I met this woman bout 2 months ago and we talk occasionally,the thing is she has been really hurt by men and she's afraid 2 get close 2 sum1...I want to show her i'm different but not pressure her.How can i do this?I don't want to bug her.But i want her to know i'm not like those other guys...
2006-10-01 16:43:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do something really special for her. something really romantic to show her you care and you would never hurt her.
2006-10-01 16:49:07 · answer #1 · answered by lucia m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is afraid to get close to someone, then possibly she also has a lot of baggage so beware! I think you should give her some space as well as letting her know subtly that u,re interested in her, possibly by going out on casual day time dates, like a day at the museum or art gallery. I think you should be yourself around her and be honest, that in itself should show her that u are not like other guys. If its meant to be, it will b. Good luck.
2006-10-01 23:51:53 · answer #2 · answered by im_breathless06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes TIME and consistancy. You can't just show her one special day and she's over her past issues. But with TIME of you being there for her she will realize on her own that you are different. Words are basically worthless at this point, cause the guy who hurt her probably said a lot of nice words at the beginning, it's actions that count.
2006-10-01 23:55:59 · answer #3 · answered by BereaGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be casual. I dated a lot of men before I got married. I was dumped several times, and I also dumped several men. It gets easier to open up to people with time. I am sure she will see the real you in time. She is lucky that you are willing to try. Most men would just move on.
2006-10-01 23:49:25 · answer #4 · answered by sandra g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way you can show her that you're different is by your actions. You have a lot of pressure on you to always be there for her and listen and just be overall supportive and perfect. I hope it goes well for you.
2006-10-01 23:55:21 · answer #5 · answered by Gorgeous 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 months isn't very long. I suggest giving it more time. Just being friends and gaining her trust. When you think that trust is strong enough let her know you have feelings for her. Tell her you're not pushing her into anything but that you would like it if she gave you a chance
2006-10-01 23:50:23 · answer #6 · answered by Gypsy Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋