should be the one walking on egg shells around me and not vice versa. Should I talk to him and tell him how I feel, even though I could never do that before? Or should I leave it alone, get over my anger and resentment and move on with life?

2006-10-30 04:51:32 · 7 answers · asked by ms. fix-it 2

so he want 2 be with me but his friend are bothering him about being with me so do we break up or still togeter

2006-10-30 04:51:12 · 13 answers · asked by sweetangel 1

My friend is in love with a guy but I think she is wasting her time. She said they revealed their fondness for each other in April and proceeded to kiss. She performed oral on him (he did nothing for her). She asked if he wanted to come back to her place and he replied no, that he wanted to "take it slow." They continued to see one another ( a movie here, bowling there but no intimacy). She found out he got involved with another girl, intimately, in June. In October, he came to her birthday bar hopping party and she learned that he no longer had a girlfriend. On the way to the bar, she rode with him and they began to get intimate, he whipped "it" out (as he had done before and she performed oral). As before, each time she asks him out, he makes an excuse. She asked me what she should do. I really think he just likes her for the "intimacy" he gets. What do you think? She doesn't believe me.

2006-10-30 04:49:12 · 8 answers · asked by terryoulboub 5

okay i have this girl i was with and she said she just wanted to be friends until i'll relationship get better. And i still love her and she says she still love me and lately we have been hanging out going to the movies and talking to each other alot and i feel i have changed but im just wondering from a woman's view will u take a man back in fall in love with him again if u think he have changed because i dont think she will still be hanging out with me and letting me watch her child if she didnt still love me and want to give me a second chance. And how long do u think it will take for a woman to fall back in love with someone do it take weeks or months. And is it possible

2006-10-30 04:49:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

It's tough i'm taking courses online to learn a bit of simple words,kinda frustrating though.You think this relation ship will work?

2006-10-30 04:47:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and i have been together 3 years on november 2 but his birthday is november 1st.... so we usually celebrate his birthday on our anniversary... I have over done the gifts, the first time i got him a $1,500 movado watch then i got him a $1,700 lap top and i did all the sweet things like i don't know what to buy him like all the little nick knacks clothes cologne i buy him for fun and this year for my birthday he went completely all out he spent over $6,000 to make it unforgetabble Now my question is i am really tight on money but i really want to make his birthday unforgettable too. What should i do or what could i get him? but still could be in my budget...? nothing over $300.00 Help please...

2006-10-30 04:47:31 · 16 answers · asked by candylbsb45 2

He had a dream the other night that I got married and seemed pretty sad about it and was calling me like crazy since that dream. He didn't want me to go to store late last night to get him some soup (he's sick) because he doesn't want me out that late at night. We've been dating now for a year and a half.

2006-10-30 04:46:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

if a girl is happy in her new relationship . . would she still be calling her ex that she dumped for this new guy every couple weeks? . . .even though he hasnt answered or sent her something back in 4 months? and she still tries to contact him . . also . . can girls act completely happy on the outside and really be torn up on the inside? is there any way to tell if a girl is feeling like that? . . and if she wanted her ex back why would she still be with me and acting fine? why wouldnt she go back to him? maybe because she dumped him and doesnt know if he will take her back? they did go out for 2 1/2 years so i dunno . .. whats goin on?
and she hasnt told me that shes been calling him . . . and we have been dating since april and have been in an actual relationship for like 2 months . . . how long would she use me as a rebound if thats what i am? wouldnt it be over by now? it been about a month since she called him now since she was calling him. . . so maybe she will stop . . .
then just today she sent an email to him . . . it was this

hey! i just wanted to tell you that i hope you had a good birthday. i was going to call but i figured you wouldnt answer like usual or stop by and give you a card but you would have probably acted like you werent home lol. so i hope you had a good one. it would really mean a lot if you just sent something back lettin me know how ya were doin and stuff...i'de really appreciate it (name)! kayyy bye. . .

so if he hasnt responded to her since june why is she still trying to get ahold of him . . . when he hasnt responded since june?

Additional Details

34 minutes ago
and then she just sent this message to him today


"look i know that you are getting my messages...i really just dont understand why you cant even say hi or something?? can you honestly please just give me a reason, like if it still upsets you or something, i mean thats fine. i just figured you could atleast do that for me...so please?"

2006-10-30 04:44:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to date one but someone told me that in general they

(a) do not date
(b) if they do, they will only date from their own caste

Anyone know more about this?

2006-10-30 04:42:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

wat if u r committed but u find another guy softer in heart than ur harsher in heart bf?....n that guy is serious about u too, for a relationship n u too get infatuated wid that guy

2006-10-30 04:41:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay, he likes me i like him--but we only talk through myspace, and we dont talk at school, what do u thinks going on??? what can i do

2006-10-30 04:40:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

somebody said it's feeling a feeling or something you've never felt before. am confused bout it all.

2006-10-30 04:40:28 · 3 answers · asked by Yadnus 1

We were engaged for about a month, met online about 2 months before hand. It still hurts, will for a while, but I was asked out last night by a good friend of mine....

2006-10-30 04:38:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-30 04:37:51 · 15 answers · asked by hossein 1

What cha plans?
What cha costume?

2006-10-30 04:36:32 · 10 answers · asked by just1more 3

I've been seeing someone on and off for a year and now the dynamics are changing. How can both people be satisifed without one feeling cheated and the other feeling pressured? Is it possible to go from a sexual relationship with expectations to a sexual relationship without expectations and to always maintain the objective of the relationship; which is to be friends no matter what? This is a tough one, I know; but one worth exploring. Relationships are never as simple as: Ask a question///get an answer. But, please try. Thanks.

2006-10-30 04:35:21 · 18 answers · asked by boo 1

Ok so I have dated this guy for four years now and we are sorta still together but dont have the "title." We are college students and he loves to party, dance with girls, and has a history of lying to me. He always tells me he could never lose me and if he did his life would be hell. I cannot trust him anymore. I dont have that attraction anymore either.

Recently I met a guy at work and I am starting to like him. I hung out with him all night Saturday night and we have been talking on the phone. My question is, How do I tell the guy that I have been seeing for 4 years that its over without breaking his heart? Also, should I be honest about the other guy or just wait to tell him that?

2006-10-30 04:33:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

How can I stop obsessing about sex. I think it is because I am a 24 year old virgin, and I want to wait for my soul mate. This is the hardest thing I have ever tried to over come in my life. I think about sex all the time. I think about it so much that I have even started to hate it. I also want to give in on waiting for my soul mate but I really don't want to so please help me with any ideas on stopping obsessing about sex thank you.

2006-10-30 04:32:04 · 25 answers · asked by ? 1

I'm a 26 year old white male in McDonough, GA.....and there seems to be very few girls who just looking for fun and NOT trying to get married!! Let me know if any of you girls from the south Atlanta area and just looking for fun!

2006-10-30 04:31:50 · 3 answers · asked by Justin L 1

Why is this question asked so obsessively? There never has been, nor will there ever be, a consistent answer. Womens prefences vary. This is about insecurity. We men are just too insecure. Who agrees with me that the size question has no single answer?

2006-10-30 04:31:15 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im trying to get a present for my best friend/ x gf i know what to get her I want to get her a cell phone and I would pay for it every month. I know this would be the best present, but here is the problem right now i live in FL and she lives in GA Im moving back so but for now Im here. I would have to buy the phone in GA right? How would i do this.plz help I really one to get her a cell phone.

2006-10-30 04:30:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I’ve just recently started a new job; the team I work in consists of me and three other people. We all get on well, there’s one girl who’s three years older then me, and during one conversation regarding another co-workers marriage, she asked me if I had a girlfriend (which was totally from nowhere, and was directed to me whilst other colleagues were still talking to each other, so no one apart from me actually heard what she said). Me being rather shy, I just said “no” and laughed it off, she then apologised and said she shouldn’t of asked (considering we don’t even no each other that well at all).

Now, I’m just wondering if this in fact means anything. Because I do really like this girl, but I’m not sure if I should flirt with her, or should I enquire why she asked me that question? I would just like to know people’s thought’s, it probably might not have meant anything at all LOL.

2006-10-30 04:29:59 · 15 answers · asked by sonnysingh85 1