Singles & Dating - 14 October 2006

Here's the deal. I met this REALLY great guy (lets call him Ben)and we started hanging out. First we went out for coffee then he came over one night and we just chilled and watched TV and then the third time we hung out we went to a bible study with one of his roomates. This roomates (one of 3) is a girl. She has a crush on Ben but he doesn't like her in that way. I am not sure how Ben feels about me so I asked her if he had said anything about me. She responded with "Not to let you down or anything but he told me you two were just friends." I told her I was bummed and she said "don't worry I was really bummed too when I realized he would never like me like that". At first I was disappointed but then I started thinking that this girl might just be trying to push me away because she likes him and doesn't want to see him with anyone else. Do you think this is the case or is he really not interested in anything more than friendship?

2006-10-14 13:45:32 · 4 answers · asked by pnmnp222 1

By 'manly' I guess I mean rugged, heavy set, 5 o' clock shadow, chisled jaw types.

I'm fairly young looking for my age (bit of a pretty boy) and am quite successful with girls, but often wonder what it would be like if I looked kind of 'meaner' if you know what I mean. :D

2006-10-14 13:45:31 · 24 answers · asked by Gilligan 5

This guy I met in person told me that he wanted a relationship more than friendship here. He is fighting for his disability due to medical problems. He went to the doctor this past week and got some bad news about him facing surgery. For two days, I did not talk to me. I tried calling him and he ignored my calls etc... He did finally call me the third day and told me that he was sorry that he had a lot on his mind etc.... and later on that nite i asked him to come over and hang out and he said NO. And I then thought he was advoiding me all out.He started acting like a major jerk to me Two more days have gone past and no word out of him and he tells me earlier today that he thought I was pushing him to come over the other nite and I never did. He said he thought we should go our own ways etc..... I dont know what to think here. Do you think I was being played all this time or what? Please help me out! How do you see this situation as being? Im confused !

2006-10-14 13:45:06 · 3 answers · asked by southerncharmer73 1

A lot of my friends around me are getting engaged and/or are married, I am not really looking for this but I am wondering why I can't seem to ever get a boyfriend. I am 23 and have never had one...I am starting to wonder if there is something wrong with me. Can anyone help?

2006-10-14 13:44:55 · 3 answers · asked by Adrienne B 3

I have green eyes

2006-10-14 13:41:10 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have been on msn a few times and added women contacts who have blocked and deleted me if i don't look they would want. so are women more concerned with looks than they say they are?
oh by the way- i'm not ugly!

2006-10-14 13:38:25 · 17 answers · asked by tjyf j 1

heres my story, me and my boyfreind have been together for two years and we both love each other very much and are planning on gettin married but recently i want him to be submissive, not only in bed but in real life situations. i want him to let me go out and party while he stays in the house and calls me every 45 minuts to make sure hes home, and i also want to put one of those new chasity tubes for men on him, stuff like this i want to happen but how can i do this, do any of you girls on here got ur boyfreind like that , honest answers

2006-10-14 13:38:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

when am i going to find my soul mate

2006-10-14 13:36:47 · 4 answers · asked by john l 1

This is for the women. ;)

2006-10-14 13:36:07 · 25 answers · asked by The boy from London 6

This guy I REALLY LIKE is going out with this girl thats sorta mean and ugly. I am so in love with this guy, and I know he likes me, but I think he's just scared to leave this girl. What should I do? Well, this is the other option I think that maybe I could go out with his best friend, you know just for the mean time. He is alot like the guy I like, but different looks (which don't really matter to me) and some personallity differences. But if I could pick the person thats closest to him in personality I'd choose him. Any advice?

2006-10-14 13:35:43 · 6 answers · asked by Karma 2

he's not trying to hear it!!!

2006-10-14 13:33:00 · 13 answers · asked by nell16 2

2006-10-14 13:32:44 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

My gf dumpped her ex. And started to date me she has not told some of her friends that she is dating me because she does not want them to think lowly of her for getting a new bf soo soon. So her friends still think she is going out with her ex and make alot of comments about how they are still going out and how much my gf loves him....It did not bother me at girst but now it is kinda getting to me....I kinda feel this relationship is just hush hush that she doews not want her friends to know she will openly admit to my friends she loves me but not to hers...

2006-10-14 13:31:54 · 11 answers · asked by Adam 1

One of my friends cousins is confusing me. He liked me ever since he met me about a year or so ago. He just started going to my school this year and he's been doting on me. I finally told my friend to tell him that i liked him back, but now he's practically ignoring me. WTF is going on??

2006-10-14 13:30:00 · 11 answers · asked by belle du jour 3

2006-10-14 13:29:36 · 14 answers · asked by KU 4

what do u think is more important looks or personalities? and y?

2006-10-14 13:29:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know size is kinda important eventhough girls act like its not. But it doesn't matter to me b/c i'm doing just fine. So let me know what you really think.

2006-10-14 13:28:50 · 14 answers · asked by joshjones007 1

This guy is the one who asked me to go to the movies tonight, and yes im going to tell him yes. So yeah I really like him and he tells me he likes me but I think his to nice to me, he already tells me what ever I need he'll be there and If I need anything he'll give it to me. He tells me his not a liar or a cheater because he knows how that feel because he got his heart broken from his ex so many times. I just don't know how to tell him that im attracted to him.

2006-10-14 13:28:22 · 8 answers · asked by Hawaiianlady 1

2006-10-14 13:28:01 · 9 answers · asked by nay8 1

over the last month ive been wanting to be the dominant one in the relationship and him more submissive.. i recently had fantasies about cuckolding him wat should i tell him.. are there any girls out there who want this

2006-10-14 13:27:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-14 13:27:45 · 11 answers · asked by Breezy ♥ 3

I FIGHT FOR LOVE.

2006-10-14 13:27:18 · 14 answers · asked by phccchick 3

Seems like any girl who is halfway decent looking in the states since I have been here sleeps around alot or can't stay faithful to a guy they're with very long. Is this all over the country?

2006-10-14 13:26:55 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

If so, why? Does he tickle you back?

2006-10-14 13:25:24 · 10 answers · asked by I'm Still Here 5

2006-10-14 13:24:12 · 11 answers · asked by lucky 1

2006-10-14 13:23:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

im gonna be honest I AM SHY AS HELL WHEN AROUND GIRLS
how would i ask one out?

2006-10-14 13:23:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-14 13:21:43 · 77 answers · asked by Ah! 5

i like this guy but he is 14 and im 15 but he is really tall and he funny but ma friends say hes stupid !! but he really nice 2 me !! and is it good 2 date 14 year old guy? will his friends think i cant get 16 years old guy?? omg im confused !

2006-10-14 13:20:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok,i am a freshman at my school,its a small school,so there not many "fish in the sea",if you know what i mean,but theres this girl,Ivy,and i really like her,and im pretty sure that she likes me,but i don't want to take a chance,because i've been turned down to many times before.Any advice?

2006-10-14 13:20:08 · 17 answers · asked by Matt 3