My ex John and i broke up Two weeks ago but today he told me he still likes me. Yesterday i flirted with another guy to forget about John and our love!!! Now he wants to get back with me, and the other guy wants us to go out as well!!!! Help!!
Kelse
2006-10-14 12:31:21 · 17 answers · asked by Kelse 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl, I went to the same thing. I divorced my husband and found a new man, but my ex was still in love with me. You have to look and your options and pick the best one for you, not for them. If you don't want to get back with your ex then move on and don't look back, it only makes it harder.
2006-10-14 12:35:33 · answer #1 · answered by Melanie G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how old you are or how long you and John dated.
Flirting with another guy to forget John is not a good idea, because the new fella will be your rebound guy which is not good for anyone.
Give John another chance, you obviously fell in love with him in the first place.
2006-10-14 19:34:02 · answer #2 · answered by elanabutcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your ex still like you or love you? You said both. You broke up with him for a reason so why go backwards and get back with him? You say you've moved on, so show it and go out with the other guy.
2006-10-14 19:35:30 · answer #3 · answered by missmozee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um ... so obviouse you dont have feelings for john anymore so let him down gentely and be nice to him all the way b/c a broken heart hurts ... bad. Now go with the new guy!
2006-10-14 19:34:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont like John u can't help it. Ppl dont have much control over who they're attracted two and who they aren't. Just let him no ur over him but stay friends. U'll make him want u even more if u stop talking to him.
2006-10-14 19:38:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still love John, then you should go back out with him. If you don't still love him go out with the other guy. If you like both of them, don't go out with either one.
2006-10-14 19:46:12 · answer #6 · answered by Thing H. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what feels right to you...but remember why you broke up. If the same ending is more than likely, it may be better if you two stay apart.
2006-10-14 19:34:02 · answer #7 · answered by sakira_starwolf 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on! but don't go on to the next guy soooo fast slow down enjoy life take your time finding the person that is right for you. peace out!
2006-10-14 19:48:03 · answer #8 · answered by Kimberley A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question You have moved on find someone else. You broke up for a reason.
2006-10-14 19:34:58 · answer #9 · answered by Andrew B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.. first... remember the cause why you and your ex broke up... and also think of the future when you and your ex will be again... if you think on the future, you and your ex will fight and break again... i think you should choose the other guy... but if you think your ex is more serious this time... think deeply... and follow your heart...
2006-10-14 19:38:43 · answer #10 · answered by ashley_tisdale_12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋