Singles & Dating - 8 October 2006

Why is that a sexy girl is always normally with a sexy guy ?. If that guy wasnt sexy would he instinctively not want to be with the same sexy girl or would he still want be with her and just accept he could not "get" her? What does he do? Compromise? What if he cant and he doesnt want to be alone forever? Yes thats me and im worried!

2006-10-08 04:36:41 · 14 answers · asked by Charlie N 1

We have been dating for 3 years and I haven't even been asked. We each have houses within a block from each other and have good stable careers. The problem is I am quite embarrassed when people ask us when we are getting married, he just responds to them that we have talked about it, but the truth is he never has brought this subject up, just me! I don't want him to ask me because he feels obligated, but because he loves me. I am feeling really hurt over this and we have discussed my feelings, only to get excuses from him. He says I am over-reacting, but I feel I am being reasonable. Some of his excuses are: he can't afford a ring right now (but he just bought a new car and he claims it was a necessity), he would like to one day, our relationship isn't stable enough (we have less than one argument a month and guess what it is normally about?). I just feel he tries to pacify me on this subject, but why is he choosing to continue our relationship without the intent of marriage?

2006-10-08 04:35:37 · 8 answers · asked by stacey h 3

Im not getting enought answers to help me! My boyfriend of 3 years just doesnt act like i'm his "one and only" anymore, sure he tells me i am, but doesn't show as much affection as he used to when we are at school, out with friends, only when we are alone, and even then, it's not that much. He keeps finding excuses to not hang out with me. I'm not going to call him until he calls me, and even then if he wants to see me i might say that i have other things to do. Because for all i know, he could have been out at a party with girls all around him, and he said he would call but he didn't so i have no way of knowing! WHY THE HELL IS HE ACTING LIKE THIS? Don't you think if he doesn't want to be with me anymore, he should jsut say so?

2006-10-08 04:33:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Are they bi? Gay or what is this normal? and if so how can a normal woman ever compete with that?? lol Can you ever be with someone like that ladies?

2006-10-08 04:33:39 · 8 answers · asked by Babylinda 1

i saw this cute guy at the mall the other day.. and i badly want to get his attention.. just that is enough for me.. call it silly, but that will definitely make my day.. but i didnt know what to do.. i was with another two friends.. that guy saw us.. he looked in our direction a few times.. but i didnt know who was he looking at.. i wanted to know him.. but.. i didnt know how to go about doing it.. just have this flirty feeling going on in me these few days..

2006-10-08 04:29:37 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

My older brother Matt( older by two years)seems to be in a very awkard relationship with his girlfriend.He's twenty-five years old,and still acts like a child!! He and his girlfriend literally beat each other up when their upset! They said it's healthy for their anger problems,and is good for relief of anxiety.Last week,she must have given him a good beating the night before he had to go to work because,he wasn't in work the next day.One of these days they are going to hurt each other to the extreme!I can't take it!
Nor can my mom,or my other siblings.My other sister who lives almost right next door to their appartment always hears shouting and screaming.He won't listen to my mom.My dad doesn't seem to care.I know it's non of my buisness but I can't see them going like this any longer!!! Any adivce please would be helpful!:)
my e-mail is Hayley1125@yahoo.com

2006-10-08 04:26:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

it seems to me that this girl is the shy type...i never see her look @ me...but when i brought my friend into her work... he told me that she turned around just to look @ me while folding clothes and when i flirted with her she was all smiling...

2006-10-08 04:26:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i see through my shallow eyes
the broken bones of broken souls
and it pains me to see
the withering decay in your eye
i hope against hope
as shadows fall they fall through you
because you've come too far now
to falter at the finish line
this sacred pain
that you hold dear
does not define you
you're a bigger person
than we all ever knew
and if it takes a hundred years
for you to feel - then thats ok
it's your life always
we're only here - both sides of me
to offer you the subtle touch of empathy
i know not how
it pains to feel living that way
does it hurt like anger?
or an ulcer to your brain?
memories and misled ways
are fixed - unfixable - fixture and fact
tommorow drives them furthur away
we all need to remember that
we're not here to take bullets
we're here to help you through this
the only advice i have to give
is remember that you're not a slave to this
i hope and how
that once your hands untied and free
you can lay down in the mess of life
and...

2006-10-08 04:24:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Flirting through aggression??????????????
My best friend is always hitting me playfully. She is a girl, I'm a guy, we are 15, and people keep saying she is flirting. Today, for example, she just hit me in the head with a school book (lol) for no reason. We have known each other for 2 years. First off, do you think this actually is her way of flirting? She doesn't do it to other people. And also, what should I do back? Should I also playfully mess around with her?

2006-10-08 04:22:13 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK,THIS GURL ON MYSPACE SAID THAT MY MAN IS GOIN WIT HER COUSIN..........SO WAT SHOULD I DO?

2006-10-08 04:21:55 · 4 answers · asked by Tee 2

Last night I overreacted to comment my boyfriend said about me. I told him a week ago that we were not going to get into any major arguments for the next two weeks (because things have been getting pretty tense and also he is moving to an apt soon). But we argued late last night because I was sensitive to that and I scoffed at something else he said during the arguement. I know that I should have just blown the comment off but it reminded me of a past relationship that was abusive.
Now he says he doesnt know if he loves me anymore and that he doesnt want to come over today (long distance relationship). He also says he doesn't want my help with the move anymore.
I don't want to break up with him so what can I do? What should I say? We have been together for nearly 3 yrs

2006-10-08 04:20:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I suppose there are no details appart from that everyone tends to go foer other people and not me!

2006-10-08 04:20:48 · 11 answers · asked by jamie L 2

So i know i haven't done anything to this girl. And she keeps sayin all these horrible things.

like it was my fault and everything blah blah. and as lame as it sounds, i know its not. and eveyone around me knows its not. shes just alittle sensitive.

but anyhow, theres no reason for me to apologise.

But i really want to say sorry to her. Anyhow. even though theres no reason.

Should i?

and if so how?

Thanks!

2006-10-08 04:19:49 · 10 answers · asked by izt_is 1

She insists on chewing her food first!

Is this normal?

2006-10-08 04:19:47 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

We get along well and laugh together a lot. I think he wants to make it an exclusive relationship. I'm not so sure. I am worried about the long term - he is a diffrent religion and culture, has no kids, never married. I am in my 40's, have two teens, and am divorced. My ideal for a partner is around my age, someone who has been married and is a Dad like myself, has the same level of life experience. This guy and I are comfortable together, but I have not committed to him. I still occasionally date others. I have not slept with him yet because of this. What do you think? Am I being smart or should I go for it? I'm worried the differences will cause a problem over time.

2006-10-08 04:18:59 · 15 answers · asked by waterbaby 1

i like this girl so much i wouldn't mind just being friends. i want to know the steps to become her friend. she is 3 grades ahead of me in high-school. i dont if this matters, but she is my height. she says hi
to me in the halls, and is really nice. also, i asked her if she would work with me on a health project and she said yes.

2006-10-08 04:18:09 · 4 answers · asked by geforce_7600_gt 1

this girl seems shy

2006-10-08 04:17:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-08 04:17:06 · 12 answers · asked by daveshadydave 2

2006-10-08 04:16:46 · 21 answers · asked by deedee 1

I swear. guys just want to have sex with anything that can walk. Guys are such horn dogs. I am not that kind of guy.

2006-10-08 04:15:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, He Asked Me Out And I Said No Because I Don't Want To Date Until Next Year But I Do Actually Like Him. [ALOT]What Should I Do Now?

2006-10-08 04:12:55 · 15 answers · asked by IDK! 1

What vegetables and fruits increases the sexual desire and which makes more errection for long time? Need only vegetablw and fruits.

2006-10-08 04:12:54 · 9 answers · asked by ashwin0507 1

Ok so I was with my babys daddy for a year, and he had to move away to finish school, and eventually he started losing his interest in me so we broke up. And I was heartbroken, used to call him crying I want him back. Then I found someone else, that I think I may be in love with, and Now my babys daddy wants me back. He calls me like 5 times a day begging me to take him back and is talking suicide. But I am happy with who I, with now...What do I do?

2006-10-08 04:11:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

my GF is staying very far

pls advice how to keep relationship alive

2006-10-08 04:11:20 · 3 answers · asked by cuteperl16 1

2006-10-08 04:09:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

holding hands? kissing? having sex? Why cannot they just put their butts together and call that an effection?

2006-10-08 04:09:29 · 5 answers · asked by Mark 1

i have been with my boyfriend for over five years on and off and now we have a child together who is 15 months old. he has cheated on me in the past and i caught him sending some not so innocent texts to a girl. so being big and giving him a choice i told him if he was not happy with us then he did not have to be with me. he could see his son as much or as little as he wanted i would not get in the way of it. he said he was happy and we got on with life but there is always this doubt at the back of my mind. his phone messages are now always deleted but at workhe has access to e-mail ets and his phone bill sometimes has numbers used when i not around. so what do i do? pretend as i have been? hide behind smiles? i do love him with all my heart but is that enough for him? i try to be everything he wants but is that enough?

2006-10-08 04:08:07 · 21 answers · asked by susan d 1

They say they will call but dont, and it gets hard to trust them

2006-10-08 04:07:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have the same habbits, likes and nearly dislikes. The thing is though that no one has really ever fancied me!

2006-10-08 04:05:22 · 2 answers · asked by jamie L 2

been seeing this man for a while now and at first things were great and now i don't see him as much because he's always busy. i really like him but i'm not sure how to approach the question 'do you still want to be with me' without causing a argument or without him thinking i don't want him. i feel so depressed and thinking about ending it but don't want to until i know for sure if he wants me or not. Do any of you know the signs or can you give me any ideas on how to ask the question subtley>> please help i can't cope with this.

2006-10-08 04:04:32 · 15 answers · asked by emzie 2