Singles & Dating - 12 October 2006

let me tell you the story... im going out with this grl for 3 years .i left her twice b4 for reasons , but i didnt ask her to wait for me.I was so busy work and start my company .. now im done with my work .. she used to love me so much ..and i did too...but i just never said it.She was even text msging me and emailing me on those past 9 months ... and last time she emailed me was last month ..well i decided to call her and tell her about everything i was hiding ..i told her i loved her and i also asked her to marry me.. she told me ..she needed time and she doesnt feel the same anymore .. we went out 4 days ago and i told her that i was sorry .. then she started crying and said she doesnt feel the same anymore.. i felt that she carred alot but she doesnt want to take that step . i know shes not going out with anyone else either..well she asked me to end it ..cos she doesnt want to be the one ending it.she still asks about me thought .. im confused ..what should i don to get her back?

2006-10-12 04:15:11 · 7 answers · asked by Ali 1

lately i talk 2 this gurl in my classes and i like her but i dont know wut 2 do. i've talken 2 her and sat next 2 her.how do i bring it 2 another level?

2006-10-12 04:13:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

as a follow-up question to the one I just asked about the intimacy between me and my fiancee; can someone please tell me why would a man want to play sex games with his woman when he knows she enjoys it and tells him when she misses him? Is he just a man who gets off seeing a woman on the begging end or does he hate women? It's like he always tries to take me to the point where I just want to go off on him. what the hell is wrong with this dude?

2006-10-12 04:13:10 · 5 answers · asked by stella 2

2006-10-12 04:10:24 · 17 answers · asked by The Phoenix Wears Armani 1

There are two female co-workers of mine who just can't shut up! they spread rumours to everyone that my boss likes me! my boss is in fact treating me nice because i'm responsible on my work and always come up with some great ideas.

My other co-workers understand me. they know how capable i am. i've made a lot of achievements, everyone sees that. however, these two $lut just won't stop saying that my boss dotes on me because i'm beauiful! that he likes me! once, in front of everyone, they said to me "carl, you are so lucky to be born beautiful, you've got all the good things..., the male employees and the boss!"

It's so not true!

They so pissed me off! what to do?
Don't ya agree with them. it's not true. pls help!

2006-10-12 04:10:03 · 35 answers · asked by ? 3

from one meeting to another meeting I suffer alot. although we useally separate only for 22 hours. 2 hours is our meeting time any time available during day or night time. why i have to face such sufferings, worries, etc.? on some occasions we did not meet for more than 25 days. please resolve as i think i am dropped in the deepest basement of the love sea.
thanks.

2006-10-12 04:09:16 · 7 answers · asked by banyamin12 1

What the heck are they doing with him/her? Im not talking about a girl or guy who you like...just random people, Like today I was at work and a really really pretty girl was with this dork of a guy who looks like he spends way too much time playing online video games and he wears his socks up to his knees, yet she is well dressed and hot...Has anyone ever seen odd couples like this?

2006-10-12 04:08:05 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

hi...hi gals n guys...

im carrying on with a guy since last 2 yers...hes a good guy and i love him a lot...but ther wer many bad times we had due to certain things....due to small fights n arguments he left me many times n i went begging to him many times to accept me as he knows my weakness...he jus keeps sayin hes giving me chances bcoz he loves me...but he jus ends the relationships if the fight increases...hes immature,,the point is...that he gives me less attention..we hardly meet once a week or twice sometimes...hardy 2 hrs or so...acc to him girls shudnt work n do job...they shud just do household chores,rest n do other things like hobby or so..but hes strictly against working...he says either i hav to choose him or job...im too confused n upset...whenevr this topic is removed ther r fights...i cry for days..i dont even talk to anybody...im really depressed//pls help me...its nt abt money...its jus tht his family is traditional minded abt girs tht they shudnt work...pls help

2006-10-12 04:06:40 · 17 answers · asked by jessica 1

If i go as a naked man for halloween, would I get a Trick or a Treat??

2006-10-12 04:05:32 · 23 answers · asked by Pub Buddy 2

2006-10-12 04:03:45 · 12 answers · asked by MICKEY M 3

its now coming to a week without hearing from him, l dont know whteher he is scared of what to tell me or he chucked me. please help coz im going crazy. Thanx

2006-10-12 04:00:47 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok last time i posted a question about this it got removed...now all i want to know is why when you want to fight someone they call the cops knowing that it is only going to make the person that want to fight you even more mad, are ppl just that scared? And why do so many girls just stab you in the back I would at least be open about it I will tell somebody exactly how i feel about them to their face i feel no need to be sneaky....do you?

2006-10-12 03:59:20 · 1 answers · asked by KaKes 2

Now every single girl in eya has gotta have a song or 2 that weneva it plays reminds you of that tragic ex!!!!! lol
Mine Kelly clarkson- Behand those hazel eyes and James Bluntt- Good bye my lover.... Very cheesey but very affective!!!!! lol..
Anymore good ones girlies??????????/

2006-10-12 03:58:06 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

ANOTHER UPDATE-----> Recently I met a guy in class and we really clicked. Long story short, we slept together. We decided to remain friends (ie: go out to places together) and open to the possibility of a relationship in the future. Everything was fine until Monday, he starts telling me how much he misses me and tries to kiss me. I reminded him of our agreement and stated that we should adhere to it.

This morning, as I was returning to apt. from work, I saw him walking with some girl. Suddenly he stops walking in my direction and found something super interesting to read at 7 a.m. in one of the campus buildings. The girl that he was walking with looked confused because he literally ran from her into that building. (I know that she's been staying with him on campus since last weekend because that's when we suddenly couldn't go to his apt.) I just kept walking and acted like I didn't see anything.

Later I get an e-mail from him telling me that he thinks that he saw me this morning with another guy. (I was walking alone.) And then he left me a voice message expressing a sudden interest in my welfare. I told him not to bother calling/e-mailing me again. This is painful because I thought he was a decent guy and we could be good friends. I didn't deserve this kind of treatment. Can someone please explain to me why it's so hard for men to be honest?

2006-10-12 03:58:01 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-12 03:57:27 · 22 answers · asked by kchick8080 6

2006-10-12 03:57:04 · 3 answers · asked by ogbignutz 1

For you that have had a few and are not insecure about it, what can a guy do to make it less akward? I've had a few and I always feel like a complete azs when it is over or the next morning. It is like I am 'that guy', like I deceived her or something. But I know a lot of women are ok with it and sometimes just want a one nighter too.
So is there a certain type of guy that lets you know all you want from him is sex or does he do or say something different?

I mean I hear and see all of these purely physical relationships, but if I bring up the idea or tell someone I don't want a relationship just some skin, I am an insensitive ******.

Any Help?

And save the STD comments, plz.

2006-10-12 03:54:32 · 7 answers · asked by tightlies 3

have this crush on a boy ages ago...wondering if i should ask him out...

2006-10-12 03:53:26 · 9 answers · asked by pothead_mania 1

lately i talk 2 this gurl in my classes and i like her but i dont know wut 2 do. i've talken 2 her and sat next 2 her.how do i bring it 2 another level?

2006-10-12 03:52:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

What should I do without embarrasing myself?

2006-10-12 03:52:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay.. so like... its me and my girl's 16 day anniversary!!! So I like... totally want to surprise her, because oh my god! Sixteen days!!! WOW!! And she's so effing hot OMG!!

So how do I dance sexy for her?

Do I do like... the Monster Mash? The Mashed Potato? The Macarena? The Chubby Checker Twist? And it goes like this?

Maybe we could 'Doot doot doot doo doot doot Do the Hustle!!"

2006-10-12 03:51:56 · 9 answers · asked by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5

if when u first got a lady/woman/slutbag whore into bed she offered u trap 2 as an option would you take it or politely decline ?

2006-10-12 03:51:14 · 18 answers · asked by rileys_lad 1

2006-10-12 03:50:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok so I have a boyfriend that I'm not crazy about...we argue and stuff and I'm always keeping an eye out for "mr. right" anyway this guy was kinda being flirty w/me and stupid me told him I had a boyfriend...don't know why i did but i did, somehow in the middle of our conversation it just came out...Do you think he took that as a signal that I wasn't interested? I think the guy was good looking and it has just been so long since I have flirted w/a guy I guess I just forget how lol

2006-10-12 03:50:43 · 9 answers · asked by Rebecca 1

This girl that was trying to call me left me a long message telling me everything she wanted to tell me if we had talked.

2006-10-12 03:47:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ever had a boyfriend or girlfriend with a Movie addiction?
Always wants to go on movie dates.
Has enough $ to do other things and knows there are other things to do.....but favorite is movies.
What does this mean and is there a cure? LOL

2006-10-12 03:47:21 · 13 answers · asked by Patricia 4

I want you to decide, I want you so much!!!

Even if the answer is no, please tell me

2006-10-12 03:47:02 · 21 answers · asked by GATTI S 2

me and my fiancee haven't been intimate in about two going on three weeks. I have talked to him telling him how much I miss him and so on. He seems to think that it's funny, but I don't. we have gone from every day to now none existent. I told him I think he's playing a mind game. I also said that I want intimacy from him and today will be the last day that I approach him on that subject. I was going to get it from somebody if not him. was I out of line? I'm getting frustrated

2006-10-12 03:47:02 · 17 answers · asked by stella 2

Here's the thing...I luv to kiss. And, they guy I'm going out with is {yummy}! I've been daydreaming about him ALL week! It is our first date and I need some input on kissing on the first date. MEN...is it okay, do you like that? WOMEN...what do you think...have you, would you or ...omg...PLZ...help me out here?!?!

2006-10-12 03:44:46 · 12 answers · asked by Q... 1

For those of you that celebrate Christmas, I was just wondering, do you find yourself spending more on your bf/gf/crush during that particular holiday, than you do on their birthdays or Valentines Day?

2006-10-12 03:44:05 · 7 answers · asked by LibraT 4