This guy I REALLY LIKE is going out with this girl thats sorta mean and ugly. I am so in love with this guy, and I know he likes me, but I think he's just scared to leave this girl. What should I do? Well, this is the other option I think that maybe I could go out with his best friend, you know just for the mean time. He is alot like the guy I like, but different looks (which don't really matter to me) and some personallity differences. But if I could pick the person thats closest to him in personality I'd choose him. Any advice?
2006-10-14 13:35:43 · 6 answers · asked by Karma 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Seriously you can't take another guy as a subsititue for the guy you love. it is being very unfair to him if he put in all his love and care for you and ended up just being a reserve in this relationship.
You should go for the guy you love and retreat bcoz there is another girl in the relationship. Anything can happened in the relationship. If the guy is afraid of leaving the girl for you maybe you can start to look for other guys (But don't treat them as reserve ) and carry on with your life. made sure when you find the right guy in your life, you must love him and not treat him as a reserve. Imagine one day if a guy just treat you like a reserve in a relationship, how will you feel? So be clear what you want and to do if the guy you like refuse to leave the girl. All the best to you
2006-10-15 00:02:41 · answer #1 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Face the challenge ! I'll have all the confidence that you can get back your man that you love. Love is selfish, go on and don't worry about the other girl. Stop going out with the other guy as a replacement, act fast for the man you love. Good luck !
2006-10-15 00:53:45 · answer #2 · answered by James Louis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont really think you should go out with his best friend just for the 'mean time' Sounds like you would be doing that just for the sake of it. It would probably just make it more complicated, and some people wouldn't go out with their best friends ex. If you really do like this guy who is going out with someone else, and you know he likes you too, maybe you should try talking to him about how you feel hopefully you can sort this out. Hope it turns out ok for you.
ps. i would grealty appreciate it if someone could reply to my question titled - 'what can I do?' Thanks!
2006-10-14 20:40:36 · answer #3 · answered by NameEditedOut 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you really like the guy why would you go out with his friend. If you do that it's just lkike using him and you wouldn't want any one playing you would you. If you still like him wait for him.
2006-10-14 20:40:27 · answer #4 · answered by here i am 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SHOULD JUST LEAVE IT AS IT IS AND JUST KEEP GOING MAYBE IF YOU GET MORE FLIRTY AND TALK TO HIM MORE MAYBE HE WILL START LIKING YOU MORE THEN WANT TO GO OUT WITH YOU IF THIS IS A BAD ADICE PLZ DON'T LISTEN TO ME
2006-10-14 20:38:56 · answer #5 · answered by ♥J@zzy♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are much better guys out there.Example:ME
2006-10-14 21:57:26 · answer #6 · answered by chasen54 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋