what should i do i am really shy. i dont think i am ever going to get a bf cause i am shy. i dont even think guys notice me. i need help. i want guys to notice me. i dont want to be shy anymore. the guys at my school go for the rich, preppy, cheerleader girls. what should i do to get noticed by guys?
2006-10-14 12:27:21 · 16 answers · asked by Jess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Assuming that you are in high school or jr. high school, attracting guys really isn't that hard. Just enhance you physical attributes, and the guys will be all over you. However, as you get older, guys get a little more complicated and look for qualities other than physical attractiveness. But, as for now, the answer to your question is to get a makeover and dress with more sexual appeal.
2006-10-14 12:34:25 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Main Event 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
alcohol? nooooooo. Just don't care about others, you really need to truly belive that you have a lot more than those chick, cuz very often people like you do!!!!, the slutty, popular chicks that jump around and smile for no reason are usually soooo dump and spoiled. I have no idea why so many guys are attracted to those kind but mostly because all they want to do is use them and they are accesible. There are plenty of guys that have better sense. But most of the guys need to just mature enough, so there wont be a whole lot of luck in highschool. I would suggest to work at a corner store or as a sales clerk or something with customer service inorder to get rid of the shy thing. I tryed that and it really helped, you will talk to more poeple and meet more poeple. It's also fun too, it's a very good confidence booster.
2006-10-14 19:36:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, believe it or not most guys are even more shy than girls! Try just making some friends with some of the guys and you'll probably notice the guys you're interested in suddenly taking some notice. And don't forget if the guys at your school are only interested in cheerleader girls then they may not be made of the right stuff for you. One way or another, you will meet the guy of your dreams and happiness......
2006-10-14 19:36:38 · answer #3 · answered by Insighter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to do anything, but be yourself. If they don't notice you then their just not the right guys. Don't change for anyone, they should like you for who you are and notice you whether your a cheerleader or whatever. If not thats their lost not yours. And if your worried about being too shy, don't. when the right guy comes you'll feel comfortable enough around him to just be yourself and have fun. Like I said before just be yourself, you can only be you, and change for no one. The bible says in Proverbs 18:22 "the man findeth the good woman". Remember he'll find you, you don't have to da anything to find him.
2006-10-14 19:42:30 · answer #4 · answered by I ♥ Jesus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date an older man first. Then what you learn from him, will affect what you do with the younger crowd and you will learn how to interact not only with younger guys, but you will understand them a lot better than the rich preppy insipid girls that are around you now.
2006-10-14 19:34:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jess, just make an effort to be noticed, but be yourself. Don't ever try to be something your not. I bet guys will notice you if you smiled more often and were friendly and outgoing towards them. Are you like this? Drssing a bit sexier never hurt either.
2006-10-14 19:34:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel your pain, i was the same way in high school. it wasn't until i got to college until i started dating. i was really shy too and even if someone told me a guy was interested him me i would do everything to avoid him. you may not feel this way but i am glad that i waited to date, the older i was i had more confidence to tell guys that i didn't want to have sex, they like to try on the first date. if i would've dated at a younger age i probably would've given in to them a lot more. men do not want slutly girls, even if they act like it they will never stay with them or treat them with respect, they will always have relationship problems and be on yahoo answers complaining why their man cheats. so just keep that in mind. it's good to wait :)
2006-10-14 19:34:55 · answer #7 · answered by lynne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just speak your mind, like you would around girls (just don't talk about guys butts with them). i think that all the guys go for the preppy girls in highschool (I am a freshman), but you don't have to rich and preppy for them to like you. Just remember to be yourself because you don't want a guy to like something that you are not. Just talk to them more. If there is one you want to talk to just say hi and smile at them. Good Luck.
2006-10-14 19:33:24 · answer #8 · answered by masterurownmind 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try to make friends with the girls in your school who ARE getting the guys....who knows...maybe they might think it would be fun to give u a whole new makeover! and introduce you to more guys! but thats a doubt that would happen...unless they're nice....if your pretty then they will probably let u in....just make an excuse to talk to them....if they are talking about somethin that u kno about then say o yea u do that too! or somethin idk...if they give u a wierd face....then i wouldn't try again cause then if they eventually start to like you...its to humiliate u later...
2006-10-14 19:35:05 · answer #9 · answered by kkk09 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop telling yourself you're shy. You have to change your inner monologue completely. You're in the habit of telling yourself you're shy..and probably telling yourself other bad things about yourself. Retrain your mind....replace...delete the negative comment with a positive comment. Trust me...the mind is a powerful thing and if you tell it something enough (even though you don't think it's true) it will believe you and you will act accordingly. Believe me on this, I wish I would've known this all sooner!
2006-10-14 19:31:55 · answer #10 · answered by lucky 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋