Guys tell me that I'm hot and kinda look like Angelina Jolie (I don't really see it but I guess its cuz of my eyes,lips, & hair) BUT the problem is I can't find any worthy guys to date. They all seem nice but in the end they just wanna try to get in my pants, but I wanna save sex for marriage and most leave cuz I won't put out. Why are guys so obsessed with sex? I'm a smart, pretty and fun girl but where are the real men who just wanna get to know the real me and not just try to get me into bed?
When has virginity been such a bad characteristic in a girl?
2006-10-01 16:50:38 · 6 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not a bad characteristic for a girl to have...Stick by your beliefs and don't give in to the pressure. Don't worry, one day you will meet a guy who respects you--it will just take time.
2006-10-01 16:53:21 · answer #1 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its great that you are waiting. It will mean more later. But it certainly wont be easy. Especially depending on your age. Their are just certain ages, that guys pretty much think about that constantly...lol and a year or more at a young age, seems like forever. One problem for the guys, that at least i thought about, was what if i wait for ever for this certain girl, and then a few years from now, she is like "i think i want to date someone else".. That would suck..lol You can do it, hang in there, but expect some opposition. Being able to attain a difficult goal, that takes a long time, is a trait that will come in handy for the rest of your life.
2006-10-01 16:59:04 · answer #2 · answered by Aaron S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are motivated by sex...it's inherent in their nature...but many guys find love and commitment to be a tantalizing prospect as well...studies have shown that marriage is actually better for a man's health than a woman's! Some guys sow their oats when they're young...but try going to places that appeal to your interests and meet similar minded men there...church, hiking groups or even through friends...there are many guys who want a loving relationship...keep looking!
2006-10-01 17:06:39 · answer #3 · answered by November 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a born again, it may not count but Ive only been with one person. However the feeling always comes around, i would settle for a hand job or foreplay. dont take that wrongly though. Anyway its gonna be hard but have faith, not all men are that way. i wouldnt mind waiting till after marriage, but I'm afraid i wouldn't make it to the wedding.
2006-10-01 16:59:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
KEEP STRONG!!!! I am with you all the way! I dont know about you but I am going to wait for a real man!
2006-10-01 17:44:28 · answer #5 · answered by Ali R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are out there , just stay strong !
2006-10-01 16:55:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋