Singles & Dating - 14 October 2006

Am i thin enough to wear miniskirts?

2006-10-14 12:47:20 · 24 answers · asked by diamonds_are_love 2

2006-10-14 12:46:38 · 10 answers · asked by opope55 1

me and my boyfriend have been going out for four months and we have nerve been sexually active, but we both want to i think i wanna wait but sometimes i want to and its kinda like peer pressure except im willing sometimes but can't do it..the reason why is that a while back alot of people had been sayin he had AIDS and stuff like that but when i asked my cousin she said she never heard it, what if he actually does have AIDS i don't wanna break up with him because i love him and im only 15 he is 17 and im scared of the concequinces...NEED ADVICE

2006-10-14 12:44:47 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok i was with my boy firend .and i was talking about a movie. and then my x said some thing. then he got mad im like i don't want to see a movie now. i kida wanted to ask my boy firend to the movies. and my x runed it . i hate my x . my x is in my class and he was reading. when he said it my boy firend ws reading too . ugg i don't get why hes so mean to me .

2006-10-14 12:44:47 · 5 answers · asked by melissa d 1

well this is gonna be a wall of text (but its not actually as long as it looks) so thanks to anyone who actually reads and answers.
Im gonna start from the beginning. I found out she used to fancy me about 1 or 2 years ago. At the time i didnt really know her and i didnt realise this, and this is pretty much how we became friends. she invited me to the cinema with her and some friends and such, and as i got to know her, i sarted to like her too. well i didnt act on it or anything, because i was a wuss (trying to change that now =D) but anyway, things went on normally with me liking her and we would talk on msn for ages and stuff. well then I dunno what happened, I think she may have gone off me or given up, but i still persisted (when I like a girl, it's for ages, like over a year usually which really sucks >_<) and then after a while I got the impression that she liked me again. she would trick me and say that she was going out with a certain guy or kissed someone, just to see my reaction (I think) but she would tell me shortly after i replied that she was joking (she did this about 3 times). another thing she did was send me this link. I had to ask this 'thing' questions, and it answered them. the catch was, she could see what i was asking and could reply to them herself. i knew this (lol) and used it to my advantage asking 'it' questions about whether she liked me and vice versa. i asked it a lot of these questions, and the answer was yes everytime. a few weeks after this i aksed her about it and she said she couldnt remember much, but felt guilty and closed the window, thus she didnt answer (meaning that the thing would submit a random answer) but i though that this had to be too much of a coincidence to answer 'yes' like 20 times in a row. \\\\ we also used to fill out quizes for each other and in one she said that she used to fancy me and i also found out from one of the questions that she would kiss me, and she would go out with me, but i was too shy. she also used to do other things that i cant quite recall, but just small things like ring me up or say she liked particular bands I did (even though i realy dont think she does) anyway, this went on for a while and then, as before, cooled down as if she wasnt interested anymore. i thought she was interesed in some other guy, but somehow, it slipped out on msn that i like her. I dont think she knew what to say. I think she knew already and was just flattered and all. we stayed good friends still. well it carried on normal for a while, and again, another twist. a good friend of mine (who is very trustworthy) tells me that he asked her who she liked and she said me, and the other guy i mentioned very briefly a second ago. i didnt know what to think. i was too confused by it all. at one point i saw a message on my friends phone (sent by the other guy she may have liked at the time) a message that was asking her about me and if she liked me (he knows i saw it btw so i wasnt looking through the phone or anything lol) The final thing that happened (very recently) is that we were out at some club and she was a bit drunk/tipsy (but she tells me she wasnt) and out of nowhere she comes and kisses me on the lips, only for a second or so, and says bye, and then again when she leaves to go home. well, thats pretty much it up until the current date. all of a sudden, out of the blue shes going out with someone. i dont know much about it, and i dont really want to know either to be honest. my question is (and I thank anyone greatly who has read all this so far) what the hell do I do? I know i cant ask her out as she has a boyfriend and I cant exactly get over her just like that, cos as said earlier, i generally like girls for a long time... i think I would have enough courage to ask her out now, if she didnt have a boyfrined that is. the thing is, im still great friends with her, and its really hard to watch all this going on. she pretty much knows I still have feelings for her. i dont know what to do though..?

2006-10-14 12:44:08 · 4 answers · asked by NameEditedOut 1

what if you've lived your whole life alone and you know for a fact that not even one person will ever love you? how is it possible to be happy and accept that? i'm very confused and dont know what to do? i feel so hopeless and sad and its making me lazy as hell too. i have no motivation to do anything anymore but just sit at home....tell me what i'm suppose to do.

2006-10-14 12:42:27 · 26 answers · asked by mr_fury666 3

2006-10-14 12:40:38 · 8 answers · asked by MS. SEXY!!!!!!!!!! 3

got no numbers from a guy or even chatted to one , whats wrong with me when im not a minger either ????

2006-10-14 12:39:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is this boy at school that was... a new kid and he kept on starring at me in class!(3 weeks later) So at lunch one day (I guess he didn't have the courage 2 tell me himself) his friend tapped me on the shoulder and told me that, that boy liked me and he wanted to go out with me. I just told him I'll think about it and now I don't know what 2 do!? He is okay looking ,but not really,and has a big staring problem.(he likes hip hop,but I hate it. And he won't leave me alone) What should I do? Tell him NO or just forget about it?

2006-10-14 12:39:45 · 8 answers · asked by afi.girl 2

2006-10-14 12:39:36 · 15 answers · asked by bhatta 1

I always get a raging woody when I talk to good looking girls. We could be talking about slaughtering pigs, and I would still be standing there pitching a tent. Am I normal?

2006-10-14 12:39:28 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

She is Asian and her parents do not want her to date outside of her race. She is very pretty, nice, and likes me too. What can I do?

2006-10-14 12:39:12 · 8 answers · asked by Tony D 1

He cute and funny? BUt im not shure what he thinks I don't really know how to go about it, I never had a boyfriend before and he has had girlfriends so he probably know theres better somewhere( hes never said that Ive just emangened it) I don't want him to laugh or something if I tell him I like him!? I don't even know if he will Im so confused!!!!!!!!!!!!??????????????

2006-10-14 12:39:07 · 2 answers · asked by brianna<3 4

ok ive known this girl for a year now and well i dream about her at night sometimes i can't sleep whenever she's not around im a total mess and when im around i feel whole and complete sometimes i just spend hours starring at her picture just smiling am i in love with this girl im only 15

2006-10-14 12:38:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really enjoy talking to him. Though he doesn't call me, normally I call him. I went on vacation and told him he could call me. He didn't, I was really upset. But didn't show it. So should I have called him?

2006-10-14 12:37:22 · 12 answers · asked by Erriyberry 2

I really like this guy. He says that he likes me back. He keeps flirting with me, but he won't ask me out! It is making me so mad! Why won't he ask me out?

2006-10-14 12:37:02 · 11 answers · asked by Thing H. 3

Okay,


I'm dating again and the rules, well I was never that good with them anyway. I've met more than a few ladies on the Personals but I seldom get the second date. I've been told too many times one of the following:

1) It was nice but I felt no chemistry.
2) You're a great guy, but I'd rather have you as a friend. (That one really hurts).
3) I don't feel a connection.

As I'm trying to be respectful, I meet them in a very public place a bookstore, coffee, etc. Afterwards, we may walk about, especially if there's a strip mall or enclosed mall around. I don't mind window shopping and as I am trying to put my house back together, I do look and I'll even ask for their input.

Should I not even do that?

Any advise would be great.

2006-10-14 12:36:08 · 6 answers · asked by Geo-Guy 3

2006-10-14 12:35:50 · 24 answers · asked by wicked1 1

i want to know why do i attract older men and jail birds? i am 27 years old with four children ages 13,10,8 and 3 weeks. it seems i can't find nobody right, i'm not a rough neck all really i do is sit in the house and work .i have two jobs my own house not(section 8) and myown car why i can't find nobody who would appreciate me? sometimes i just cry and cry hoping it would get better but now since i had my baby i'm really depress and lonely and i know you maybe sayin where the baby's daddy at but i don't have time to play games with him he like h*** but check this out he say he want to marry me but how and every day i'm a stupid b**** or he throwing he old girlfriend in my face and he left me while i was pregnant and did'nt even come to the hospital when i had the baby.and by the way( this is my newborn daddy) and before you all get to saying stuff about my four kids their all takin care of by me so need to try and put me down.

2006-10-14 12:34:27 · 12 answers · asked by toni m 1

I notice that maybe this guy might be trying to get my attention? Please will someone give me the answer I'm looking for?
( Please don't be ignorant) I need this seriously.

2006-10-14 12:34:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

So I've been seeing this girl for a couple weeks now, and things have been great. She's funny, smart, we have a lot of similar intrests and everything. Now, we live in a small town, there's not a whole lot of young people our age in town.
Anyway, we've hung out a few times on what you could consider "dates" and a few other times where I'd see her while working...
Anyway, so I went out with her last night at a bar with some of her friends, and she said she's leaving next weekend to go on a trip and will be out of town. I really want to see her again before she leaves but am afraid she'll think I'm weird for calling her the day after I just saw her. Considering the circumstances would it be ok to call?

2006-10-14 12:32:56 · 13 answers · asked by Jakewriter 2

what i'm wondering about is like tips on what to say or what to do. this girl is really hot and i really want to date her alot!

2006-10-14 12:31:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex John and i broke up Two weeks ago but today he told me he still likes me. Yesterday i flirted with another guy to forget about John and our love!!! Now he wants to get back with me, and the other guy wants us to go out as well!!!! Help!!
Kelse

2006-10-14 12:31:21 · 17 answers · asked by Kelse 2

what should i do i am really shy. i dont think i am ever going to get a bf cause i am shy. i dont even think guys notice me. i need help. i want guys to notice me. i dont want to be shy anymore. the guys at my school go for the rich, preppy, cheerleader girls. what should i do to get noticed by guys?

2006-10-14 12:27:21 · 16 answers · asked by Jess 1

Okay, a guy asked me out and I said I just got out of a relationship and and needed time to myself so I don't repeat the same mistakes.

I told him I was attracted to him and asked if he was seeing someone special. He said no. I say I would like to call you every once in a while and he says okay.

I called 3 times within a month and we usually talk an hour but he doesn't call me unless it is to call back. I finally asked if he was just being polite and he said "we have developed a relationship on a different level, we have stepped it up." Then he said "I would tell her if I didn’t want you to call."

Again, he told me that he wasn't dating anyone special. He told me that he broke up with someone 7 months ago. I said "oh, so you are in the same situation I am in" to which he replied no have dated once in a while.

2006-10-14 12:26:53 · 3 answers · asked by shar 1

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2006-10-14 12:26:35 · 5 answers · asked by Naughty Fairy 1

2006-10-14 12:26:10 · 21 answers · asked by needs help 1

This happened to me the other day and now i'm completely mortified and humiliated but i did drink alot of beer that night:-(

2006-10-14 12:24:16 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am a freshman and i really want a bf and i like these two guys. One is 16 and the other is 15. I know the 16 yr. old likes me, but i dont know about the 15 yr. old. The 16 yr.old has a gf and the other one is single. i dont know which one i should go for. the 16 yr.old said he would break up with his gf for me but he is worried cause i have never kissed anyone. i really like them both. what should i do?? should i date the one that is the same age as me and same grade.. and he lives in the same town he also goes to my school. or should i date an 11th grader that lives about an hour away and a diff. age? i met him at my camp ground. what should i do????

2006-10-14 12:23:53 · 9 answers · asked by Jess 1

but before they found out u guys were so close as friends why does liking them have to make everything differetn..im askin cuz i use to like this one guy but as soon as he found he would be nice but then he turend around talking his crap i just want to know y guys r liek that....

2006-10-14 12:21:14 · 8 answers · asked by carol h 2