Singles & Dating - 1 October 2006

Me and my boyfriend of 3 years just recently broke up. Im scared that im gunna screw up my college classes now because sometimes i feel to upset to concentrate. What also really scares me is that we have the exact same friends so there is a good chance that we will be seeing eachother. I just dont want this to ruin everything ive got going for me. Weve broken up before and i know how terrible i felt until we got back together and i just dont want that anymore. Im pretty sure that we are done for good now and im just having a hard time accepting that. I know that time heals all wounds but i dont want to fail my classes. i know there is nothing anyone could do to help but does anyone know of any really good ways to get over it?

2006-10-01 18:42:19 · 10 answers · asked by emeraldrose 1

Ok...about six months ago my friend and I made a bet: the first one to have sex gets a free dinner from the other friend. I know...it's terrible, but we have yet to resolve the bet after over six months. Normally I assume any other two guys would have done the deed by now, but no, not us. Why?

2006-10-01 18:41:06 · 10 answers · asked by Richard H 2

Should I change the nickname of my avatar??

AND I CAN SPELL JUST FINE I AM JUST HAVE A BAD NIGHT!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-10-01 18:39:19 · 8 answers · asked by Wolf Apple 3

i feel lonely but the thing that made me feel this way is that my GF doesn't want to do more in out relationship and i do. by more i mean sexual things, i'm not saying sex but i want to be able to do more sexual things with her. we've been together for nearly 10 months and i love her (i know i am gonna get critisized because how can i love her and not be willing to give in and not ask for more). i have a strong sex drive and she has a.....well she doesn't have one at all. yesterday we were talking and i told her that i wanted her and i wished that we could do more, and then some stuff came up and then she said that for her there are 2 options, for her to want me and for her to not want me, and she said it wasn't the first one and i felt crushed. there are three steel walls that block me, the she's not interested wall, she doesn't understand and she doesn't care that she doesn't understand. am i going too fast? am i asking too much? should i change? should i keep all of this to myself?

2006-10-01 18:38:06 · 13 answers · asked by ParadoxZero 3

I just started a new job and there is a guy there that i am really attracted to.....the problem is that he is 21 and i am 35 .I think he might be attracted to me as well,but not sure.....Am i crazy for even considering someone so much younger than me......or how can i really tell if he is into me as well without being humiliated if the feeling is not mutual?Please only serious answers,thanks

2006-10-01 18:35:52 · 11 answers · asked by sugar_n_spice 5

ladies In the fall winter or spring what kind of shoes do you like guys to wear ?

2006-10-01 18:35:47 · 3 answers · asked by bolounit1 2

Okay. I asked this guy from my bank out, he's cute, funny, nice. I'm really excited. But I haven't been on a real date, like ever. I just got divorced and the only one I've ever been out with was my husband, (even then there was never a real date). I don't want to look stupid on this date, I really like this guy I don't want to blow it. But I almost wasn't prepared for him to say yes. Any first date tips (or ideas) that you guys can help me out with? Thank you so much, to those who respond.

2006-10-01 18:34:09 · 12 answers · asked by PunkerThanYou 1

When your in love do u just say how much u love them or do u say stuff like you could not imagine your life without them tell me wat u say.

2006-10-01 18:31:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have never gone out just to meet women. Sure, my friends and I go out and drink, and we do meet women, but I guess we're just to reserved and cautious to actually approach a woman due to fear of rejection. When a girl is actually interested in me I do roll with it, but nary have I actually liked the person...they're always so, for lack of a better word, slutty. I am now genuinely interested in meeting somebody with substance, but how? Do I just keep going out with my buddies and hope for the best, or do I have to be more active in my search? If so, then how should I commence it?

2006-10-01 18:30:57 · 13 answers · asked by Richard H 2

difficult. i mean, theres these two guys that i like and they like me two. exept i dont know which one i should concentrate my focus more on. and its kind of hard to tell which one just wants *** and a hookup. im really not down for that, its a major turn-off, unless i am looking for a hookup. but in this case im not.
also, scince im a teenager, i always have a difficult time with this guys stuff. because theres always all these guys after me and i dont know how to handle it
how can i let them know that i like them, but without being too "available" for them. or acting easy, and being a dumb flirt
like, i want to be "dirty" or daring in someways, and that im chill
but bottom line i want to be respected, and at the top of the "apple tree" not the apples lying on the ground that are "easy" to get
any help???

2006-10-01 18:28:53 · 1 answers · asked by hipsdontlie16 1

2006-10-01 18:28:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Because i love them
Anyone have any suggestions on approaching a white chick without them running or calling a police officer or screaming rape rape omg hes going to kill me?

2006-10-01 18:25:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

so i have this friend who i really like. i asked her out a year ago and she said no but were pretty close. im 19 and a virgin and shes 18 and far from it. she has sex pretty casually. would it be out of line to ask her to be my frist. we both trust each other. i dont want it to be with some random girl on a drunken night. what exactly shoiuld i say to her and do u think shell go for it?

2006-10-01 18:25:14 · 23 answers · asked by greg J 1

to go through withdrawal from a person? (not sexually)

2006-10-01 18:23:31 · 10 answers · asked by Avia 3

I have a very close (and attractive) female friend who I went out with this past weekend. We have always been friends and nothing more has ever happened. She got rather tipsy (smashed) and began grilling me with questions like "do you wish we could be more than friends" and statements such as "I love you more than life itself." Had she not been such a close friend, this would have been easy. Instead, I give responses such as "well, your goals are going to take you around the world and I'm anchored here; I don't want to get between you and your dreams" to calm her down. Please note that I am a guy, and as such, I want to be more than just friends, but things would go south between us real quick if I took advantage of her drunkness and it turned out she was not interested in anything other than friendship (and she's absolutely my best friend). Any friendly female advice on how to walk this minefield without blowing myself up?

2006-10-01 18:23:07 · 20 answers · asked by jbmedaris 2

I was told that guys red flags go off when a girl cries in front of them or shows emotion. I was also told that guys will run the other direction if a girl over reacts to a situation and freaks out. This situation kinda happened to me. I am head over heals in love with a guy at my church and I have been kinda bideing my time waiting for him to be ready to date again. Well we went down to Cali together, a 14 hour trip by the way, and I over reacted and assumed he had done something that he had not. It hurt him that I accused him of it and despite the fact that he was willing to talk it out at the time, I held onto it and let it get bigger until three days later I litterally BLEW up at him. I used every bad word in the book and it wasn't pretty. I told him today that I was SOOO sorry and that I was just under ALOT of stress this past week but I am not sure he cares.. Do you think I freaked him out? Do you think that theres even a little chance for us to be together in the future

2006-10-01 18:22:06 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

For starters, I am in college. I was doing this computer project for class and this girl in my class, who I think is hot as hell, sat next to me and asked me if i wanted to work on the project with her (we have the same project). We worked on it together and when we finished it I just walked out and she chased me down to thank me for my help and she shook my hand and had a big smile and said see you next class. She then followed me to my car and we talked for a bit and then we both left. Should I try to talk to her at my next class????

2006-10-01 18:17:40 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Her government will not let her ome over because she is single and not married. I would like to bring her over for me.

2006-10-01 18:16:49 · 4 answers · asked by BigDaddywantsblwjob 2

I talked with women on some adult web-sites and my girlfriend caught me. Now she doesn't trust me to go anywhere by myself. I feel a little crowded by her actions. I haven't been ony any of these sites in about 9 months but she still mistrusts me. I take her everywhere with me and we do everything together but I want to go to a football game with a college friend and she is pretty upset by the whole thing. I think she needs to ease up on me but she doesn't think so. What can I do to make her trust me again?

2006-10-01 18:16:34 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

or do absolutely all of you say you'd like a friend w/ privileges. it's just me, isn't it? just say it is. argh!!

2006-10-01 18:15:59 · 7 answers · asked by whatwhatwhat 5

2006-10-01 18:15:50 · 11 answers · asked by blaze30501 1

Ive never had one

2006-10-01 18:13:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a crush on a co-worker and professionalism keeps us from really expressing those types of feelings but this is how he acts towards me...
- He's nervous around me
- Is always super nice to me
- we went bowling with friends and he had to high five me after every frame.
- we smile at eachother a lot but it feels so tense

I'm just curious

2006-10-01 18:13:43 · 6 answers · asked by Jp83 6

I can't understand the process. I can take percocet and class a and b drugs and never desire one after my pain is gone. He describes this as such a great deal, when all i do is itch and fall asleep. He is working on a probationary license after he got in 1998. He goes to NA meetings, I have gone with him, I hear many things I am unaccustomed to hearing, such as crack, herion deals, but all he took was probably a billion percocet. I don't understand how a person can crave painkillers if they are not in pain. I drink, that makes him want to use, so I decided not to drink in front of him, no big deal for me. He has a bad knee, he went into the hospital this evening, he told me he has been taking about 15 vicodin a day for a week, he is about to lose it all, thank God he went to hospital because if he were called for a urine, he would have been hot, but he knows how to deal with that. What in the world am I dealing with. I never even knew he was on drugs, I love him. HELP ME

2006-10-01 18:13:26 · 5 answers · asked by marie 2

She says its hers and I tell her its mine except when shes using it so to speak

2006-10-01 18:12:47 · 11 answers · asked by mcfatguy 1

2006-10-01 18:12:12 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok so I am a shy person and I like this guy at my chruch and well I have know him well his little sister for a long time now and I can not get him to notice me...well I don't even try because I am so freakn SHY!! What should I do??
Remember I am a very shy person!!

2006-10-01 18:05:56 · 9 answers · asked by Wolf Apple 3

I want to know if anyone has witnessed or has performed an unobviouse sign of affection. If so what is it that you notice or do?

2006-10-01 18:04:02 · 6 answers · asked by fancy 5

a guy out for a date should she be the one to pay? or should it be the guy? cause i think thats a big reason why i have never asked a guy out on a date because i never have money to pay for anything.
so girl ask= girl pays, or is it no matter what guy should be prepared to pay?

2006-10-01 18:03:40 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just barely started dating my best guy friend, two days ago. Im 17 and i have had sex before. He knows i have. He keeps talking about how great it will be when we finally "make love" and asked me to make love to him tonight when I was at his house! And we were kissing and he tried to pull my shirt up but I like shoved him off. I felt kinda bad but I just want to take things really really slow. And he said we should move in together and is already talking like we are married! I dont know what to do! I just got out of a relationship with a guy that burned me bad, I've only had sex one other time and it was a bad experience, I'm so nervous I dont know what to do. When hes ontop of me I feel like he is an octopus just smothering me with his hands everywhere. Hes really sweet he is just alot more experienced and I think he expects me to be too. I dunno what to do.

2006-10-01 18:02:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous