2006-10-25 03:34:26 · 18 answers · asked by love is blind 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
only god knows
2006-10-25 03:39:54 · answer #1 · answered by God Is Love 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear 'love is blind'.........this is kind of like finding the fountain of youth........does this exist? Is there any one answer? No. A broken heart is one of the most diificult times in your life, and something you probably won't forget. The best answer I can give you is this: live your life day to day, make yourself go out and be sociable, surround yourself with good company......and then you must find the way that will work for you to help get over this. It truly is a devastating event, and for me personally, i have been through this.......more than once unfortunately. With time, it will get better; each day it will hurt a little less. Be sad and cry if you need to, get it out from inside you. Expect to stumble.....have those days where you just can't get out of bed because you still hurt so much.....talk with friends or anyone you think you can trust. The thing to remember is, day by day, you are dealing with this terrible thing that has happened to you. I won't tell you that you'll get over it, because you never really do.....this is a loss in your life, and one that is important enough to unbalance you. It will get easier to deal with........and depending upon your level of hurt, will depend on how you will heal, and you will heal, just take it slow, day by day. Also, if you feel like you aren't dealing with things well, and you can't function on a day to day basis, please don't feel like you can't go and speak with a professional about this...... or a trusted teacher, friend, minister, etc........may be able to help you through this. Do what you feel you need to do to help yourself, as long as you won't do harm to yourself or anyone else.
I am a survivor, and you are too! Good luck and blessings to you.
2006-10-25 04:01:21 · answer #2 · answered by Pattycake2u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way to heal a broken heart is to fix it with a new love. "only time will tell." if it was so serious you cant find someone new then the best answer go to your Friends. all you need is some TLC your Friends will support you if they are Friends. you need love and the sooner you find someone else the wounds will heal. your not old and there's lots of people that I'm sure like you more then he did and you will like more then him. whats your favrite thing to do with your freinds? what r some things youve always wanted to do? think of it as being free for awhile. its fun to experiment. the worst thing to do is dwell on the past. I'm assuming your a girl, vise versa for a guy.
2006-10-25 03:44:19 · answer #3 · answered by shwinger 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cry your eyes out, then dry them out, and it will take Evey once of strength to get through the hardest times, the first few weeks, and only time will heal a broken heart, sometimes it leaves on hell of a scar, but you will make it, I promise. Take care sweetie.
2006-10-25 03:41:03 · answer #4 · answered by DONNA'S NIGHTMARE COME TRUE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go travel to the 3rd world country to see if you can help those needy.take up a mountain climbing class,or any type pf classes.meet wondering and interesting people.you will become more well rounded as a person. also this can mend your broken heart by being giving+learning at the same time.
2006-10-25 03:39:43 · answer #5 · answered by sissypoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time. Time heals all!
Get out and start living instead of sitting at home thinking about that person.
By next year you'll see that person out somewhere and think to yourself, "What in the hell was I thinking to have hooked up with you."
lol
2006-10-25 03:37:51 · answer #6 · answered by *Lovely* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time heals and getting on with life. It's hard at first but you soon feel better.
2006-10-25 03:37:28 · answer #7 · answered by lifes_answer2everything 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way is to get rid of every thing he gave you , every picture, get rid of his number if calls don't answer because most likely he is calling for sex knowing your vulnerable. then change your hair ( the color cut or both ) do something for yourself
something you have always wanted to do , travel or just go visit an old friend . get a hobby , find out what makes you happy you'll be fine .. he closed a door all you have to do is open a new one .
2006-10-25 03:43:52 · answer #8 · answered by purple_eyed_dragon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the very first move must be, to FORGET WHAT HAPPENED...
or if you cant, JUST TRY TO FORGIVE...
then, find a time for yourself.. know what your mind and heart tell you...
after that, MAKE YOURSELF BUSY....
it will help you neglect thinking about it..
engage yourself in recreational activities... sports...
or somethings that would snap your interest.
and of course, ALWAYS KEEP IN MIND THAT YOU WILL HAVE TO MOVE ON!!! for yourself...
2006-10-25 03:43:21 · answer #9 · answered by jann kyle_upvcc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray!
2006-10-25 03:47:20 · answer #10 · answered by imunderveil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the love of a good man.
2006-10-25 03:36:50 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋