Ok. Here's the problem. There is this girl that I have known since the beginning of highschool, so we've been friends for over 4 years now. I started to get a bit of a crush on her near the end of grade 12, and over the summer as well. Now we are both going to the same university, and over the past month my 'bit of a crush' has exploded into something new. I've gotten to know her better, and every little thing she does I find cute and irresistible. I honestly like to just go and literally do nothing with her. That sounds weird, but I don't know how to explain it better. I would absolutely love to ask her out, but I don't want her to get weirded out by me as we are already good friends. I also fear that I may have left it too late, because she has mentioned that there is a cute guy on her floor that she hopes maybe likes her. What should I do? Thankyou to anyone that can offer any advice at all.
2006-10-09 05:13:55 · 11 answers · asked by Paul W 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Drop serious hints. If you feel like this about her, and she's stayed friends with you this long, chances are she might like you too. Maybe she just mentioned the other guy to see your reaction. I like a guy I have been friends with since our freshman year of high school. Somewhat of the same thing happened to me. I thought he was cute, and nice, and everything...then I started to like him...now I REALLY like him. Just go for it. Go out with her to just hang out. When the time is right, try to make a little move. Put your arm around her, smile and tell her "You're so cute" when she does something you think is cute, tell her any guy would be lucky to have her when she mentions anybody else...Tell her, because if you never do, then you may never know what she feels for you...tell her before it's too late....good luck :)
2006-10-09 05:25:50 · answer #1 · answered by Inya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want something more from her, you are going to have to take that chance of rejection, even if you have known her for that long. You are going to have to spend more time with her if you want to get that cute guy out of the picture. Act more like a man with her instead of being too nice. Act like if you want her, be a man for Christ's sakes. Grow some balls. Don't talk too damn much either. Let her do all of the talking. When she does, just look at her eyes and her lips. Let her catch you doing it.
Be an *** hole from time to time. Women are attracted to possesiveness. Act jealous even if you are not.
If she rejects you, be cool about it. You are at a university. There are thousands of girls you can find cute and irresistable. If she likes that other dude, figure out what she likes about him. Start doing the same sh**. If you wear glasses and dress like a dumbass, your chances are slim. If you see that you can compete with this guy she likes then go for it.
If you can't compete with the guy yet, you might not have a chance. Figure out a way to knock the guy out of the picture, do it in a honorable way though. Start lifting weights, dress nice, and act confident.
A real man isn't nice all the time. Act like a real man and tell her that you want her. If she's not interested, big f******* deal. Start lifting weights, dress nice, act confident, and think positive and you will win one way or another.
2006-10-09 05:51:09 · answer #2 · answered by Marcel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what she thinks if you guys took another level of friendship by going out. You don't want to scare her but, you also want to hear what she has to say. Tell her how you feel after she explains and maybe there might be a better connection between you both. Good luck sweetheart.
2006-10-09 05:19:12 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 00:13:57 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can't read your mind. Sit her down and tell her how you feel; stop bottling up your feelings or they'll overwhelm you. You will have to accept that she may not reciprocate your feelings and not get all creepy on her if she does reject your offer. You and her are already friends, so it's not like she's going to laugh in your face or make fun of you.
2006-10-09 05:26:05 · answer #5 · answered by deepvioletfire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to go somewhere with you. Don't call it a date. Take to some place of interest to both of you. Talk to her. Tell her how you feel and that you don't want to lose her friendship. She will respect the fact you were honest with her.
2006-10-09 05:24:53 · answer #6 · answered by Ben M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do is ask her out. The worst thing she can say to you is no. You will never know the outcome if you do not try. Good luck to you.
2006-10-09 05:17:47 · answer #7 · answered by doicu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm could you be the cute guy on her floot?
well since you guys are already good friends, it wouldn`t hurt to drop her hints or just tell her straight out when you hang out with her. she won't flat out ignore you, because you guys are really good friends, and who knows, maybe after you tell her. she`ll tell you she feels the same as well.
2006-10-09 05:17:28 · answer #8 · answered by shopisotonix11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be real i mean a girl respects a dude that can be real and a guy who say how he really feel, i mean start by getting to know one another then ask her out don't rush the process....
2006-10-09 05:17:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your in college...step it up and be a real man and just ask her out...whats the worst that could happen...
2006-10-09 05:30:09 · answer #10 · answered by ram_this911 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋