heres my story, me and my boyfreind have been together for two years and we both love each other very much and are planning on gettin married but recently i want him to be submissive, not only in bed but in real life situations. i want him to let me go out and party while he stays in the house and calls me every 45 minuts to make sure hes home, and i also want to put one of those new chasity tubes for men on him, stuff like this i want to happen but how can i do this, do any of you girls on here got ur boyfreind like that , honest answers
2006-10-14 13:38:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have serious issues hun.........
Therapy helps alot!
2006-10-17 08:46:14 · answer #1 · answered by brkeng 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you want for a mate ,,,,, A man or a mouse ,,,,, And just who do you think YOU are to demand such things ,,,, I've heard of alot of stupis things before but this tops them all ,,,,, What's good for the goose is good for the gander ,,,,and besides that ,,,, It's just plain not fair ,,,, A marriage or relationship is a two way street affair ,,,, it's give and take and take and give ,,,,, And just how much would you respect him if he did comply ,,,,, You need to stop and restart your thinking process ,,,,, reboot,,,,, You are totally out of line with this and dominating females soon don't have anyone to dominate unless he's a total wimp ,,,,,What would be your reaction if he demanded this of you and what is he supposed to think when you are out cavorting and running around on him ,,,, ?? I would question the sincerity of your love for him ,,,,,, I mean if you reallly did love him then why on earth would you want to humiliate him like that ???,,,,,You need to grow up ,,,,, I strongly suggest that you forget about marriage right now ,,,, Not only with him but with anyone else because what you say you want in a man could easily become a bone of contention later on after the ceremoney with ANY self respecting man ,,,,,It doesn't appear that you have any respect for him if you think he should just bow to your wishes ,,,,,, You are dreaming and living in LA LA land ,,,,, better wake up and smell the coffee ,,,,, No self respecting man or any man that's worth anything would put up with that sort of crap for very long unless it's like I said ,,,,, that he's a total wimp ,,,,,You probably won't rate this answer as the best one but I don't really care ,,,,, What you'd better do though is sit down and have a long and serious and truthful think with yourself ,,,,,, This whole situation indicates that you are truely brain dead ,,,,,,,
2006-10-14 14:36:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it all depends. Are you going out to parties to flirt with other guys? If so you shouldn't be getting married.
By the tone of your question it sounds like you are wanting to control him and that isnt very good either.
The real question you should be asking yourself is this: What is the real reason that you want your BF to be submissive?
Personally you two probably are not ready to get married.
2006-10-14 13:42:23 · answer #3 · answered by E_E 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So what you are saying is, you want to take away his balls. Being submissive in the bedroom is cool, but I think you want to take too far. I want my man to act like a man, not like some ***** I control. Maybe it's a trust thing, I don't know. What I do know is if I were him I'd hold tightly to those balls and start running.
2006-10-14 13:46:21 · answer #4 · answered by mkathy 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-14 13:46:36 · answer #5 · answered by Nicole 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope sorry
2006-10-14 13:43:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's pathetic. You sound really insecure and selfish.
2006-10-14 13:41:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
What? Do you know he's a person like you? Hmmmm.......sounds like you have issues.
2006-10-14 13:45:21 · answer #8 · answered by freedove06 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
uhhhh.... ur crazy just let him do watever he wants if u dont want to be held back dont hold him back!!!!
2006-10-14 13:52:00 · answer #9 · answered by catiegraham 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you sure its a man that you want?
2006-10-14 13:52:47 · answer #10 · answered by boozer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋