Singles & Dating - 9 October 2006

I'm a physically average, married guy with kids; I have a decent job and am a decent guy all around.

Most women wouldn't give me a second look or try to keep a conversation going, for whatever moral or aesthetic reasons.

If you were to find out that I was a millionnaire, how many of you gals would suddenly change your motivations and outlook, and why?

What would your goal be, knowing that I was married?

2006-10-09 05:44:12 · 4 answers · asked by drumrb0y 5

We are Best Friends.. And We are so Good Together.. lately another friend of her proposed her and outta confusion she said yes to him, and now they recently broke up.. and now she is like " i dont wanna be in relationship anymore.. i dont trust anybody now " .. that s time i started givin her moral support ... i was always there for her.. and even once she confessed that she was falling for me and as she said yes to that guy she can not be with me while i gave her more love than anyone ..now the story is over and we back on track and i care for her even more and she even realizes that life s so tough without each other and so beautiful when together... i am falling for her.. what if tell her what i feel for her .. will she say a yes or no this confusion is killing me.. am i just a friend giving her moral support or more than that... any guesses ?? plz help

2006-10-09 05:42:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

but how do i let him know ,

2006-10-09 05:40:50 · 14 answers · asked by nikko 1

2006-10-09 05:37:40 · 14 answers · asked by montana_infantry_man 2

He has done his two day "disappearing act" twice, and come up with legit, but in my opinion, lame excuses. I'm also starting to notice things that are beginning to happen, and feel taken for granted. Family and friends love him, so that is also playing a part in my hesitance to just end it. I just felt that maybe it would be best to stop things now, before we get in any deeper....but then, when I hear other people's opinion of him, I start thinking well maybe it's me...but these people have only met him a few times...they see the glory, but they don't know the story. I know that you're never going to be happy 100% of the time in a relationship, so when is it better to stick with a relationship and hang in there and tough it out? Is it the coward's way out to give up so quickly?

2006-10-09 05:37:23 · 17 answers · asked by LibraT 4

Do you think it's too soon to want a committment? How do you feel about a committment ceremonies? Am I to old for a promise ring or pearl? We don't date other people. We have combined our finances. We have mutual goals set. But I want to be sure before I make that final plunge. He' hasn't asked, but I sure wish he would! I've never been loved by someone so much it scares me to think of life without him.

2006-10-09 05:33:17 · 25 answers · asked by May May 1

if they offer formal schooling for that? I've had a lot of practice but I need something showing my credentials.

2006-10-09 05:30:02 · 5 answers · asked by sneakyfker 3

2006-10-09 05:25:49 · 12 answers · asked by montana_infantry_man 2

how do you ask a boy out when he's already going out with someone? it's so unfair! help!

2006-10-09 05:25:38 · 26 answers · asked by fantuh c ` 2

I think I know what love is but sometimes I wonder if it is all worth the pain and anguish that I feel about being in it.

2006-10-09 05:23:18 · 12 answers · asked by postal_marg 3

im 16 years old and legally old e3nough to work. my goals are to start now so i will have money to help futher my education or help myself make a living. but my mother is a cronic procrastanator and kepps telling me to wait. but when it becomes to late shell blame it ion me what should i do.

2006-10-09 05:19:04 · 9 answers · asked by cabbiela 2

I went out with a guy I've known for a while a couple of weeks ago. We ended up kissing and one thing led to another. The only thing I don't like is that he seems really into french kissing... he doesn't kiss without tongue AT ALL, not even at the start of a kiss. I don't mind it occassionally, but I'm not a great fan, doesn't do much for me and sometimes makes me want to gag. Do I tell him?! Also, he gave me oral sex after about 10 mins of foreplay... I don't like this either as it makes me feel pressured to orgasm, and the thought of him kissing me after having his face down there really turns my stomach. I didn't want to say anything because he was trying really hard and wanted to satisfy me before himself. He kept going for ages and I just couldn't relax! Does anyone else feel like this or am I just being stupid?!

2006-10-09 05:18:10 · 29 answers · asked by hmmm 1

2006-10-09 05:16:43 · 18 answers · asked by cabbiela 2

If you had a female slave what would you do to her or have her do to you. If she did something wrong, how would you punish her?

2006-10-09 05:16:17 · 7 answers · asked by Naughty Princess 2

should i just forget about him.. hes done it 2 times to me.. but i'm not like all up in his face and upsessed. you know? i hardly even talk to him anywyas... i don't get it..

2006-10-09 05:14:28 · 11 answers · asked by Kira 2

Ok. Here's the problem. There is this girl that I have known since the beginning of highschool, so we've been friends for over 4 years now. I started to get a bit of a crush on her near the end of grade 12, and over the summer as well. Now we are both going to the same university, and over the past month my 'bit of a crush' has exploded into something new. I've gotten to know her better, and every little thing she does I find cute and irresistible. I honestly like to just go and literally do nothing with her. That sounds weird, but I don't know how to explain it better. I would absolutely love to ask her out, but I don't want her to get weirded out by me as we are already good friends. I also fear that I may have left it too late, because she has mentioned that there is a cute guy on her floor that she hopes maybe likes her. What should I do? Thankyou to anyone that can offer any advice at all.

2006-10-09 05:13:55 · 11 answers · asked by Paul W 2

I have been with boyfriend for two and a half years now, we have two beautiful little girls. At first everything was good with my first daughter and we were even talking about marriage. But, I got pregnant a year later with my second daughter and things changed. We started arguing to the point where we were fighting and police were involved 4 times. But, we still are together. My boyfriend is 5 years older than me. And I am afraid I will lose him if I don't grow up soon. I know I am still immature and that is because I had my first child at 20 and I didn't get a chance to experience things like I should now I don't have any female friends I can talk to. Because, I had kids and now all I do is stay home with my family. He says I am holding him down, cause when he goes over his friends house I get upset cause I am home with the kids and now I have very low self esteem. When we are out and I see someone who is pretty I am afraid he is looking at her. And my jealousy makes him mad. What ca

2006-10-09 05:13:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

He says he loves me. I have been staying with him for over a year now and recently my two sons 14,17 have had to stay with me almost all the time. I am looking for my own place now , as we, Brandon and I have been living in an apartment while going thru divorces.(divorces already in progress before we met) I ended up needing to stay with him and now he is buying a condo and I am looking for an apartment. He told me he does not want to live with my kids. He said that possibly , when he gets his own place and I or my kids aren't there, his kids, 14, 21, will want to come to his place more often. He said right now he wants us to still date . He doesn't want to see anyone else and hopes that I won't. He said right now he is not ready to live with me and my family. I love Brandon very much. He recently told me he felt like I was using him because he has always paid for everything. He makes alot more money than I. I never asked him to do that or expected it.

2006-10-09 05:13:48 · 6 answers · asked by crazartgirl 4

2006-10-09 05:13:00 · 1 answers · asked by zinja 2

2006-10-09 05:11:52 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-09 05:09:46 · 36 answers · asked by maxy t 1

What My Boyfriend Said is
He told me the more we have sex the bigger, his (you know) will get.. is there any truth to this?

2006-10-09 05:09:33 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 25, hes 34, I see him 5 minutes a day at work for 9 months, he flirts hard. So a month after I became available and asked him out. I still live with my ex (lease issues) Now that I got a cell, he only calls like every 3 days, and yes, the ex living here seems to bother him, and he says he isn't looking for a relationship, but wouldnt' sleep with me, he just wanted to cuddle, and have me spend the night and make me eggs (I wouldn't)
Then he said he couldn't see me for like a month because our schedules are different ( I did take days off for our first 2 dates due to our schedules, and his is changing to be like mine soon) And we talked through the whole time, now he calls me every 3 days or so, and last mentioned he had vacation time coming up (THANKSGIVING) and he hopes to be seeing me. He didn't necessarrily say not UNTIL then.
You think future talk and small signs is saying maybe a relationship is his eventual goal and he hasn't completely taken me out of the running?

2006-10-09 05:04:37 · 7 answers · asked by lady 1

like to know everything you do...

2006-10-09 05:03:35 · 30 answers · asked by truth set free 1

...if I were to "touch" myself am I still a virgin?

2006-10-09 05:03:16 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was in love with a girl but she got married and moved, now her sister has crush on me and she know the story of her sis and me, she's young and wild and i can't b with her and i don't want to hurt her, what do u think?

2006-10-09 05:03:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My man tells me that I am too predictable and that has lead me too believe that I am boring to him. I need to know some things to do that could excite him and have him saying, "I didn't see that coming!" Please just let me know what to do.

2006-10-09 05:02:34 · 3 answers · asked by scorpio101 1

Hey ya'll just one question pls be honest and say Why thanks:!!

Has any1 hit a girl??If yes why if not why not??

Stupid question BUT Micheva needs 2know thanks!!!

2006-10-09 05:02:12 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

my wife is upset or sumethin because i have a nude picture of my mom in our bedroom hanging above our bed. but it isn't like that. it is artwork i did from college. anyway she says it destract her and bothers her, and haunts her or somthing...i dont know. any way i dont see what the big deal is...it is not like its really my ma. she says she cant even make love anymore with it in the same room. i ont get it . she cant just turn the other way???? what do i do??

2006-10-09 05:02:06 · 25 answers · asked by barnabus finkle 1

He said he loved me for the first 6 months and then changed his mind after going to a lot of my friends weddings...He says that he shows his love in other ways but he can't actually say he loves me. I'm desperate as I've waited 4 months now. He lost a parent and I think he does love me but can't let people in.

2006-10-09 05:01:06 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous