Singles & Dating - 1 October 2006

So I'm 19 and there's this professor in his late 20's early 30's that I'm into. We have so much in common and he's done things that lead me to beleive he has feelings for me too. He's very proper and aways follows the rules so I don't think he would ever intiate anything, though.
So I'm wondering what the best way to approach him is that wouldn't make him uncomfortable or cross any boundries and that would prove to him that I'm mature. What would a man in his position be looking for?
Oh, and can an intelligent man his age truely have feelings for a 19 year old, or would the connection be completely superficial?
Just so you know, I'm not doing this to get a good grade or anything, I just really like him.

2006-10-01 16:26:05 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

On the first day of school there was this boy that i have known but never really, knew. Once I got to know him I developed a crush on him. Then one day i found out that one of my best friends had a crush on him too. Suddenly it became a race. This want any easy race. This girl is perfect. Blonde, smart, pretty, funny, and more that i cant think of or probably type because my vision is getting blurry. After she told me that she liked him too, (but i loved him) we promised that neither one of us would go out wit him even if he asked them. Then, a couple of weeks later he asked her out, not me. All of my other friends knew that I liked him and they told him to ask her anyway. He did it right in front of me. I felt like I had jumped off of a 8 story building and landed on a knife. I burst into tears. Like I am now. But i managed to hide them until i got to the bathroom. And just so you know this wasn't any ordinary crush. I loved him. And I still do today. But I could just kill myself because I know he likes her. And when he asked her she didnt even think about the promise we mad or glance at me to see how I felt about it. She just said "Yay." Thats it. I felt so horrible i could have just shriveled up right there next to the tree. Everyone loves this girl anyways. Why did she have to like the one that I liked--strike that, LOVE? And silly me, I thought that she is sooo picky with boys that she would at least say "let me think about it" but no such luck. "yay", yay, it sounds so wierd so say to someone asking you out, but apparently he liked it. Can I die right now? And if youre reading this and you know that its you im talking about please dont get mad. im just expressing my feelings and dont get freaked out either. just read the rest. I know that he doesnt like me. He treats dog **** better than me. He can be nice sometimes, offering paper to me in reading class everyonce and a while. This girl I'm still friends with her but im so jealous sometimes i wish i could just change my whole life to be just like her so people would like me too. I cant do that though. I just hope that when im gone and theres no one to chase after him hes gonna realize that he loves me too.

2006-10-01 16:25:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend just dumped me for another girl.I'm smart and talented.I have brown hazel eyes ,dimples, black curly hair,big beautiful white smile.I have a D cup and a nice ***.I also have awesome curves.I'm a dancer and I play the piano and violin.

2006-10-01 16:24:54 · 9 answers · asked by nyny Sexy 33 2

It really confuses me when people are mean to you but actually like you. Do you ever do that and why?

2006-10-01 16:24:46 · 10 answers · asked by Debbie R 1

if yes what style shoes would u give him your heels,flats,sandles,tennies,or flipflops?????? how old are u????

2006-10-01 16:23:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

um i dont want to force him or anything but like how can i tempt him cuz he wanted to but i said no and ever since he wont have that with me the maximum thing he does is kiss me

2006-10-01 16:21:12 · 14 answers · asked by chrisbaby5eva 1

2006-10-01 16:20:55 · 23 answers · asked by how many 1

I am 23, live and work in NYC... but I am always bored out of my mind. It seems like the only thing that 20 somethings in the city do is go to bars and nightclubs. I don't drink, and I find the bar/nightclub scene to be rather obnoxious and boring... yet.. there seems to be nothing else to do where I can meet women my age. Anyone have any suggestions?

2006-10-01 16:20:33 · 4 answers · asked by unit481 1

Just wanna know before I send them don't wanna send the wrong messenge.

2006-10-01 16:20:18 · 2 answers · asked by nice_simple_guy82 2

My Asian mother claims that if you're in love, you can't study or concentrate in school. I think it really depends on the person, but she doesn't think so. What do you guys think? Do you agree with her, or do you beg to differ?

2006-10-01 16:19:19 · 6 answers · asked by carolple 1

i just answerd a ? about slutty or inocent. how many guys does a girl have to sleep with to be considered slutty?

2006-10-01 16:18:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to ask this certain guy out, but I feel like I'm not pretty enough. He is georgous, and even though I am okay looking, I dont feel like I am up to his standards, even though he is not considered "popular". Am I getting upset over nothing?

2006-10-01 16:17:42 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My daughter is three years old and the neighbor kid is almost six, he keeps talking about how they're going to get married and he's always trying to kiss her.

His mother says its harmless and if they ever want to go on dates she will go with them. I think that he's too old for her and I'm worried.

Help!?

2006-10-01 16:16:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-01 16:16:42 · 1 answers · asked by francklin2006 1

he's kind of a player who thinks he can get whoever he wants. tho, he doesn't flip out when other girls say no. but tons of girls like him. he's really nice and he's really funny. he makes me feel important. and when he asked me to be his girlfriend, i flipped out. should i go out with him or not?

2006-10-01 16:15:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean we met in person after and he's really nice and stuff . But when he said he liked me does he mean it? (I mean we do know each other for like 1 and a half months.)

2006-10-01 16:15:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

He's 14, I'm 13. We are both in almost all classes at school. He smiles at me a bit in class, and we end up sitting together during classes. I dont hang out with him at lunch, he spends time with his guy friends, but sometimes he likes to talk just after lunch ends. I listen to his music, and I like it, and during our Welcome Back Dance I asked if he wanted to dance and he says "sure". He was a bit shy though...he wanted to dance in a song that wasn't so cheesy; I agreed. I hugged him during the dance and I "think" I felt his head rest on mine. . After that he starts exchanging emails and we chat everyday for the past two weeks. We talk casually about school and music. I popped him the question "do you like me" but I added "as a friend" so that he wouldnt get shocked at the whole thing. I adore him and hes wickedy hot, he loves rock music. His eyes make me melt too.He talks ALOT with me in Sci class and he always asks me stuff during it. Does he like me for more than a friend? Thanx.

2006-10-01 16:14:44 · 1 answers · asked by Xtina 1

2006-10-01 16:14:36 · 2 answers · asked by Alexis R 1

2006-10-01 16:13:57 · 8 answers · asked by greenslipknot666 1

I went to the movies with some friends and i left my phone in the car, now all of a sudden there is someone else? what the helll?? why do people do this

2006-10-01 16:13:25 · 4 answers · asked by christie m 1

If somebody shy tried to start a conversation with you (pretty much meaning they liked you), but stumbled over a few words would you care or is it the fact that they talked to you that counts?

2006-10-01 16:12:21 · 12 answers · asked by enterprise116161 1

its her b-day! she gonne be 17!

2006-10-01 16:11:58 · 18 answers · asked by Boy Toy 1

2006-10-01 16:11:49 · 2 answers · asked by bena884 1

Guys is it intimidating if a woman's friends are mostly guys? I'm very independent and get along better with guys eventhough I'm pretty girly. Also, what if a girl is shy?

2006-10-01 16:11:44 · 6 answers · asked by mizindependent 2

Ok my bf and had a good day today I cooked for him and I took it to his place, we eat, slept, watch TV together and around 7pm he said we should go eat ice cream. we had ice cream, we went to him house and I decided to go home and get ready for school tomorrow, he took me out to my car. Every think was great so I called him while I was driving and we were talking and he was telling me about how his boy was talking about opening a club and drinks and I said I SAID liquors that is not a good idea, u are not 21 yet. OK THAT IS ALL I SAID and he explained to me that his boy is 24 and he can get it and pulse he said I am going to be 21 in 3 month. So I said ok I understand know that is good. But he got mad at me because I was not supporting him or he said that I always say negative **** to him and he said u made me mad. How did I do that I didn’t even say a think to that bye

2006-10-01 16:11:40 · 1 answers · asked by sweet84 1

when we compliment you ... why don't you beleive that you're pretty ?
why do we have to pursuade you ?
this makes it hard to make you happy, and thats all we wanna do, make u happy

2006-10-01 16:10:41 · 8 answers · asked by Nick723 3

A few months ago my bff and I were playing with a Ouija board and I asked it what my new bf's name will be and it says J.C I have a guy named Jesse Charron in my Spanish class do u think the Ouija board means him? And my other friend has a Pendallum and he asked it if my ex Matt and I will get back 2gether and it said yes. Do u believe in any of these things ? and do they actually work?

2006-10-01 16:08:19 · 4 answers · asked by Steph1490 4

2006-10-01 16:08:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-01 16:07:32 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why is it so hard for people to get together? It seams to me that there is more single menand women now than ever before. Men' what holds you back from asking that special girl out? And ladys' What keeps you from saying yes when a guy ask you out? Be honest and no shallow answers please. Not interested in answers like' She doesn't look a certain way or his pecker isn't long enough or he was a little to fat............Get my drift?

2006-10-01 16:06:38 · 23 answers · asked by Sarcastic Sid 4