Here's the deal. I met this REALLY great guy (lets call him Ben)and we started hanging out. First we went out for coffee then he came over one night and we just chilled and watched TV and then the third time we hung out we went to a bible study with one of his roomates. This roomates (one of 3) is a girl. She has a crush on Ben but he doesn't like her in that way. I am not sure how Ben feels about me so I asked her if he had said anything about me. She responded with "Not to let you down or anything but he told me you two were just friends." I told her I was bummed and she said "don't worry I was really bummed too when I realized he would never like me like that". At first I was disappointed but then I started thinking that this girl might just be trying to push me away because she likes him and doesn't want to see him with anyone else. Do you think this is the case or is he really not interested in anything more than friendship?
2006-10-14 13:45:32 · 4 answers · asked by pnmnp222 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he is a real friend let him know how you feel. Be ready If he tells you he feels only a friendship. Don't pout and act childish. What ever you do don't go to his roommates, You don't want to look like a little kid if she tells him. You will have many crushes in your life time I am sure. Good Luck!
2006-10-14 13:53:34 · answer #1 · answered by Nani 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really think its the girl just being jelouse, if i were you i would keep hanging out with him, the guy might of said that too her, but only to shut her up you know? so dont worry what she says, the guy might also like the fact that she likes him so he doesnt want her to know that there might be someone else, even though he'll never like her more then a friend. i dont know the guy though. good luck
2006-10-14 13:52:07 · answer #2 · answered by oncewasloved17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since there's no way you can trust what she is saying to be the truth, you cannot rely on what she is saying. You need to ask "Ben".
2006-10-14 13:51:07 · answer #3 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have to ask him to find out for sure!
2006-10-14 13:49:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋