There are two female co-workers of mine who just can't shut up! they spread rumours to everyone that my boss likes me! my boss is in fact treating me nice because i'm responsible on my work and always come up with some great ideas.
My other co-workers understand me. they know how capable i am. i've made a lot of achievements, everyone sees that. however, these two $lut just won't stop saying that my boss dotes on me because i'm beauiful! that he likes me! once, in front of everyone, they said to me "carl, you are so lucky to be born beautiful, you've got all the good things..., the male employees and the boss!"
It's so not true!
They so pissed me off! what to do?
Don't ya agree with them. it's not true. pls help!
2006-10-12 04:10:03 · 35 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you plan to stay there .....kill them with kindness
ignore the comments
I went through this in my 20's, with two old bats in the office, I at the time was involved in swimwear promotional events
and the hens would CLUCK! (I never brought it in to work, they would see things on the paper , etc)
they feel slighted and un appreciated because they don't feel young and pretty
find something to say to them like, I like the color of your blouse, or something about their new hair do, it works wonders
2006-10-12 04:47:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, If I were you I would not post this question here. Especially if your calling "them" $luts. The point is you should go to your boss and tell him that two of your co-workers are harassing you.That is the best thing to do. Your boss will know who to handle the situation. Second, be stronger, what I mean by this is don't let rumors or other people talking upset you. Learn to ignore people especially when they have nothing better to say. Good luck.
2006-10-12 04:15:27 · answer #2 · answered by WarWolf 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry girl, but people talk! Theres no logical way to get them to stop talking. All you can do is continue to do ur best at ur job, and ignore those jealous biotches!
Believe me I know how it is, they're just too busy focusing on how successful u r, and how pretty u r and all that, that they won't do their job right, and that's y they say the things they do.
I would take it as a compliment really... they r saying that ur pretty. And honestly, part of how ur life is going is because of ur looks! I can see that ur confident, and that's a big tool in doing well at a job!
Well I know I didn't give u any answers on making them shut the heck up. But I hope everything works out!
SaRaH
2006-10-12 04:26:22 · answer #3 · answered by silvr_chyk_serah 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What I see just from the way that you explain yourself that you are far more intelligent then to be struck down by the jealousy of your co workers. Granted you may have the looks but it sounds like your accomplishments far out weigh them. Don't bring yourself down to their level because they have expressed their ideas of making it to the top. Just keep moving in the direction that you are and ignore their idocracies and let them thrash in their own little cesspool of society. Keep up the good work and and have a fabulous day
2006-10-12 04:17:39 · answer #4 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's sad that people talk this way. But take it from where it is coming from and remember that if they are talking about you then they are saving someone else from their slander. Doesn't sound like trying to be rational with this pair would do you any good. Continue to do your job well and who know's you may end up being their superior someday. Then that would shut them up or else they would be spoken to. Perhaps you could let your boss know what they are saying and he could set them straight. Best of luck to you with this problem.
2006-10-12 04:17:21 · answer #5 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
From the looks of your avatar, face it, you're hot. So, you're boss probably pays attention to you at least partly due to your being so attactive. You can't help it though, they are just jealous. The next time they make a comment, keep your cool and just say "you know, I really don't appreciate the catty comments, so if you've got something rude to say, I'd prefer if you'd just keep it to yourself." They'll be cool to you for a couple of days, but it will blow by.
2006-10-12 04:18:16 · answer #6 · answered by babalu2 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, you are beautiful. And people are libel to be jealous of that. Especially if you're capable at your job and they're not.
I wouldn't worry about them spreading rumors. Most people are smart enough to consider the source more than the story, you know?
You read something in the National Enquirer, you don't go around believing it.
2006-10-12 04:15:35 · answer #7 · answered by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are beautiful! well my advise is that do good job, do whatever you like and don't talk to your boss and talk to your co-workers.well then continue what i'm saying for a month and slowly and friendly tell them not to spread the rumours. if they don't SHUT up then just ignore them and if you can change the office.
2006-10-12 04:17:11 · answer #8 · answered by love....me 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get the f*** over yourself! You have an ego problem and some kind of self esteem issue. It's great to be born attractive, but people who constantly talk about how other people are jealous of them or comment them all the time are just so pathetic. Grow up.
2006-10-12 04:17:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
they're just jealous of you there are all kinds of rumors at work usually because people have no time and like picking on people to make themselves feel better. i'd just ignore it and if they don't shut up just tell them hey drop it i'm a hard worker and cant help it that i look good dont be jealous because of what i do or what i look like get over it
2006-10-12 04:13:07 · answer #10 · answered by Melanie 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋