like to know everything you do...
2006-10-09 05:03:35 · 30 answers · asked by truth set free 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is a line that should not be crossed, don't become a stalker. and no more than 1 call per hour. but i like to feel my BF is thinking about me during the day. just don't become a jealous idiot every time she looks out a window, you have to trust.
2006-10-09 05:07:15 · answer #1 · answered by Beeper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, a lil possesive is getting a tad jealous if I mention a guy has a cute butt or something. But to know where I'm at like every second, that is totally in the danger zone. Because that guy has pretty much marked his territory and wants to control and monitor where I go. When a guy is like this, this totally means he doesn't trust his girl at all. And if she was hanging out with male friends he might get so bad as to yell at her and threaten her if he catches her with her male friends. Even if they are doing anything but talking or something. That is the really dangerous part about guys being possessive, cuz sometimes it can go to far.
2006-10-09 05:10:21 · answer #2 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only to a degree. Nothing is worse than an overly possessive partner, so it's better to be on the lighter side. Still, a tinge of (controlled) jealousy is almost necessary, and an interest in what you do is nice... BUT wanting to know *everything*? That's a bit too close to the edge.
See it like this. Jealousy/possessiveness on a 'right' level signals that you love and care for a person. On the 'wrong' level (and that's pretty easy to reach!), you signal that you don't *trust* your partner. And that's BAD and can kill any relationship in no time at all.
2006-10-09 05:13:54 · answer #3 · answered by grrmjau 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No - definitely not. That is a RED FLAG for women! He has control issues and they tend to escalate over time. He needs some therapy and you need a new man. CONTROL IS NOT LOVE - it is a need to compensate for something he feels he is missing or guilt about something he is doing that is wrong. Find someone else with self esteem and you will thank me later.
2006-10-09 05:09:55 · answer #4 · answered by NONE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no never he comes and goes as he pleases and so do I he dont have to tell me any thing about where he goes and niether do I I think that possesiveness is a sign of lack of confidence in him self
2006-10-09 05:09:16 · answer #5 · answered by crystal a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i love when guys act a little possessive cause they make you feel like they want you and they adore you but of course that i dont like being treated as a slave or a prisioner
be careful cause those situations can make your gf get tired of you and go to find her freedom with someone else
2006-10-09 05:06:57 · answer #6 · answered by miliscal123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little bit is good, its nice to be loved and protected. Too much and you come across as insecure, needy, psycho, etc. Very undesireable traits!
2006-10-09 05:10:15 · answer #7 · answered by Caroline 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I like to be possessed, even a little jealousy is OK. I feel protected and cared for when he is like this.
2006-10-09 05:06:16 · answer #8 · answered by Liz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little jealousy can be cute. its when it gets obsessive is when its trouble. There is a diff between asking what I am gonna do tonight (for ex.) and grilling me on every waking moment.
2006-10-09 05:06:40 · answer #9 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little is not the same as "like to know everything you do".
2006-10-09 05:27:16 · answer #10 · answered by mickeyg1958 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋