Even after the break-up, we still talk late on the phone for hours, we get jealous if the other one start talking to the opposite sex, we still have each other's email accounts' passwords, still keep kind of a check on each other's emails, still wanna meet, we just dont find interest in others, n unfortunately due to a reason cant be together, we both feel sad about it and cant do anything...i dont know...does this happen with everyone?
2006-10-25 03:34:12 · 10 answers · asked by SARA H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u still have stayed together... u r each others life.....
2006-10-25 03:36:06 · answer #1 · answered by stress77mulah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard to end a relationship, but the only way you can truly end it is to cut off all contact. If you find yourselves unable to do this then the untenable circumstances you speak of are not what you think. The old saying "Love will find a way." Is more true that you may realize. Though I do not know the full measure of your relationship i.e. how old you are, how long it lasted, how involved it became or the reason for ending it. I will say that it sounds like it was not a break for your sake, so much as a break for someone else. If that is the case then you both are guilty of allowing someone else to dictate who you should love, and be with. This is what is hurting you the most, everyone deserves to live their own life, and pursue their own happiness. If it is a parental problem, then is your responsibility to talk with them, if they will not talk, then the consequence of their lack of communication is their fault not yours. If it is not parental then you have forgotten that you are in control of your own life, only you can do what you need to do to make yourself happy. True there may be a sacrifice of some kind, but if you love this person (as it sounds you do.) then ask yourself if you are willing to go through this emotional beating every time you make a decision that someone else disapproves of.
2006-10-25 10:55:42 · answer #2 · answered by Tom H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically you two are blocking each other from moving on. Sounds like love, it would be helpful to know why you can't be together is it due to location or some personal issue(s).
I say stay in touch with each other and maybe one day in the future you two will end up back together.
2006-10-25 11:06:23 · answer #3 · answered by Bubbles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going through the same exact thing. if you love each other, which it seems you do, just deal with the obstacle and be together. Dealing with it by sticking together will make you a stronger couple with a closer bond!
2006-10-25 10:46:58 · answer #4 · answered by plegue4936 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its an unusual situation. To still have feelings is quite normal. You should move on, go out with other people, get a life for yourself. If you find this to difficult, go see a councilor, they can help you understand yourself.
2006-10-25 10:37:32 · answer #5 · answered by sacharose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like neither one of you can move on. Why did you guys break up in the first place? I would suggest ending all contact.
2006-10-25 10:35:46 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to move on with life, end this pseudo-relationship. Either that or just deal with the obstacles and be together.
2006-10-25 10:38:26 · answer #7 · answered by noambition 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not posseive with each other yall love each other so just get back together that's what ill do
2006-10-25 10:38:42 · answer #8 · answered by Beunikia C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. it is natural. don't panic or feel guilty about it. all this is the result of all the love u shared. the concern is natural.
2006-10-25 10:39:38 · answer #9 · answered by slmanl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OOOOOH MY GOSH, THIS IS THE SAME THING I'M GOING TROUGH TOO! I THOUGHT IT JUST WAS ME IN THE WORLD!(LOL)
2006-10-25 10:40:58 · answer #10 · answered by Laugh Now Cry Later 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋