- He is my " Friend- Lover" . How I can change him to my reall boyfriend????
I know he Loves me ( in his way) , but I am afraid that he sees me more as a friend or to available for him ??!
2006-10-25 03:59:28 · 10 answers · asked by awg 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him what you want, lay everything out for him and tell him the absolute truth, and then give him some time to decide if he wants to do anything about it.
2006-10-25 04:03:46 · answer #1 · answered by Lucy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never know until you sit down and speak to him about it. tell him everything you are feeling and see how he reacts. I think it is worst to live with the feeling of what if then maybe hearing something you might not like. At least in the second choice you have the answers to your question and can make the decisions that you need to make. Think about it.
2006-10-25 04:04:29 · answer #2 · answered by andia2amat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what you want, he'll never figure it out, he's a man. But remember it may change the relationship could get better could get worse. But, it would suck if you kept going on like you are now and never say anything, because he might want the same thing and might be to afraid to say something. Then you'll never know......hmmmm
2006-10-25 04:26:37 · answer #3 · answered by GiGi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TWO YEARS ?? How long are you going to let him use you? When someone loves you "in his way" that tells me you need far more than he has to give you. Move on and find someone who is ready for a real relationship.
2006-10-25 04:03:41 · answer #4 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've been with him for two years and he's not your boyfriend yet. what's going on. the only way to clear this up is to speak to him. if he only sees you as a friend then your wasting you time find someone new. but if he does want more go for it and good luck.
2006-10-25 04:01:42 · answer #5 · answered by A New Mrs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the real answer is "it's too late--you have to start the relationship that way"
But tell him how you feel and go from there. At worst, you two break up and you have learned a lesson. At best, he likes you too.
2006-10-25 04:01:26 · answer #6 · answered by bequalming 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make a date, get a nice bottle of wine, be prepared with some very real questions you need to have answered and then decide after you have the info from him on where your relationship stands in his eyes and if it has a chance to go where you want it to!
2006-10-25 04:06:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can really do it talk to him..tell him how you feel and ask him how he feels about the 2 of you
2006-10-25 04:07:42 · answer #8 · answered by Cassey L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to tell you but if he hasn't on his own wanted to make you his gf long ago then its not going to happen. Its not meant to be.
2006-10-25 04:06:57 · answer #9 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how u feel
2006-10-25 04:01:04 · answer #10 · answered by James R 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋