Ok so I was with my babys daddy for a year, and he had to move away to finish school, and eventually he started losing his interest in me so we broke up. And I was heartbroken, used to call him crying I want him back. Then I found someone else, that I think I may be in love with, and Now my babys daddy wants me back. He calls me like 5 times a day begging me to take him back and is talking suicide. But I am happy with who I, with now...What do I do?
2006-10-08 04:11:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HI THERE i would follow my heart i,m sure the suicide thing is a bluff to get you back but would you want him back if the suicide thing is still in his head !! if he was going to suicide he would have done it by now i think it is a guilt trip to get you back who says he would not do it with or without you !! besides if you did go back with him he would probably use it again if you split up nxt time !! so i would call his bluff and folloe your heart and go ahead and enjoy life with the person you really love !!
just some friendly advice cowboy5
2006-10-08 04:27:32 · answer #1 · answered by cowboy5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is a babydaddy? Some new candy bar or could it be a sperm donor?
What you did was wrong. You played with this man's effections, had unprotected sex with him... gave yourself to him, and then you didn't stand by your man by going with him wherever he needed to go to better your life and his.
You cheated on him with the next pair of pants that came along and you deserve to have that child removed from your care and given to the father so he can care for the child instead of being in your loser cheating home.
2006-10-08 11:12:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that someday you will "see him on the other side!"
I have a lot of single co-worker women at my jobs who have had boyfriends that were "going to kill themselves." NONE ever did it!
Your child has a father. You have a man in your life. Drop the one who DROPPED YOU.
Change your phone number. This guy is only calling because you found someone else. He thought you never would.
2006-10-08 11:14:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you realize how ghetto "My baby daddy" sounds. Anyway, if you are happy with the way your life is going then keep him out of it! You are doing the right thing!
2006-10-08 11:15:42 · answer #4 · answered by Adam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on Jerry Springer....
Seriously though, no one knows what you should do better than you. Life is too short to not be happy, if you want to be with someone else just tell him so...what he does after that is his problem, of course you can tell him that he blew his chance and now you're not interested while still conceding that you need him to be part of his baby's life...
2006-10-08 11:14:26 · answer #5 · answered by Tom 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Use a little maturity and do what is best for your child. Which situation will give him or her the homelife he or she needs to grow up and be a responsible and productive adult? Seek counseling if you need help in deciding.
2006-10-08 11:14:10 · answer #6 · answered by uhlawpup 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you tried to take him back but he didnt want u right? so u moved on and found somebody else ..well i would stick with the new guy because he told u he no longer wanted u so just tell him no that u found somebody else =-)
2006-10-08 17:24:59 · answer #7 · answered by Brooke H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before taking any step just think about your baby
2006-10-08 11:25:05 · answer #8 · answered by tabi_Z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're happy now why dump him for someone you now dont care about it...
but let him like thta .. hey he gotta taste a bit from what you tasted,, screw him..let him hate himself sooooo much for leavingyou in the first place... some ppl have to be treated like that..they desrve it..and heey enjoy the previlage of being begged for.. its sweet,,,
2006-10-08 11:14:39 · answer #9 · answered by MOI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's talking suicide, tell his dramatic punk@$$ to kick rocks. But he IS the father of your child, so pontificate on that.
2006-10-08 11:13:48 · answer #10 · answered by rasputin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋