I need some advice here--please help!!!?

Question

This guy I met in person told me that he wanted a relationship more than friendship here. He is fighting for his disability due to medical problems. He went to the doctor this past week and got some bad news about him facing surgery. For two days, I did not talk to me. I tried calling him and he ignored my calls etc... He did finally call me the third day and told me that he was sorry that he had a lot on his mind etc.... and later on that nite i asked him to come over and hang out and he said NO. And I then thought he was advoiding me all out.He started acting like a major jerk to me Two more days have gone past and no word out of him and he tells me earlier today that he thought I was pushing him to come over the other nite and I never did. He said he thought we should go our own ways etc..... I dont know what to think here. Do you think I was being played all this time or what? Please help me out! How do you see this situation as being? Im confused !

Answer 1

Find someone else.

Answer 2

I dont really know what to say. It would seem as though he is upset with the news of surgery and wanted to be alone for a few days maybe. If you really like him then maybe try talking to him about it - better than going your seperate ways really. But most of all, do what you think is right for you.

ps, if anyone could answer this, I would GREATLY appreciate it.
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Answer 3

from what you have written I would say this man has some serious personal issues, that he need to deal with, and you seem to come across as his issues will go away if he come over to your place. I am sorry to say this is not about you, rather him dealing with something that may affect the rest of his life, I would suggest you be a bit empathetic and give him some room