I am 25, hes 34, I see him 5 minutes a day at work for 9 months, he flirts hard. So a month after I became available and asked him out. I still live with my ex (lease issues) Now that I got a cell, he only calls like every 3 days, and yes, the ex living here seems to bother him, and he says he isn't looking for a relationship, but wouldnt' sleep with me, he just wanted to cuddle, and have me spend the night and make me eggs (I wouldn't)
Then he said he couldn't see me for like a month because our schedules are different ( I did take days off for our first 2 dates due to our schedules, and his is changing to be like mine soon) And we talked through the whole time, now he calls me every 3 days or so, and last mentioned he had vacation time coming up (THANKSGIVING) and he hopes to be seeing me. He didn't necessarrily say not UNTIL then.
You think future talk and small signs is saying maybe a relationship is his eventual goal and he hasn't completely taken me out of the running?
2006-10-09 05:04:37 · 7 answers · asked by lady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the smart thing to do would be to renegotiate your lease to remove either yourself or your ex, it is very stressful to stay in that environment. as to the new guy, his backing off may have to do wiith the cohabitation with your ex .. the future looks promising, but dont rush into a new intimate relationship until you have full closure on your last one.
I cant tell if he is playing you or is serious ... could go either way. you need to know him better and longer.
2006-10-09 05:09:48 · answer #1 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't seem like a true honest guy. So I don't see any connection for a relationship here. Yah, he flirts but he can also flirt with other people more than he flirts with you and you wouldnt even know it. Girl I think you need to stop be dreaming about a relationship with him and move on. He's not giving any true signs that he wants a relationship with you. Maybe he already has one secretly but doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Sweetie just move on to another man. You'll find someone that will be really interested in you instead of acting like he is but really isn't. You get my drift?
2006-10-09 12:13:37 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me it would be hard to put all my eggs in one basket if the women im starting a relationship with is still living with her ex. thats a tough pill to swallow, maybe after you get your own place , its more than likely this guy will come out of his shell, goodluck
2006-10-09 12:10:19 · answer #3 · answered by sonny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he seems to like you a lot. Give it a chance and hope it works out well :-)
2006-10-09 12:07:18 · answer #4 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you better give up on him and concentrate on finding someone else.
2006-10-09 12:09:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No office romance!
2006-10-09 12:09:37 · answer #6 · answered by lildemon78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry - no
2006-10-09 12:06:01 · answer #7 · answered by Privatize 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋