I want to ask this certain guy out, but I feel like I'm not pretty enough. He is georgous, and even though I am okay looking, I dont feel like I am up to his standards, even though he is not considered "popular". Am I getting upset over nothing?
2006-10-01 16:17:42 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
#1 thing people respond to is confidence. you looks will never be as big of a problem for anyone as low self-esteem.
2006-10-01 16:19:45 · answer #1 · answered by abbie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are upsetting yourself unnecessarily. It is not whether you are "pretty" enough. It is whether he finds you ATTRACTIVE enough. Yes there is a difference, & I am afraid that in your present state of mind it may be difficult for you to present yourself at your full attractive potential. I am not being cruel, I am just trying to point out that many men are attracted to women who have a certain aire of confidence, & sex appeal. If you believe in your heart that you aren't in his league then you will not be presenting yourself to him in the way you might desire.
You would be better off with a new attitude about yourself. But attaining that is one of the most difficult things for a person with low self-esteem to overcome.
I believe that one of the quickest ways for a woman to jumpstart her self-confidence is to go get herself a really good professional makeover, with new hairstyle & makeup, & get a new sexy dress. Present yourself in front of this "Certain Guy" look him straight in the eyes, with a confident smile & watch him light up.
You can do it, it will feel great no matter what the outcome, & you deserve it.
2006-10-01 16:39:01 · answer #2 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-01 16:41:39 · answer #3 · answered by bev 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you somewhat are. It shouldn't be all about look my dear. It has to do with personality to. The guy I'm dating right now doesn't have the best looks in the world...but it's the way he treats me, all the time including around my fam and friends. Go for it girl...if he likes you he'll say yes, if not no. It's just that simple. (although personaly i've never asked a guy out...)
2006-10-01 16:22:06 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have found that people often under estimate themselves. I would say about 95% of the people who I liked in the past, I have come to find out that I actually had a chance, when the only reason I didn't act on it, was I thought I wasn't worthy of their time.
2006-10-01 16:20:06 · answer #5 · answered by vaya07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i imagine that distinctly shy females get the perfect boyfriends of all. a guy that tries to get to carry close u is a guy that respects u, a guy which will take care of u the way you ought to be dealt with. Shy females will be truly humorous yet often times they only could be mushy with human beings first. Outgoing females are ok yet i imagine that shy females have better substance and insist recognize, you ought to be someone particular to win the middle of a shy female
2016-11-25 21:48:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you sound rather young. Focus on your school first. And don't ever ask a fella out. It makes a girl look cheap and desparate. Let him chase you.
2006-10-01 16:20:06 · answer #7 · answered by Mommymonster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confidence is everything...it can make the homeliest of women look like the goddess Aphrodite.
And then there's the fact that beauty is only skin deep, of course. ;)
2006-10-01 16:20:04 · answer #8 · answered by Deleted 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well we all know that beauty is only skin deep anyway and that you are probly a whole lot more than lot. If he can't see that than he is probly not worth having his attention.
2006-10-01 16:20:28 · answer #9 · answered by susie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it works out better when you are friends with the person you are asking out. Try befriending him first?
Or you can just ask him out.
2006-10-01 16:19:50 · answer #10 · answered by Debbie R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋