Why do I attract promiscuous women?

Question

I have never gone out just to meet women. Sure, my friends and I go out and drink, and we do meet women, but I guess we're just to reserved and cautious to actually approach a woman due to fear of rejection. When a girl is actually interested in me I do roll with it, but nary have I actually liked the person...they're always so, for lack of a better word, slutty. I am now genuinely interested in meeting somebody with substance, but how? Do I just keep going out with my buddies and hope for the best, or do I have to be more active in my search? If so, then how should I commence it?

Answer 1

You're probably not going to find what you're really looking for in a woman at bar although it's possible.
The women who don't approach you are better perhaps. No way to tell if you don't get aggressive in meeting them though.
Try other places. Grocery store. Laundromat and especially bookstores. You probably want a woman with brains.

Good luck.

Answer 2

Let me get this straight - you attract slutty women, and yet in six months you haven't had sex, even to win a bet?!

Well, I suppose I should be congratulating you on your mature life choices. If you want to meet a better class of woman, then you probably won't find one out with your buddies.

I would join some sort of group, club or society which shares your interests, as long as there is an equal mix of men and women, or more women than men.

Or join a "socialising" group for single people. Okay, they're really dating groups, but that sounds desperate and tacky, so they are socialising groups. You can go out to dinner, out dancing, play golf, cycling, whatever, and meet a reasonable mix of people.

Answer 3

Here's the key. If you want to find a drunk, then go to a bar.

If you want someone who better than just that, try all the churches in your area, and no I'm not talking about the chicken place.

Then hit the local gyms around 5-6pm all the women who are looking for you will be their at that time. Go to the most upscale clubs.

If you are active, go to some of the tennis clubs.

You truly have to show genuine interest in the one you want in order to not be counted out by these particular women, they are looking for a husband and someone who's confident, takes charge and has a plan.

Answer 4

The reason why you attract promiscuos women is because......i would have to explain it this way....you and your friends always go out, your known for either being around pretty women and good looking men, you got alot of girls on your list...alot of women who don't score that well with any type of man figures you have clout, you get noticed being with people who are always the talk of the town, these women throw themselves at you because they too want that attention, that your getting tired of that's why you want to settle with a level headed girl, because you know these girls aren't worth the time, they just want to be noticed for their sex, and we all know you can't turn a hoe into a housewife....I hope that makes sense

Answer 5

You can do much better than the bar scene. Meet good women at the gym, supermarket, single church clubs, clubs, and even a laundry mat. You have to consider where you are meeting these women.

Answer 6

Try eHarmony.com and make sure you answer all of the questions HONESTLY. It'll take you a few hours, but that should help pair you up with a few people that are probably what you are looking for. That might give you at least a better idea of what do look for.

Answer 7

Probably becuase your not hitting on them and there curious as why you arent hitting on them .

You also might be sending bad boy /alpha male signals

You might have status or money or both .

It might be the rolex or breitling tho, next time wear the tag huer

Answer 8

Why do you attract promiscuos women-just pretty damned LUCKY,I guess!

Answer 9

you're male, and its not likely that you will meet a decent girl in a bar, try church

Answer 10

NOTHING ever good comes out of a bar. THATS what my granny says to me.