I suppose there are no details appart from that everyone tends to go foer other people and not me!
2006-10-08 04:20:48 · 11 answers · asked by jamie L 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm shy though when it comes to love.
2006-10-08 04:25:45 · update #1
I'm a male!
2006-10-08 04:31:02 · update #2
You just haven't met the right person yet. Don't worry, your day will come!!!
2006-10-08 04:23:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This doesn't mean you're ugly. Is it possible that people who like you just haven't said so? Opposites attract, so it's really possible that the people who do fancy you are shy (since you said you're not). It's likely that someone does really like you, but they haven't said anything. Have you asked anyone out?
There's a trick you can try that may get you noticed. Try wearing really bright colors. (Not all together, you'll look like a clown) If you're wearing neutral pants, go for a bright blue or yellow shirt, or any other bright color - just something to make you stand out. Going into autumn wear a bright colored wind breaker, so people will know it's you even from a distance. Most species use bright colors to attract mates, and it's really effective on the sub-conscious level. This really does work, and it's so subtle nobody will ever know you're doing it on purpose. Good Luck, and don't be hard on yourself.
2006-10-08 11:30:39 · answer #2 · answered by awakeatdawn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry...i am in the same boat u r. No one is ugly physically, everyone is beautiful in their own way. But what can make people ugly is by their personality! Maybe sometimes u come on too strong with a guy so they tend to back off! or maybe u don't need to be so straight forward... look at your personality and see what it is telling u.... guys don't always go for looks (altho it definitely looks and feels like it!)
2006-10-08 11:26:19 · answer #3 · answered by hot_mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are too intimidating to men. I understand how you feel, I am very outspoken and not shy at all. But when there is someone that I am interested in, I have to calm myself down. I have turned a lot of guys away because of how outspoken I am. Just put the charm on and speak really low. Good luck. This comes with experience.
2006-10-08 11:24:44 · answer #4 · answered by pits_me1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Regardless of how ugly you are, there is someone out there uglier than you that does have a boyfriend. Be advised though, if you are ugly you damn sure better be very sweet and not a loud obnoxious know it all chick because guys can't stand them regardless of how attractive they are.
2006-10-08 11:31:09 · answer #5 · answered by Nasty Boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, I used to be in the same boat as you. I only found out this guy liked me back last night and now he's the first guy to ask me out!! Don't rush into a relationship just to have one, and when you meet the one, i'll make it better that u waited
2006-10-08 11:31:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet there are some who really fancy you, the problem is that everyone tries to hide their true feelings, hoping the other person will just guess what is in their heart.
2006-10-08 11:23:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just haven't met the right people, change up your criteria a little bit and see what happens
2006-10-08 11:22:57 · answer #8 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are shy you have to get over it and get going you sould try new things you would have a lot of fun ..
2006-10-08 12:53:00 · answer #9 · answered by erf1960 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should know best whether u are ugly or cute.
2006-10-08 11:23:13 · answer #10 · answered by truth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋