Singles & Dating - 1 October 2006

Guys tell me that I'm hot and kinda look like Angelina Jolie (I don't really see it but I guess its cuz of my eyes,lips, & hair) BUT the problem is I can't find any worthy guys to date. They all seem nice but in the end they just wanna try to get in my pants, but I wanna save sex for marriage and most leave cuz I won't put out. Why are guys so obsessed with sex? I'm a smart, pretty and fun girl but where are the real men who just wanna get to know the real me and not just try to get me into bed?

When has virginity been such a bad characteristic in a girl?

2006-10-01 16:50:38 · 6 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1

Ok my bf is SXE for those of you who dont know what that is it's when you dont drink/smoke/do drugs/have sex before marrige ok well so he says he doesnt want to have sex until marrige but he loves me and he says that since he does he would have sex with me. Sometimes he acts like he wants to but other times he acts like he doesnt. Whats his deal? Does he want it or not?

2006-10-01 16:50:22 · 13 answers · asked by XSkittle_FantasticX 1

i feel horrible coz i had drinks with this new guy friend and we sort of cuddle and kiss for while but i have a bf and i've promise my bf i'll never drink and smoke...and worst of all i think what i did with the guy friend consider cheating....what should i do? i dun have any feeling for this guy... i was just upset and drunk....

2006-10-01 16:49:05 · 11 answers · asked by baabaa 1

Looking for feedback on personal experiences or stories you have heard of people in bipolar relationships. And what would you recommend to someone who was about to enter a relationship with a bipolar person? Because I've only heard that it is the worst.

2006-10-01 16:47:08 · 24 answers · asked by Sammyp 1

I am a college student and one of my closest friends is a 35 year old man I met at work. We spend a lot of time together and when we go out he always insists on paying for everything. There was a lapse in our friendship for a few months and during that time he got engaged to a woman in another state. He thinks his engagement has fizzled but still calls her his gf. He has been calling me daily wanting to do things. He says he cares a lot about me, etc but he also says that he can tell me certain things because he's not trying to impress me and I'm a kid. during our lapse I totally wrote him out of my life so now I could care less if he wants to start a romantic relationship or not. But I am curious as to what he is up to, if anything. Like I said I'm totally cool staying friends it's just that his generosity and comments make things kinda awkward.

2006-10-01 16:47:07 · 7 answers · asked by mizindependent 2

So this girl used to like me, and i was shy to tak to her, so now i really want to but i think she gave up? How do i get to like me again?

2006-10-01 16:45:50 · 1 answers · asked by doeboi248 1

2006-10-01 16:45:18 · 2 answers · asked by Perfectly Flawed 5

I am not Ho M o to the least, but I still appreciate the beauty that a male can possess...anyone here share this character?

ALSO, I am 5'11" and 148 pounds..how much weight should i gain?

2006-10-01 16:45:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

This question also deals with appreciation of a person. The use of a person to the point that they dont want to to be around another person out of fear of being used. This person was a friend first and then it grew one sided into something else. After we called it quits i am not able to fully let her go. We try to be friends be i cant get a feeling of what she wants from me. I hide my true feelings around her because they will something cause us to get into an argument. Now the problem is that her family wants me around because they like me but i dont always want to be near her because the unknown feelings that might come out and cause trouble for me. We try to be friends to each other but it always turns into an arkward event. My problem is that i do actually love her but i cant hide it from her. I need to know how to supress these feelings.

2006-10-01 16:44:07 · 4 answers · asked by clark_kent4l 1

I met this woman bout 2 months ago and we talk occasionally,the thing is she has been really hurt by men and she's afraid 2 get close 2 sum1...I want to show her i'm different but not pressure her.How can i do this?I don't want to bug her.But i want her to know i'm not like those other guys...

2006-10-01 16:43:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

damn im horny what do i do? my boyfriend is not herre!

2006-10-01 16:39:11 · 6 answers · asked by chrisbaby5eva 1

Do you feel it, and if you do does it bother you, when your lady uses a diaphragm or a contraceptive sponge? I am looking for a new form of birth control and wonder if it interferes with your pleasure or otherwise bothers you...or her. Thanks!

2006-10-01 16:38:46 · 13 answers · asked by remmymarie 2

ok when im on the computer or writing something(im on my bed)my bf will come up to me and start kissing my neck then he push on my back climbs on top of me and pulls off my shrit. of course im trying to get him off me uselly im doing something important. when he gets my shrit off he kisses my stomch and then he moves up to me bra and kisses around my bra line. then he just gets off me and goes back to what ever he was doing. is that gross? what would u do if that happened to u?

2006-10-01 16:38:43 · 17 answers · asked by FrozenCyclone Xmen Rule 1

Do girls, for the most part (cuz I know some have preferences) really care if a guy is cut or uncut (cirucmsized or not)?

2006-10-01 16:38:24 · 2 answers · asked by Sufjan Rules 2

Hi, everyone!

I heard people say that MS or Federal (maybe) law prohibits a person who is 18 or older to date a minor if their age difference is more than 2 years. That would mean that when I turn 18 soon, I won't be able to date my schoolmates who are 2 or 3 years younger. Is that true or is it just a myth? I am just curious about it.

Thanks.

Eugene

2006-10-01 16:38:13 · 3 answers · asked by eugene89us 2

2006-10-01 16:37:35 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm just wondering. Now he wants to talk a lot. I think he always wants to talk. Basically he said he doesn't trust me and wouldn't have sex with me. I wouldn't have sex with him because his ex had herpes. I'm so confused. He likes talking to me, but I want him to be physically attracted to me too, because I like him both ways. I am rarely attracted to a guy.

2006-10-01 16:37:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a shy girl, and I like this boy that I've known since last year. We're both kind of geeky and share some unique interests like nature. The problem is, he's even shyer than I am! And he talks to me even less than he talks to my girlfriends.

One of his friends keeps teasing us about each other, but that may just be because we're partners in class. And when someone asked him who he liked, he just blushed and kept his mouth shut. He remained this way when asked if the girl was me. Hey, at least he didn't say no! But I think he's already aware that I'm hoping for a boyfriend. Does he like me but is just too shy to say it? Or is he just not interested?

I'm curious about how to know this without coming right out and declaring my feelings for him (I'm an old-fashioned kind of girl). I've already asked his friend, who isn't sure. Please help me with at least one of these questions; I'm lonely!

2006-10-01 16:36:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i kno love is different for everyone. but what does love really mean?

2006-10-01 16:34:11 · 7 answers · asked by Pheen 1

I and varsha (a decent girl ) are lab partners .
I was REFERING & TREATING her as sister.
Everyone knows about it.I started loving this girl now.
What should i do.

Iam afraid, What will people think about me & her.
What will she think about me ...
etc...


Please Help

2006-10-01 16:33:26 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I dont care who these people are with. I just go on about my business and do my own thing.

2006-10-01 16:32:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well, I've been dating this guy, and i always feel like he's only dating me for looks. he says he doesnt care how i look. but then sometimes he shows that he really does. so. how do you know...

2006-10-01 16:31:13 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-01 16:30:31 · 7 answers · asked by Jade A 1

Ok here goes:


I’m 15, this girl is 13: ITS only 2 years

A few months ago, me and this girl were really close, we would talk and flirt all the time, and this went on for a while, well eventually people started talking about us, being so close, and wondered if we were dating. She started backing off big time, and seemed like something was bothering her. Well I asked her to the movies, and she said idk maybe. I took it as a nice way of saying no. Well she told her friends she just doesn’t know, because I’ve liked many different girls b4, and she just want to see if I could stick with her for a while. Well months passed, and we got further and further away. I wondered why? Well she and her mom are REALLY close, so I asked her mom. Her mom said she was just really scared, because we have been friends since age 7. Well then she told her friends she just doesn’t want to hurt my feelings. It got to the point were I couldn’t stand it anymore. So I emailed her this about a month ago


can we please talk??
I've got to tell you something, because, well, i just got to know.
I really like you, alot. And it seemed like you used to like me. But now, it just seems like you are really really trying to avoid me. I mean, i know youve been busy and all with swimmin, but like since carrowinds, we havent talked, barely any , at all. It seems like you just dont care about me. I mean, i feel so confused, because, for some reason, you just stopped talking to me. Why? I mean, are you trying to get me to take the hint? Or what? I mean i really dont know what to think. Tell me anything, tell me that you hate me, just please please be honest. Remember that thing at carrowinds, guys cant stand when girls beat around the bush? Well, if you dont like me, please just tell me straight up. My feelings wont be hurt. And if you do, but just arent sure, just tell me. I wanna be there for you, I want you to be able to trust me, and be able to talk to me, about anything

This is what she replied

hey,
well first of all, I don't hate you. second, I haven't been avoiding you either becuase its not been just swimming that I've been busy with its been life.I also haven't been beating around the bush because you never asked me if I did or not. But I haven't ever thought of being more than friends with you because we've always been good friends and I think thats how things should stay.I just don't want to ruin a friendship.hope you've had a good day, and i will talk to you later.





This is what I replied



hey!!. thanks for being honest with me. I really value our friendship too, and if you don’t feel comfortable, because of ruining the friendship if something were to happen, that is cool with me.




Now to me, that sounds like two things (1) she doesn’t want to ruin a friendship, cuz we’ve been friends since age 7 or (2) shes just letting me down easy. But now she is flirting with this other guy, like she used to do with me. But she seems more comfortable around me than she did before. But when she sees that I am not going out of my way to see her, she seems to talk to me more, and flirt a little more, almost like she don’t have me anymore. And sometimes, Ill catch her looking at me, and when I look she’ll look away. And then sometimes, her body language, she just seems sad, like she wants to tell me something, or likes me or IDK what, its just she seems different since we talked about it. But I mean b4 she really seemed to like me, and IDK why she just would have stopped. , I mean I’ve like many girls, just none like this, When I wake up sheds the first think I think about, and the last think when I go to sleep. I just cant let her go.
My question is do you think she was letting me down easy, or is just scared, and what should I do about it? And please don’t tell me I’m too young

2006-10-01 16:30:17 · 19 answers · asked by how many 1

OKAY GUYS AND GIRLS I HAVE BEEN TALKIN TO THESE GUY AND HE TOLD ALL HIS PERSONAL BUSINESS.BUT I CAN'T GET HIM TO OPENED UP AND TELL ME IF HIS FEEL ME OR NOT.His a shy guy everytime we do talk i have to start the conversation.And what does it mean if a guy doesn't call. i pretty sure it means that his not really feel me at all.The guy gives me mixed feelings sometimes.and to tell you guys and girls the truth i really can't take his bullshit anymore.SHOULD I TELL HIM HOW I FEEL OR DOES THAT MAKE ME LOOK DESPERATE.SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME OUT

2006-10-01 16:29:35 · 7 answers · asked by Mocha 2

So. im a senior in high school and i like this freshman girl. I have talked to her a lot and i love seeing her in the hall because she always gives me this great smile. Well, i got the guts to ask her to homecoming, but shes not allowed to have a date for dances until shes 16, so what should i do? Im not sure if she likes me but i have a gut feeling she does. We always talk and if im talking to someone within earshot of her she will typically join in. But if she does like me what should i do? I suppose i could still dance with her, but what can i do to go the next step? should i try to show myself in a positive light and try to change the parents minds' or what?

2006-10-01 16:29:22 · 11 answers · asked by Nick 1

2006-10-01 16:28:58 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend is 17. We live about 3 hours from eachother and dont get to see eachother very often. The last time we saw eachother was about 5 months ago. So, the fair is coming soon and I think that would be a great time to see eachother but the problem is he doesnt own a car. How could he come?

2006-10-01 16:28:58 · 6 answers · asked by XSkittle_FantasticX 1

It's been a long time since I had I date.

2006-10-01 16:28:51 · 5 answers · asked by Tavita 5

2006-10-01 16:27:39 · 11 answers · asked by tobeornottobe 4