If you want this guy to notice you, abandon your shyness and get out of your shell. You don't have to become an outoing and outspoken person overnight; but instead of just hoping and dreaming that one day your crush will just notice you, that's not gonna happen. You need to fill in with some of the work too.
FOr example, whenever you see him, go up to him and just simply say "hey ian(if that's his name), wats up? how was your week?..o thats good, me too...so, do you wanna hang out sometime?" and just plan to get together as friends; so that way he won't refuse, but you two can start out as friends. Believe me, as this goes on, he'll eventually like you a lot.
2006-10-01 18:10:46
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answered by Anonymous
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Almost the exact same thing happened to me. I'm incredibly shy, and I liked a guy that attended the same church as me. And, I went about it in the most awkward way possible by having my friends go and tell him that I liked him. DON'T let that be the way he notices you. Even though you're shy, realize that everyone has an equal shot in the dating game.
Talk to him. It doesn't have to be a full-blown conversation, but maybe catch his eye in passing, plaster on a nice smile, and cheerfully greet him. If you look like you're happy and comfortable with yourself, he'll definitely take notice. Maybe after you grow comfortable with a small 'hi', you'll work up the nerve to say a few more words. Good luck!
2006-10-01 18:16:37
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answered by Anonymous
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I by no potential had a outdoor or a tree, so I by no potential had a treehouse yet I continually needed one... it became into one among those desires that by no potential got here genuine... yet wow that treehouse seems wonderful!! according to probability too lots for me!!! i might do with my dream treehouse LOL.
2016-10-15 10:28:23
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answered by Erika 4
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why cant you just start talking ot hi mand get to know him.Become friends and see if things start to heat up.Take it slow and easy and BECOME FRIENDS first.
Once you start to relax and feel more comfortable around him you will be surprised how UNSHY you will become.
Once again be yourself and just act naturally around him and speak openly and honestly and listen to his feelings and try to understand his feelings and when your opinion differs dont fight JUST talk openly and try to keep an open mind.
See if this break the ice and also breaks your shyness .
2006-10-01 18:12:39
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answered by Glenn T 3
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1) Learn to spell
2) Don't be so shy? Wow, I just solved your love life in 4 easy words you could've easilly answered yourself!
2006-10-01 18:09:24
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answered by Anonymous
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does this guy have a good friend that hang's with alot of the time..... if so, then talk to his friend and just tell him that your shy and u like his buddy........ then he will relay the message back 2 him. and there u have it, then he will know, and he will talk to you or not. good luck.
2006-10-01 18:16:19
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answered by BIG BEN 5
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Least you dont have to go thru the hardist part cus he's a church boy
2006-10-01 18:20:07
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answered by Frank 3
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Spell right. You could take him to brunch or lunch after church and just chat with him!!!
2006-10-01 18:16:42
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answered by kYLE 2
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find the courage to talk to him.
2006-10-01 18:11:25
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answered by Michelle : 5
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