he's not trying to hear it!!!
2006-10-14 13:33:00 · 13 answers · asked by nell16 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well. I hope it not bad ,
because I've done it so many times.
After having a bad relationship
It's a little hard to just jump
into another one.
Don't know if your previous relationship
was good or bad, But good luck in what
choices you make.
2006-10-14 13:40:13 · answer #1 · answered by eviechatter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are doing the right thing, and first of all he does not respect you, all he wants is to satisfy his ego and that's it. If he cares about you, he will understands and he will move with the flow, but as it seems right now, he is on a mission, a mission to add to your disappoints, so you take as much time as you like and if he don't wants to hear, as the saying goes, take a hike or take you as you are or leave you as you are. It's a shame that he has no compassion to even give you a chance to breath, even to get yourself together. Don't let another apple goes bad, let time takes it's course and you will see, there are men out there that will come your way and treat you better than the rest, just remember, the best is yet to come. Hold on and be strong.
2006-10-14 20:45:57 · answer #2 · answered by Dove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he isn't listening to you now how will he be in a couple of months? Things rarely ever get better, specially when a guys involved. Not to be lacking in fate it's just the truth. Don't keep up with this guy if he's gonna be this way. Maybe you need a little longer of a break instead of looking for Mr. Right now. Wish ya the best.
2006-10-14 20:39:18 · answer #3 · answered by Nilly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you even have to discuss your plans on a first date? You went out and had a good time. He asked if you would like to have sex and you said no thanks, not ready for that. He says ok and gives you a goodnight kiss and you're both off to your own beds. Why the relationship talk and the boorish I need to go slow drivel? It was a first date for Christ's sake.
2006-10-14 20:39:05 · answer #4 · answered by OU812 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You as the girl have every right to tell you guy to back off. It takes time to get over your last breakup and if he is just looking for rebound sex, dump his sorry a**. But if he really likes you, he will listen to you and treat you right and take it down a notch!
2006-10-14 20:36:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems sort of like a young desperate guy to me. It's not bad. You should be the prerson who gets to choose if he gets some or not, after all it's your body.
He's prolly like most young guys wants to score every chance on every date, it's ok if he's nice, but if he's getting angry or somethin, dump his loser ***.
2006-10-14 20:59:17 · answer #6 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he cant respect you now as going on a date and waiting till you are ready then let it go that sounds like one of those if you dont i will leave crap so let it go love and respect comes first and if it dont then move on
2006-10-14 20:38:31 · answer #7 · answered by david_black39 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't blame him, if that was your first date the yeah it was bad, go at your own pase yeah, but to say that right off the bat just doesn't sound right
2006-10-14 20:39:08 · answer #8 · answered by BROWNLYN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not wrong,if he is not trying to hear it then leave him alone.
2006-10-14 21:34:34 · answer #9 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not bad. If he can't understand that, then you two shouldn't be together.
2006-10-14 20:35:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋