Singles & Dating - 25 October 2006

2006-10-25 03:27:48 · 3 answers · asked by Katie 1

a romantic girl, whos fun to be around, and you feel comfortable around.

or

an easy girl, who you only see when you want sex? who you are not emotionally connected with at all.

just wondering as i upset me when my ex boyfriend dumped me because 'i want you to become the second option, and not be the first one. '

2006-10-25 03:26:56 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

a guy friend of mine once told me that he thinks the reason there are bad men is because of bad women. he said he thinks the bad men were actually good at one point in their lives, but became that way because of female rejection. i knew some guys who were really sweet and kind but at that time didnt get any girls, but now they are rude and arent good men, but they get all the women.

2006-10-25 03:26:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

A friend is pressuring me to take the train because "it would be good for me", but I live real close to work, I think it would take more time to metro in than driving my car.

I am a single Mother of two, with time restrictions.

2006-10-25 03:25:48 · 6 answers · asked by Lovely B 3

The idea that guys should wait for sex in order to show respect, I don't understand it.

I'm sorry but waiting and showing respect in my book are not directly linked ! Either a person is either

a) respectful of others feelings, property, themselves etc
b) a disrespectful person and a cheat.
c) somewhere between (a) and (b)

Surely there are better ways of finding out if someone is respectful or not, this doesn't seem a good test to me. It seems extreamly unreliable and fraught with error.

I presume you women have other ways of deciding whether a guy is worthy of your love or not and you are not too reliant on this waiting rule

Furthermore I'm concerned that women are using this test, and then realising that the guy is a nightmare and then blaming the whole of mankind as a result instead of blaming the tests that they used when they first went out with the guy.

Hope it's not too heavy, but your views please!

2006-10-25 03:24:00 · 12 answers · asked by lifeontrack2006 4

2006-10-25 03:23:01 · 6 answers · asked by ROUGHPANTHER 1

Check this out Yahoo. I slept with a co-worker about two weeks ago. I am black and she is white. We slept together and went to work the following Monday and everything was cool, now she is acting all standoffish like she doesn't even want to speak with me. What's going on here.

2006-10-25 03:22:16 · 14 answers · asked by chamar_h 1

I had a stupid message from a little girl the other day and I had own my opinion about age group I perfer to date. I am sticking with it so she caught feeling like most people her age group 18-22 I'm 34 I don't date females that age group I perfer 25-35 that's my level it shows how immure and insecure she is I think the broad needs to grow up! So what do you think?

2006-10-25 03:20:54 · 1 answers · asked by ken31pop 2

I have a friend with benefits and sometimes i feel as if he doesnt want to get to know me beyond the sex. this is the same guy that had split personalities one day he is okay and the next he is not. I put him on blast and told him that there is more to me than just sex and that if didnt want to get to know me beyond the sex then he could just hit the road. To make a long story short he has been calling asking about my day for the past two days. I dont know if he really cares or if he is doing this to continue to sleep with me. what do you think?

2006-10-25 03:19:12 · 11 answers · asked by cmkp2000 1

I got dumped 3 months ago by my ex. We lived together for 3 years. She was pretty ruthless with the breakup although has given very confusing and mixed messages when-ever I see her (ie; such as kissing me a month ago and saying she "loves me" with tears in her eyes), although we never talk now

In the last two weeks I have been at the same work functions as her on at least 3 occassions and she doesn't acknowledge my presence, although I haven't waved/smiled at her either. It seems as though she leaves the event once I am there as well

What is going on in her head - is this hate, guilt, ambivalence? I just dont get why an adult after 3 great years would act like this. The history doesnt go away. I don't buy all this "no contact" stuff; it seems like its just a way of acting like you never gave a damn

2006-10-25 03:18:01 · 18 answers · asked by afterdinnermint 2

alrite me and dis boy went out 4 9 months and it was cool at most times but by the 7 month things changed we both changed he wasnt so nice and i wasnt so caring bout the attenion i got from other boyz good or bad. our realtoinship was secret no one knew we just had to keep it dat way. somtimes he would make me feel like the most beautiful girl in the world and when i was with him i was just 2 happy but at times he would get mad cuz he thought i was tring to get with all his friends i was just being friendly he expected me to be mean or somthing then there came the hitting and showing out i dint think nothing of it untill i realized it was bad for him 2 be choking me hitting me spiting on me aiming 4 my face with his fist and just calling me names hoes and just everything but he swear he loved me. he would say sorry and say he felt bad and was gon stop but he still hits me to this day and talks to other gurls and everything i kno i shoulnt even be with help

2006-10-25 03:17:42 · 1 answers · asked by it's HG !! 2

girl is older than guy about 2.5 years. They have know each other for 3 years but have only dated 2 times. The guy has been in and out of girls life for years only to have come back in her life.they are now together and have been for 3 months. Do they have some kind of megnetic connection?

2006-10-25 03:17:19 · 10 answers · asked by young at heart 1

2006-10-25 03:14:17 · 12 answers · asked by hotdrumstix 1

what turns your motor on and makes it purrr. what's the best way to heat you up? for me it's a great smelling perfum,, and her in stockings and heels. gets me everytime.

2006-10-25 03:14:12 · 16 answers · asked by Rooster 3

we have been together now for almost a year the problem is that he used to love chatting on the net and I started doing it aswell but now we have both stopped, the thing with him is that he wanted to know exactly who I was chatting to and also used to check my emails but I was never aloud to see his chats or even look at his phone so I just mereley had to except the fact that it was all clean chats but how do I do that if he prevents me from checking, to me its like he is hiding something..........but anyways he caught me quite a few times lying about chatting and sending emails and no no its was all clean chats and emails but now he is finding it very hard to trust me and to believe in me because of me lying to him saying was not chatting and also deleting all evidence. So yes he has all right to not trust me , but how do i gain his trust back, i love him so much and want things to work and understand he needs time but are we both in the wrong or just me. I do hope we wil make it

2006-10-25 03:13:56 · 6 answers · asked by Chevonne 1

I feel like there are no guys out there that want me. I just wish I could find one guy that does!!

2006-10-25 03:13:34 · 16 answers · asked by Shortie 1

He told me he likes me a lot but hes not ready for a relationship because he just out of a very bad,controlling relationship but now he wont answer his phone or answer the text messages i send him.And he is also keeping things from me.I have known for quite a while now that he has a kid and he still has yet to tell me about it.

2006-10-25 03:12:11 · 23 answers · asked by xxrlhoodratxx 2

Would you ever hit a girl? What about ur girlfriend?
My boyfriend hits me and i'm scared to leave him. HELP!!

2006-10-25 03:12:09 · 21 answers · asked by EmoLover 1

have you broken up with your SO? I think we broke up but for no good reason. I still want her. Any success stories or advice?

2006-10-25 03:11:05 · 5 answers · asked by randyken 6

Like about a month ago he told me that we should put things on pause and i ingored it and didn't pay attention to much and i stop calling me but he called me & i never did answer until one day I finally did and he told me that he need to talk to me i was like about what so he said that he was going call me back because he was a work and we talked or whateva but when he said I love you and he know me and him wasn't getting along at that time i just knocked it off like okay whatevs. Now he's saying that we need to get on a new strat saying i love you again insted of hanging up the phone saying bye. But he's beating around the bush wot that though if u know what I mean.

2006-10-25 03:10:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-25 03:10:12 · 7 answers · asked by ROUGHPANTHER 1

Well first i don't have a b/f and I need lovin and you know how girls are. Second I' always so board and theres nothin to do!!! And thirdly I am stressing out like a freak here PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-10-25 03:09:20 · 7 answers · asked by mandy 2

I have this bf who seems to care for me but I keep catching him in little white lies, nothing harmful but still, lies. He has this women who calls every now and then, ok fine I have no problem with a man having female friends, but why does she call at 12 midnight. Well I just have this "gut feeling" something else is going on. Who really believes in completley going with there gut in making final decisions.

2006-10-25 03:07:00 · 23 answers · asked by Robynette 1

I’m going to attempt to nut shell this story. My best friend, Lauren and I have known each other for over 10 years. We are now both 25. A year ago we became closer than we’ve ever been after having gone through similar break ups, graduating college, and finding independency. We clubbed on weekends and would crash at night at either her place or mine. Both of us are successful, attractive and intelligent women, who have fun, but are also very responsible, sensible adults.
One night at my place we ended up fooling around. This went on for a few months and then we both started dating other people. We decided we would go back to “just being friends” but our urge to be together was so strong that if we were ever alone we would end up in bed together. None of us had ever liked girls before, we have always considered ourselves straight, but now realize that we are both probably bi. This went on for another couple of months of random kisses and touches when we could manage them. And this all went on while we were both starting to get serious with our boyfriends. This became so confusing to us we didn’t know what we were going to do about it, how it was going to affect our friendship and our relationships with our boyfriends. We were also both at the stage where settling down would be the next step in our lives. The secret of being in love with each other (“in love” as in lust+friendship love) was getting too much for us to handle as well as the guilt of then pretending with our boyfriends that we were being faithful to them. At one point the guilt consumed Lauren and she said she couldn’t do it anymore, I agreed. So now we are both back to being friends, even though now and then we may talk about it or joke about it. I don’t know how she is feeling about it because we try not to talk about it too much, but I am still haunted with the memories and whenever I hear her voice I want her all over again, but I don’t say anything.
I love my boyfriend and we are planning on getting married. Lauren is on the same boat.
So my question is, was it cheating when Lauren and I were seeing each other when we had boyfriends? And is it cheating now that we still think about it even though we are no longer physical?

2006-10-25 03:06:20 · 7 answers · asked by aidances 1

Has anyone ever actually talked to, met, or plan to meet anyone that they have met here on answers ? If so, how'd it go ? Where are you from ?

2006-10-25 03:05:53 · 5 answers · asked by scottm 1

2006-10-25 03:05:19 · 3 answers · asked by awg 2

2006-10-25 03:04:58 · 22 answers · asked by ponypuffgirl 2

I've been going out with a really nice girl for a couple of months and so far we haven't had a single fight about anything. Eventually, I'm sure we will because every couple has a disagreement sometimes but how do you handle it whenever your bf/gf/wife/husband (or whatever) get into a heated arguement?

2006-10-25 03:04:28 · 6 answers · asked by osunumberonefan 5

2006-10-25 03:02:45 · 20 answers · asked by RACHAEL R 2

2006-10-25 03:00:07 · 10 answers · asked by young at heart 1