let me tell you the story... im going out with this grl for 3 years .i left her twice b4 for reasons , but i didnt ask her to wait for me.I was so busy work and start my company .. now im done with my work .. she used to love me so much ..and i did too...but i just never said it.She was even text msging me and emailing me on those past 9 months ... and last time she emailed me was last month ..well i decided to call her and tell her about everything i was hiding ..i told her i loved her and i also asked her to marry me.. she told me ..she needed time and she doesnt feel the same anymore .. we went out 4 days ago and i told her that i was sorry .. then she started crying and said she doesnt feel the same anymore.. i felt that she carred alot but she doesnt want to take that step . i know shes not going out with anyone else either..well she asked me to end it ..cos she doesnt want to be the one ending it.she still asks about me thought .. im confused ..what should i don to get her back?
2006-10-12 04:15:11 · 7 answers · asked by Ali 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe you two just weren't ment to be after all
2006-10-12 04:18:21 · answer #1 · answered by Jenster*is*flipping*you*off 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, well ask her one last time, in a nice place with absolutely no pressure, take out your proposal, don't mention it at all and think about the idea that you could start the relationship from scratch, see if she's open to that option, if not then just remain friends. It probably just wasn't meant to be. Life will get better.
2006-10-12 11:34:16 · answer #2 · answered by stormsandblues 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 years is a lot...U can get to know a person very well or not...
U say that u wont her back in ur life..but in ur position there is nothing u could do,just let time to past and if it had to be than it will be...U'll marry her and live happily after...
Otherwise what else could u do?U can not presure her,that will make things worst...I guess u'll have to waith and hope that in ur cause love will winn...
Hope to be good all for both of u...
Best of luck
2006-10-12 11:24:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything. She's asked you to end it, do so. Leave the situation alone. You already had your chance and it seems like you really hurt her by not being up front and honest with her the first time around. Chalk it up to one BIG oops on your part and let her go on with her life.
2006-10-12 11:20:28 · answer #4 · answered by yokrem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have taken her out a few more times before you asked her that important question. I would leave the relationship alone for awhile. Start dating other girls and see where your friendship goes.
2006-10-12 11:24:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to mend and be happy as friends. I am sorry for the both of you but it would not be a good idea. Save you and save her by keeping friends, but not close ones.
2006-10-12 11:21:11 · answer #6 · answered by James S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey u left her for nine months count your losses now and leave her for good and remain friends
2006-10-12 11:22:50 · answer #7 · answered by titties 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋