my husband kept cheating on me so we split up i met someone new but cant let my husband go...what do i do its been over a year and i cant stop thinking about him
2006-10-15 17:46:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop look in the mirror... choose what you want to do and commit to it 100%.
2006-10-15 17:49:03 · answer #1 · answered by dsmiling62 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't mention your age group but with allot of guys ,,,,, and women to for that matter ,,,,, It's I do until either one of them doesn't want to anymore ,,,,,, Usually that comes one or two or more kids too late ,,,,, ,,,, Sometimes people can't let go of a charged electrical wire either untill the current is turned off ,,,,, and would you hold on to a red hot poker that was burning your hand ?? I don't think so ,,,,, The marriage was over the first time he cheated on you so why do you want to hold on to him ,,,,, Even if you did get him to come back ,,,, He's just do the same thing over and over again ,,,,,, He's making a fool out of you ,,,,,, He probably knows or figures that he can stay out on the playing field for as long as he want's but that he's always got you to come home to ,,,, And if he did meet someone that he got serious about ,,, he'd drop you like a hot rock and just move on and not look back ,,,,,, Don't let him make you look the fool ,,,,,,You drop him first ,,,,,, and for permanent ,,,,,, I don't know if he would ,,,,, but don't let him try to talk you out of it either,,,,, If he's done this before and is still doing it ,,,,,, He will always do it ,,,,, So stick to your guns ,,,,,,, and be prepared for the display of tears me might show and don't blieve any possible promises that he wouldn't do it again ,,,,,,, Guys can be just as good an actor as a women can ,,,,,, You don't need this crap,,,,,, Break if off and the sooner the better ,,,,, It's past time for you to move on with your life ,,,,, Unplug the current to that wire ,,,,, You need him like you need a serious case of STD's ,,,,,,,, (which you could very easily contract if he's playing around ) Yoda said that ,,,,,,
2006-10-15 19:12:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I"m not sure if your doing this but a lot of times when we split up with someone we later start to remember all the good times we had with them and then miss those times. But you have to remember the real reasons you chose to leave him since they had to be bad enough to make you want out of the relationship in the first place.
2006-10-15 18:10:45 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a person can take up to 2 years to get over aperson wich is normal. But why don´t you try going to a counsellor, someone that cheats on you doesn´t deserve you. I know how you feel it´s really hard but you have to love yourself more than anyone in this world, I bet someone better is waiting for you.
2006-10-15 17:53:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never stop loving a person that you truly truly love. Just because the two of you are not together don't mean that your thoughts of him are gone too.BUT just because you are going through withdrawal don't mean you have to be a fool and go back to him
2006-10-15 17:52:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its normal, you husband hurt you and you have unresolved feelings lingering there, in your mind there is no closure, on the hurt he gave and etc. you could use some healing and some counseling. this is just the lingering smell of "burnt toast"
2006-10-15 17:50:03 · answer #6 · answered by hamhead 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about what he did to you and how you got over it.
2006-10-15 17:49:36 · answer #7 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think that he had a good person but he didn't know how to value her. and you deserve someone who does know how to treat and value you
2006-10-15 17:51:44 · answer #8 · answered by sea 26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need "real closure". I assure you that will set you free.
2006-10-15 18:53:33 · answer #9 · answered by Melchar F 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋