Singles & Dating - 25 October 2006

- He is my " Friend- Lover" . How I can change him to my reall boyfriend????
I know he Loves me ( in his way) , but I am afraid that he sees me more as a friend or to available for him ??!

2006-10-25 03:59:28 · 10 answers · asked by awg 2

When he was feeling me, I wasn't interested!

Months later, we were together.

Now, I am really feeling him...and he shows no interest.

He experince the same thing in the past.

I think it all a chain......what do you think?

2006-10-25 03:56:04 · 14 answers · asked by stress77mulah 3

My man goes to his friends almost every night and gets high and drunk. He then comes home and usually starts an argument or says really mean things to me. The next morning he usually doesnt remember the things he said. During the day he is just fine. Even if we get high together he is still mean. I have asked him to cut down but he doesnt. What do I do?

2006-10-25 03:56:02 · 25 answers · asked by Teri M 2

Give a detailed answer and if possible, relate it to your own experience. What are the downfalls, if any, of such encounters?

2006-10-25 03:54:34 · 24 answers · asked by Jo 4

You always hear men say she's a 6 or an 8.

Well boys, lay it all out for me.

What is the scale?
For example. 1-4 bleow average
5-6 average
7-8 above average
9-10 way above average

Now that is my accessment.
What do the numbers mean to you guys??

2006-10-25 03:54:12 · 8 answers · asked by *Lovely* 2

If your mom said you could not date the person you wanted because he was black. . . She has threatned to kick me out 5 or 6 times in the past year and I am tired of it I wanna go and I have place to go. . .She has also tried to say it's my fault my grandfather it dieing and It's not he has cancer I can not help that even though I wish he didn't the person I am dating is amaing and would never hurt me and my mom can't believe that because he is black i can't hang out with my best friend anymore because her grand parents think that my mom is crazy (i agree) she braged about sending me to a doctor because my boyfriend happens to be black and I dated a few black guys last year to but its not like I won't date a white guy my mom told me the only reason that I date black guys is because I have low self-esteem and they make me feel better (I beg to differ) but all my stuff is packed should I move out or not. . . would you (and yea I do have a place to go. . .)

2006-10-25 03:52:35 · 34 answers · asked by Smile 2

I feel im neva satisfied when im with a person that likes me more than i like him...being with a person that i like more, gives me satisfaction and happiness and when im with a guy that likes me a lot...i feel im not attracted to him...even tho i kno its prob best to go for a guy who treats me nice and cares about me...but i can't help feeling attracted to guyz who are cold emotionaless and act like he doesn't care....is there something wrong with me? does anyone else feel this way?

2006-10-25 03:52:22 · 5 answers · asked by Forever happy 3

Every day as I get older I realise about how little I actually know about life. I realise previous rules, thoughts etc just don't add up.

So if you look at your dating rules, criteria for sex etc etc Are they any good or are they nice idea, sound sophisticated but really just a load of tosh.

Alternatively have you inherited rules from friends and family and are you living there dreams.

2006-10-25 03:51:26 · 9 answers · asked by lifeontrack2006 4

Does this mean that a guy who is 7 on the looks scale will have to try much harder than someone who is 9 , and it implies that someone who is 9 will have to put in much less effort to get the girl. how does the whole thing work ?

2006-10-25 03:47:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

being a emotional girl...when i start to like someone, i end up falling for them before they fall for me...this usually leads to me being the one gettin hurt...how do i control my feelings so i won't like the other person more than he likes me?

2006-10-25 03:45:49 · 16 answers · asked by Forever happy 3

2006-10-25 03:45:05 · 6 answers · asked by Fábioelf 4

1) I do care for her everyday
2) Take her to good luxury restaurant
3) Prove her that I make foods for her
4) spend time with her the most than friends in the weekend
5) Play guitar and make lovely music
6) Come visit her parents on Sunday day light time only
7) Leave her when she's study for exam
8) Help each other problem in University Campus (Library)
9) Never cheat on her
10) sex is not very important in my relationship
11) good heart and great listening
12) cook for her when she's need them
13) try not make her angry or sad

2006-10-25 03:42:47 · 14 answers · asked by Herry S 1

Ive got a very good friend that went overseas. I guess his internet access isnt as reliable as in America, and we use to talk every single day for hours. It sucks when I dont hear from him in a day. Three days with nothing in my inbox feels shitty. Anyway, how do I tell him to try to write more?! without sounding insecure and demanding?

2006-10-25 03:41:10 · 6 answers · asked by dustin m 1

Follow up. I havent slept with the guy in a while. We were at a party and i was flirting with other guys ignoring him and he didnt like it at all,but he says that we are just friends. Im getting mixed emotions about the whole situation.If we were just friends then he wouldnt care.right

2006-10-25 03:40:46 · 18 answers · asked by cmkp2000 1

the one you were dating was the "one"? What convinced you or made you sure? I have never felt like this before, but I guess that's the point.

2006-10-25 03:39:43 · 4 answers · asked by randyken 6

my ex of 9 months is back. he got a lot of gurls and he constantly cheat on them telling him he love them. hes just a big head he think just because he got light brown eyes and is tall wit muscles he can just have anygurl he want. he like to use me. since we broke up i have not been with no other boy he was and still is my first. most of the time hes mean to me. some would say abusive but i just dont care i mean i get mad but whenever he wants somthinh i give it to him anything. just as long as he will be with me for awhile or hold me or just make a connectsion. even through i know its fake and just for his own pleasures and during it i feel used and sad. i still cant let go he's my first and only. what should i do 4 more details read my other question titled: me and this boy went out for 9 months..............

2006-10-25 03:38:04 · 7 answers · asked by it's HG !! 2

We've been friends for bout 2yrs and we like each other, but he always spents days without calling and I feel as if he's playing with me, but he says that's not what he's doing. I don't want it to seem like I can't get anybody else. But should I get mad that he didn't call becuz were not dating, just friends that like each other.

2006-10-25 03:37:02 · 15 answers · asked by barthelemy107 1

I mean...... I am a good person, and I am just looking for another good person to be with me:)
God Bless and Be Safe:)

2006-10-25 03:36:01 · 18 answers · asked by Yeah it's me................ 2

lately i have been hanging out w/ my roommate who is a guy...and i think i'm starting to fall for him...but i don't know how i feel about dating someone i live with...?

2006-10-25 03:35:47 · 6 answers · asked by farmergirl9 3

scared, uneasy, worried, crying.

2006-10-25 03:35:19 · 12 answers · asked by andre 1

2006-10-25 03:34:31 · 8 answers · asked by kingduain2005 1

2006-10-25 03:34:26 · 18 answers · asked by love is blind 1

Even after the break-up, we still talk late on the phone for hours, we get jealous if the other one start talking to the opposite sex, we still have each other's email accounts' passwords, still keep kind of a check on each other's emails, still wanna meet, we just dont find interest in others, n unfortunately due to a reason cant be together, we both feel sad about it and cant do anything...i dont know...does this happen with everyone?

2006-10-25 03:34:12 · 10 answers · asked by SARA H 2

and we have had sex before I never liked a different guy until after we had sex. Now I am getting bored w/ him and he really doesn't excit me anymore what should I do

2006-10-25 03:33:21 · 6 answers · asked by Katie 1

2006-10-25 03:33:19 · 5 answers · asked by love is blind 1

2006-10-25 03:31:48 · 10 answers · asked by love is blind 1

and it just came to you, like a passing dark cloud.. this sudden feeling of wretchedness or misery.. or is misery too big a word..?
It hurts for you to realise that you have been an unwilling witness of relationships gone sour,of unrequited love, even the ' i don't know why i love him' kind of love. sad isn't it?

Confused..

yet you do still love him...

2006-10-25 03:31:31 · 12 answers · asked by ? 3

2006-10-25 03:30:28 · 13 answers · asked by love is blind 1

Not, too muscular, but a bit more than just a toned physique?

serious answers only please.

2006-10-25 03:29:41 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Finally he told me he is dating someone. We been together over 20 years on and off. I tried to moved on but he keeps walking into my life(well I let him in) I thought that we could work things out, thats the impression I got. I dont blame him for moving on but I do blame him for the games. Is it normal that I want to hate this man?

2006-10-25 03:28:47 · 13 answers · asked by Licy 2