Singles & Dating - 15 October 2006

2006-10-15 18:33:57 · 11 answers · asked by ♥BestKeptSecret♥ 3

Here's the scenario.
Me and this girl have liked each other for a few weeks now. Thing is, she has this friend John that is 3 years older (senior) . He has a history of hitting girls, treating them badly, and other bad things, but she is naiive to this and still hangs out with him. i try to ask her not to b/c i dont want her to get hurt but i think this is interferring because i know he wants to get with her. I don't know what to do about him and i want to know if you guys think i should handle this physically or just forget about both of them or another option

Thanks!

2006-10-15 18:31:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I went throught my first breakup and I'm 30 (I know...I'm a late bloomer.). I'm not handling it very well. I knew him for 2 years and I thought he really cared for me. I feel like every kind word he ever said was a lie now. In the end he was just "not into it" and he was a rude jerk at the end, too. Hurtful and very insensitive. Now I'm left with the feeling that nothing (an no one) is good in this world. Any positive outlook that I might have had about people and relationships is gone and that frightens me. How do I get that back? I am so terribly scarred, I think... I feel that this is a horrible world we live in. :-(

2006-10-15 18:31:07 · 7 answers · asked by Sophie 1

2006-10-15 18:28:05 · 5 answers · asked by mazam96 1

the last 2weeks have been a night mare and i cant seem to wake up from it i feel like i am lost in this nightmare and in this night mare no heart no friends no feeling just the feeling of being lost

2006-10-15 18:19:48 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I hav been talking to an indian guy for 6 months...i am from australia and i am travelling to visit him soon. I'm thinking about moving there to be with him...but i am a lil worried cos i'm not sure if we will get along. We have alot in common...and we luv each other alot...i'm just really nervous about the culture difference...and if i will adapt. Do u think that i should give it a go...and see wat happens?

2006-10-15 18:19:13 · 11 answers · asked by Sal 1

she made me quit smoking and other things. i should i stand up for myself without pissing her off?

2006-10-15 18:19:13 · 8 answers · asked by stan 1

2006-10-15 18:16:04 · 32 answers · asked by ashley29501 2

chronic boredom when it comes to men? I mean, do any of you find that no man can keep your attention long enough to make a relationship work regardless of finding him interesting, attractive, and caring? Further, any of you ever get passed this with someone? I am very curious and have a vested interest in the answers.

2006-10-15 18:11:25 · 6 answers · asked by randyken 6

is it normal to only have had a few girlfriends bythe time your 16 and none of them being serious relationships. I can say I've had only 1 for about 2 weeks and that's pretty much it. I'm not gay or anything... but i just don't get girlfriends. At times, this hurts my self esteem and i envy people. Tips/Comments/Suggestions?

2006-10-15 18:11:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

i got pregnant bout 2wks and my relationship with my bf has been shaky for bout month...it is a 5month relationship...we both knew what had 2 b done...and that day when i went to the clinic after he hung out with me and i was tryin to c if he was interested in me and i told him dat one of my guy friends wants me to move in with them...and he was like hells to the no....so with sht like dat i think he is....but then @ same time he has 3 jobs nw and he calls me aftter i call him or calls me when he thinks im angry at him...he has also told me that he loves me..and the week b4 i went through the aborttion i told him he is amazing and i would want him 2 b the father of my children ..and when we he was reconsiderin keepin it he was like we havent even gone to vacation 2gether.nevermind now another human being along...he even apologized 2 my mother about getting me preg...and he had never really known her...pls he still asks me is ur mother mad at me..2 me all these show that he is interstd

2006-10-15 18:09:17 · 5 answers · asked by mariapican 2

How can i really tell if my man of 1 year is truly and utterly over his physco ex-girlfriend. They had alot of history 2gether (she put him through hell). He doesn't call her, speak to her or have any contact with her & he always tells me his is over her and never wants anything to do with her again....but i just cant help but think he will go back to her if she comes back and tries to get him. She sms'd him the other night saying "i love you & miss you" and he just laughed and showed me and said what an idiot she was and how glad he was that he has me......am i being stupid? Should i stop worrying & trust him??

2006-10-15 18:08:17 · 4 answers · asked by bellajezz 2

Any suggestions for ways to spice up my sex life with my boyfriend? i'm up for most things... just something new and exciting

2006-10-15 18:05:46 · 13 answers · asked by babydoll 2

I´m 25 , i´m pretty, slim, about to become a psychologist but I had never had a boyfriend, I had gobe out with guy but the relationships never evolve to boyfriend-girlfriend, why? I don´t get it every time another girl comes around and takes them I don´t get it help meeee? why would this be?

2006-10-15 18:01:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-15 18:01:12 · 9 answers · asked by stan 1

he says that is for my own good cause right now his carrer is more important and he do want us to be friends cause maybe after he get his life going we could probably get back together,but he already hurt me.how do i deal with this pain??

2006-10-15 18:00:44 · 9 answers · asked by johanny g 1

My bf spends $ left and right. Easily spends 200 on the bar and eating out every single week. Spends another 50 here and there for sporting events and concerts. Hes been making close to 60k a year for almost 2 years and hasnt saved anything.

If i says anything about it, he goes, i work hard and deserve it. So i have always let it slide, but now hes complaining about spending money to come visit me at college cause his "money is tight." Yet he still goes out and spends hundreds on beer. I feel neglected and like the last priority he has.

2006-10-15 18:00:21 · 10 answers · asked by Freaked out 3

I'm interested in someone who has the last name as one of my grandmother's. I'm thinking it isn't very likely we are related because I have very mixed heritage and he doesn't, but I don't know its still kinda weird ..so what do you think about it?

2006-10-15 17:57:05 · 18 answers · asked by k.vee 2

the last person I dated(4 one month) he freaked out after we kissed even though he got very sexually excited we only made out(passionately) and then he didn't return my calls.I was his first kiss(he was 21).he was saying he doesn't know what he is doing said his mind was racing a mile a minute. So I don't want to do this with the next guy. We've been flirting and good friends for almost 4 months now.we both like each other but he's never had a g/f b-4 either.when he comes home from college(2hours away) I want to kiss him but not scare him off or get him 2 excited.we hug a lot and playfully touch each other.I figure have him over my house,sit with him, hold his hand, lean on him then kiss his cheek if I think he's happy about it go for his lips then see if he tries to really kiss me and afterwards ask him how he feels. I want to make him comfortable and ready, not overwhelmed.any other physical signs I should show him to let him know I want to kiss?and are my ideas good?

2006-10-15 17:56:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it me or that I find them highly interesting in many ways other then attraction towards Leos and Taureans.

2006-10-15 17:54:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Today was my birthday and my boyfriend of 4 years is lacking money and he tried to pick me out a couple of presents and honestly they were not my style at all. He got me an alarm clock, a pillow with wolves on it, and a dead butterfly preserved in a case (its kind of pretty.) I thought it was sweet that he came up with (stole) some cash to get me some things. He kept asking me over and over if I liked my gifts. I have never lied to my boyfriend but I felt like I couldn't tell him that his choices were not so great...
Is it ok to lie in this situation?
Anyone else had to do the same or did you handle it differently?

2006-10-15 17:50:34 · 41 answers · asked by *Amanda* 5

okies, theres me, my friend bob, and billy. (obviously not their real names) me and bob have been friends for about 2 years and i think we're cloe. i met billy this summer, and i think he's awesome. for a long time i thought i liked bob but i never said anything. but somehow i got the courage to tell billy that i liked him, and i asked him to a dance and he said sure. we never went together though, he lost his money to go. and the thing about billy is that he's BI. and turns out he likes BOB. now, I dont know what to do, since i know for sure i still like bob, but i dont know about billy... and if i say something to bob that i like him, then billy will get mad at me or something, and i dont want that to happen.And everyone is telling me that bob likes me, since last year, and I get the feeling he does..but... WHAT SHOULD I DO????

2006-10-15 17:50:18 · 10 answers · asked by Aya H 1

Like... I broke up with my last BF, over a month ago, it was a very short relationship... but I felt good after it ended because I like the feeling of being single

But now, a new guy is starting to like me... he's my type I like him and everything... but I'm scared to get involved because I'm scared I'll hate not being single...and then want to break up

I dunno what to do I go back and forth so much!

So should I just give this new guy a try and risk it... or just stay single.?

2006-10-15 17:47:47 · 24 answers · asked by USCfemme10 3

my husband kept cheating on me so we split up i met someone new but cant let my husband go...what do i do its been over a year and i cant stop thinking about him

2006-10-15 17:46:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-15 17:44:20 · 8 answers · asked by tywillpoca 1

one guy.. my friend doesnt think i should go out with him cause he broke her heart. but this is the guy that i like the most out of them all.
the other guy.. is nice but not sue if hes my type. he likes me alot. and is sweet.
the third guy.. him and my best friend use to have a thing but they dont anymore and he likes me but if i go out with him then i have a chance of losing my best friend.

2006-10-15 17:44:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

We had attraction for each other before and even went all the way. But we stop cause we felt it was wrong. But now he wants to be back in my life. What does this mean?

2006-10-15 17:43:49 · 9 answers · asked by dawnann 1

2006-10-15 17:43:27 · 4 answers · asked by DetailSpaz 3

if a guy or girl want to eat pizza and the other never likes . do u still think they ll attract. or will they fight

2006-10-15 17:43:23 · 6 answers · asked by coolguy 2

I mean seriously. She's amazingly gorgeous. And, sitting next to me!

2006-10-15 17:42:44 · 19 answers · asked by John S 2