My gf dumpped her ex. And started to date me she has not told some of her friends that she is dating me because she does not want them to think lowly of her for getting a new bf soo soon. So her friends still think she is going out with her ex and make alot of comments about how they are still going out and how much my gf loves him....It did not bother me at girst but now it is kinda getting to me....I kinda feel this relationship is just hush hush that she doews not want her friends to know she will openly admit to my friends she loves me but not to hers...
2006-10-14 13:31:54 · 11 answers · asked by Adam 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Either she is emberassed by you or her friends are judgemental bitches who think that her ex is the best thing since the microwave. So it's fairly simple lay it down to her. Say this is how it is going to be either you can tell your friends about me or you can find another emotional tampon to use 5 or 6 days a month
2006-10-14 13:38:32 · answer #1 · answered by joe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is gonna keep a relation on the downlow then I don't see why you still want to be with her. She would be proud if she goes out with you, or if she likes you, then it would be no problem telling her friends. She is just afraid of what her friend will think of her, maybe go up to her and ask her why.
2006-10-14 20:35:02 · answer #2 · answered by Fae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was sincere about you and didn't care what other people thought so much she would come clean with her friends. She sounds very immature and you deserve better. Move on with your life and find someone who is proud enough to tell the whole world about how much they love you!
2006-10-14 20:50:53 · answer #3 · answered by elanabutcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her if her friends dont even know that her and her ex r broke ^ yet then u will always be her dirty little secret....if she wont at least let her friends know her and her ex r over then u need to leave her.... if she at least doesn't that give a little while to tell them shes dating u..... Erika
2006-10-14 20:37:20 · answer #4 · answered by Erika_ka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's no one else's business and it shouldn't matter what other people think, because other people are going to think whatever they want, anyway. If you live your life to please others, you do not live that life for yourself.
The fact that she started seeing you so soon after her breakup may only show how special you are to her. But she needs to adjust her focus and move forward. And if she's more concerned for her past and for her image, you may want to rethink exactly how you fit into her life . . .
Good luck!
2006-10-14 20:42:19 · answer #5 · answered by alchemist0750 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like shes being selfish about the whole thing worrying about what her friends might think. she is shallow. you need to see this and maybe think about someone else.read tips on dating and more on this site
2006-10-14 20:35:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not put up with that crap.....put your foot down. If you start letting her walk all over you now, then she'll keep doing it forever.
2006-10-14 20:34:48 · answer #7 · answered by Jane D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her and tell her how she feels ..if she loves you she shouldnt care wht her friends think..and if her friends are going to make fun of her ..they arnt her true friends..good luck
2006-10-14 20:35:53 · answer #8 · answered by Cutie101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it, don't try and handle it all. When it comes to her friends, let her handle it. But talk to her about it.
2006-10-14 20:34:14 · answer #9 · answered by iamharm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is concerned more about what her "friends" think about her than what YOU think about her.
well.
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is this what you want in a gf?
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2006-10-14 21:01:22 · answer #10 · answered by DM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋