Ok,i am a freshman at my school,its a small school,so there not many "fish in the sea",if you know what i mean,but theres this girl,Ivy,and i really like her,and im pretty sure that she likes me,but i don't want to take a chance,because i've been turned down to many times before.Any advice?
2006-10-14 13:20:08 · 17 answers · asked by Matt 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask her if she wants to grab a pizza with you and your friends or a group movie.
2006-10-14 13:22:16 · answer #1 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im afraid the only thing you can do is take a chance. i know it's hard because you've bn turned down too many times, as you say, but it's better knowing that you've made an attempt and you wont go through life wondering 'what if..?' if she likes you, then it's more likely that you wont be turned down. remain positive. at least you're not like me. i've bn turned down even b4 i had the chance to ask guys out. and a whole lot more than you. by evry guy in my grade and more. i never gave up on it though, and neither should you. go for it. take that chance
2006-10-14 20:25:40 · answer #2 · answered by kristyb872001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For goodness sake! You're only what 15? I'm 41 and been turned down more times then you've had years dating. I didn't let it stop me.. and for the past 3 years I have been seeing a great guy. You can't be the perfect guy for every girl. But for one girl you are.. and if you stop trying and stop taking chances.. you'll never meet her...now will you. Go for it.. and if she says no thanks.. just move on to the next. Keep your chin up, be confident.
And don't just go for the rha rha cheerleader type. Some great girls are strong in books and computers, science and math, they may have a few extra pounds have hair other then blonde, sport glasses and wear plaid. Give them all a chance just like you want.
2006-10-14 20:29:11 · answer #3 · answered by D F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, I remember being in your position when I was a freshman in high school. I'm in university now and I have learned that approaching girls isn't so bad. Even if you get turned down, what's the worst that could happen? The girl won't talk to you anymore. Who cares. You're better off without her anyways if she is going to do that to you.
2006-10-14 20:24:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont live in the past think about right now in the present if she likes u and u like her she will say yes if she has doubts she will say no ok dont leave her waiting thats the worst thing u can do and dont become really good friends with her yet always like her becuz then she will think of u more as a brother then a boyfriend believe me ive been in the same situation just ask her out and be done with it!!! no harm in a little spontinaity!!
2006-10-14 20:31:16 · answer #5 · answered by catiegraham 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a chance. All she can do is possibly tell you no. Ask her if she might want to go to a ballgame, or out to a movie or something. Who knows, maybe she'll like you too! If she doesnt want a boyfriend, maybe you'll gain a good friend from it! You have nothing to lose!
2006-10-14 20:31:05 · answer #6 · answered by amanda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let your fear of rejection rule your life. If you like this gal go for it. The worst that can happen is she says no. If that happens then you move on. but think of the potential joy if she says yes! Joy you will never know unless you ask her. Life is far to short to live it hiding from rejection. That is the path to total unhappiness and an unfufilled life. Life is ment to be lived so go for it and live you life to the fullest and cancel the fear.
2006-10-14 20:28:51 · answer #7 · answered by Brian O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u don't take chances then how do u expect to be wit her. if u don't hurry up and take a chance, make a move she'll end up being wit someone else when she could be better off wit u if u woulda just asked her. i should know im a freshman too.
2006-10-14 20:25:08 · answer #8 · answered by Charnelle aka Nelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you can live with:
EITHER
Being turned down...
OR
Spending the rest of your life wondering what might have been because you didn't have the guts to ask her out...
Personally, I'd rather know. Good luck :)
2006-10-14 20:27:46 · answer #9 · answered by Bliss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep getting turned down until you get it right. It's not like you're 90.
2006-10-14 20:23:39 · answer #10 · answered by flip4449 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋