ok when im on the computer or writing something(im on my bed)my bf will come up to me and start kissing my neck then he push on my back climbs on top of me and pulls off my shrit. of course im trying to get him off me uselly im doing something important. when he gets my shrit off he kisses my stomch and then he moves up to me bra and kisses around my bra line. then he just gets off me and goes back to what ever he was doing. is that gross? what would u do if that happened to u?
2006-10-01 16:38:43 · 17 answers · asked by FrozenCyclone Xmen Rule 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
IM 13 HES 16!! AND I DONT THINK ITS GROSS BUT MY FRIENDS DO!!
2006-10-01 16:50:09 · update #1
What? You didnt explain that well at all.
2006-10-01 16:43:50 · answer #1 · answered by James 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two have not done much sexually before (I'm guessing since you are 13 that you haven't), then he is just trying to see how far you will let him go. Considering how old you both are, then you are probably both a nervous wreck when it comes to anything sexual....and you should be. I was in a relationship at 14 with a 17 year old. There are alot of pressures with that kid of relationship. If you really care about each other, then take things slowly. What he is doing is not gross, it is normal for teenage boys to want to be with a girl, but they freak out when that opportunity actually comes along. I remember everything I did when I was your age, and I wish I could go back to that innocent kind of love again. My ex-boyfriend used to always do things like that when we were younger. I loved when he would show his affections for me...he never grossed me out. Now as a 27 year old married woman, there is no more just making out for a few minutes in between homework and whatever. Now, it's all or nothing. FYI--be careful what you share with your friends about your relationship with your boyfriend. I told some of my friends way too much when I was in high school, and it haunted me for a long time.
2006-10-01 17:06:22 · answer #2 · answered by cowgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Er... ought to be some sort of TMJ with the joint transferring around. i'm tormented by TMJ purely now, even however my joint thoroughly popped out of place so my jaw is presently all locked up. I used to have some popping in the previous it have been given undesirable however. i understand a great element to it is rigidity. Do you think of you have to be clenching/grinding your enamel at night each few months? attempt to work out while it occurs and in case you have something annoying taking place while it does. If the popping keeps, see somebody through fact which you are able to might desire to get something corrected. Your chew could be off or you need to wish some sort of splint to push that joint back into it somewhat is ideal place.
2016-12-15 18:08:50 · answer #3 · answered by chappie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's gross about it? Annoying maybe but I don't get why it would be gross. If you've gone trough the trouble of actually writing all that stuff down, its probably because it grosses you out. Just tll him to leave you alone, you're busy.
then when you're done with whatever you were doing jump on top of him and kiss his chest:P. mmm
2006-10-01 16:43:15 · answer #4 · answered by c_mitu89 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think what your boyfriend does is gross. It sounds like misguided affection. I mean, you could perceive his behavior in terms of him using you to get his kicks, or you can perceive it in terms of him thinking that he's demonstrating his affection for you despite what you're doing at the time. It boils down to how you wish to perceive his behavior.
If my boyfriend did it to me, especially on a routine basis, I'd ask myself why he's doing it. If I thought he was doing it out of affection for me, however misguided and rude, I wouldn't have a problem with it. If I did, I'd tell him that I think his behavior is a little rude and pushy. If I thought he was doing it not out of affection but because he's being rude, pushy and self-centered, I'd tell him so and tell him to stop doing it.
2006-10-01 16:53:17 · answer #5 · answered by katiefemme82 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not gross, he's just letting you know how attractive you are to him. If it's that annoying, just tell him to not do it when you doing something that looks important.
2006-10-01 16:42:18 · answer #6 · answered by Jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just showing you he loves you & knows your doing some thing important but wants to reasure you of his love & yours for him, Just give him a kiss back.
2006-10-01 16:48:21 · answer #7 · answered by Mosez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you think its gross? he is just trying to get to you, to get your attention...after you dont react to his touches and kisses of course he'll just give up and leave...maybe a bit more emotions from your side. kiss him back, smile at him and explain nicely that you are busy...
2006-10-01 16:44:16 · answer #8 · answered by Mila 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah, it's not gross. He is just overly physically attractive to you, and wants you to know.
2006-10-01 16:48:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
prolly trying to get some of your attention or sumthing. go along with it. and no, i dont think this is gross.
2006-10-01 16:43:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ewwwwwww!ur 13 hes 16 yall r doin it,hmmmmmmmmmm 2 words break up,and ya........thats nasty
2006-10-01 19:25:54 · answer #11 · answered by polly! :) Hahahahaha 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋