If my boyfriend loves me so much, why does he stare at blondes??

Answer 1

O my god you are beautiful he is obviously lucky to have you. As for the checking out blondes, they just naturally catch peoples eyes. If you were a blonde your boyfriend would probably start checking out brunettes, remember you can browse at the store but you cant buy from the store.

Answer 2

Because he's a dog (no offense), it's also not right to stare at any other woman, because at the same time he's staring at them, he's also desiring them. So I suggest you talk to him about it if you haven't, let him know that you notice it. He's lusting after them, which is a sin, when his eyes should remain focused on you. Don't let this make you insecure either. Blonde is just a hair color, the color of your hair doesn't judge how you look, so he's infactuated with a color. If he loves you that much he'll stop, or you'll at least see a decrease in how often he does it.

Answer 3

he may be looking at them like "wow there are a ton of blondes" or he may be thinking "i'm so glad that my GF isn't like everyone else. justs because a guy stares doesn't mean that he is having sexual thoughts about her. Be confident in yourself, that is the sexiest feeling a woman can have it not only feels good on the inside but it definetly shows on the outside, and your man will appreciate you more, and he will find you super sexy. Guys love it when a girl has confidence that she knows she is beautiful (but don't over do it) if you think you are sexy, so will he

Answer 4

He's not staring at blondes. He's staring at any woman that is at least somewhat attractive. He's just making sure he got the best one, and from the look of your avatar (if that's you) he made a good choice.

Answer 5

Men and women look at things they find interesting and attractive. This is part of our nature which is constantly re-enforced through media, art, communication, etc. Being in a relationship doesn't magically turn this habit off. Its something which you wll just have to accept.

There's a fine line there though. A simple glance is normal but if you find he spends most of his time looking away at other women or if you ever catch him cheating on you, then you need to reconsider how serious he is about the relationship.

You should be accepting enough to know that from time to time he is going to look at other women but he should know that it is not okay to flirt with them or date them.

Someone mentioned you should be more secure in yourself. I agree. Learn to value yourself more. If you can't see your own value how to you expect anyone else too?

Answer 6

It is not your boyfriends fault, us guys do it all the time. I do it all the time, and I love my wife more than anything else in the world. It is just there is this part of the male brain that clicks whenever there is a woman around that says, "check her out, look at her b*obs, compare, compare", then the moment is gone and we notice our girlfriend/wife and feel guilty, but we should not because it is in our programming, just like eating...

Answer 7

You let him get away with that? He should be staring at you all the time. What do those blondes have to offer, they're not with him, you are. Stake your claim. Kick him in the butt. Stand in front of him and make yourself known.....

Answer 8

Maybe he isn't, but just staring into space or something. Ever thought of that?

Answer 9

Unfortunately it's human nature. Everyone will look at something that they find appealing. The problem is when people act upon it.

Answer 10

Must guys have that the mind of a men work that way