So. im a senior in high school and i like this freshman girl. I have talked to her a lot and i love seeing her in the hall because she always gives me this great smile. Well, i got the guts to ask her to homecoming, but shes not allowed to have a date for dances until shes 16, so what should i do? Im not sure if she likes me but i have a gut feeling she does. We always talk and if im talking to someone within earshot of her she will typically join in. But if she does like me what should i do? I suppose i could still dance with her, but what can i do to go the next step? should i try to show myself in a positive light and try to change the parents minds' or what?
2006-10-01 16:29:22 · 11 answers · asked by Nick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I forgot to add that her dad is a former teacher of mine, so he knows me.
2006-10-01 16:37:45 · update #1
she is really shy and she is what i would call old-fashioned but i am myself. she asked her parents about homecoming but thats when they said that she cant go on a date until shes 16.
2006-10-01 17:37:39 · update #2
she is really shy and she is what i would call old-fashioned but i am myself. she asked her parents about homecoming but thats when they said that she cant go on a date until shes 16. she is very mature for her age.
2006-10-01 17:37:55 · update #3
Dude im a junior in highschool and i just met what i think is the girl of my dreams 3 months ago. the big problem was her parents. it was the same you can't date until your 16 routine. ne ways i decided that she was too important to me to just give up like that so i decided to take the hard road. well coem to find out her dad was like that dad form meet the parents. he was overtly protective and had his daughter on a 2 foot leash. Needless to say he didn't like me very much. p.s. my girl is a freshman also. I'm going to tell you that getting on the parents good side is priority in these types off relationships. make sure that the parents know that you care just as much about her as they do ( so picking up some of their points of view isn't a bad idea.) A good way to do this is to let the parents know that her academics are the most important thing to you. this scores major points with the parents. i think it took me about a month to get invited to a family outting at this point i got to know her dad and her mom. now they like me pretty well and are a lot more leiniant with their daughter. so fi all you are looking for is to take her to homecoming then you better get moving but if not then take your time and ease your way into her life and i promise her parents will begin to see that your not so bad and will devlop respect for you which will in turn lead to a successful relationship with this girl.
2006-10-01 18:18:36 · answer #1 · answered by no_solution 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just see her at school then when shes allowed to date u two will know each other welll enough to be come more seriouse. Seniors normal do date freashmen only because they think they r dum and they use them but to me it sounds like u really like this girl and if u do u will find a way to see her. Also just remember it is not her fault her parents r over protected. And if u really want to tell the girl hoew u feel then if she accepts it u should then show up at her door with roses for her mom and ask the parents if u can talk to them. Explain to them how u feel and that u would really like to take their dauchter out on a date, DO NOT FORGET TO SHAKE THE FATHERS HAND, smile be your self and show respect and show that u really care for their daughter good luck! and congrats on being a senior it is the best time of ur life!!!!
2006-10-01 16:37:14 · answer #2 · answered by A soldiers wife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NICK! Just go with what your heart is feeling. I suggest getting to know her more. Become more deep with your conversation because if you do go out with her, you'll need her complete trust and maturity. I dont think theres any problem at all going out with a freshman, I dated a senior in freshman year as well and tend to like older guys. Be careful because not only would she get in trouble, but you coud get in deep shh if youre over 18.
So, dont be shy and talk it over. =] Remember that the age difference might not seem much, but the maturity levels between you two are very far apart!
2006-10-01 16:42:33 · answer #3 · answered by slipgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand this in simple terms as well as you do. a pal of mine idea she develop into courting "the only" and gave him her virginity after per week of courting, because she suggested that he might want to split with her in the different case (do not question me how she got here up with the concept he develop into "the only"). besides, he ultimately made her pregnant, and then even as her moms and dads would not enable her get an abortion and he or she instructed the guy that he might want to ought to help her through this time, he stabbed her and he or she is now in intense condition (she's had a miscarriage too). anybody even as ur a young person sounds like "the only", yet tis continually confusing to inform, maximum adult males are all after a similar challenge. you should attend till your older and then locate the authentic deal. i'm quite sorry you had to study the confusing way, i think your soreness. Get your self examined for STDS/STI's and being pregnant, and then study from yuor blunders and wait till your older. you'll locate the full journey a lot extra worthwhile. good luck!
2016-12-04 03:00:45 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what I did when I was 17:
Start dating 19-21 year olds
These women know what they want and aren't afraid to ask for it
AND you don't have to worry about parents (...much)
Dude, time to stop being a BOY who dates GIRLS, and become a MAN who dates WOMEN.
2006-10-01 16:44:51 · answer #5 · answered by panzertank75 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, don't give up on her...you will regret it if you don';t step up. ask her first, then let her know that you will only take her to the dance with her parents permission. make sure you bring her back at the time her parents want her.
that's a real guy with lots of guts and lots of respect...good luck...you will be fine...confidence my young man.
2006-10-01 16:33:29 · answer #6 · answered by Lizet L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stick with the friendship. If she's not allowed to date till she's 16 then her parents are trying to keep her a little girl while they still can. Be friends
2006-10-01 16:32:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Aye... I think you should dance with her at homecoming, and if you think she likes you then try and see if you can change her parent's minds...It won't be easy but its worth a try.
2006-10-01 16:40:10 · answer #8 · answered by c_mitu89 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're just going to have to wait, dude.
Not only that, if you're a senior and you've got to work up your nerve to ask out a freshman, you need to just start dating RIGHT NOW....anyone....a different girl every week, just to go out and have fun. Don't build up these things in your head, just see a pretty girl that seems fun, and ask her if she'd like to go do something Friday night. That's it. If she says no, that's ok, if she says yes, that's ok too.
2006-10-01 16:34:01 · answer #9 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
my parents are way over protecting too, so just meet her at the dance and spend the night dancing together and talking and then yeah, okay whatever you do take her home or whatever you guys arrange, that'st what i would like someone to do for me
2006-10-01 16:32:57 · answer #10 · answered by LaTiiNa BaBii 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋