I'm just wondering. Now he wants to talk a lot. I think he always wants to talk. Basically he said he doesn't trust me and wouldn't have sex with me. I wouldn't have sex with him because his ex had herpes. I'm so confused. He likes talking to me, but I want him to be physically attracted to me too, because I like him both ways. I am rarely attracted to a guy.
2006-10-01 16:37:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By this, I mean him going down on me, NOT vice versa.
2006-10-01 16:38:26 · update #1
he says I'm pretty cute, but the thing that attracts him to me is the mental connection. So what does that mean?
2006-10-01 16:38:45 · update #2
Hmm what if he calls me just to talk or he asks me about my emotional problems all the time
2006-10-01 16:40:12 · update #3
ok, you dont know the situation, what if there is a mental connection....i just want to know if there's a p hysical attraction, because I've made out with guys I was not attracted to before, but I never liked talking to them.
2006-10-01 16:41:14 · update #4
Read my first two threads for more info please.
2006-10-01 16:53:15 · update #5
why in the name of God would you have to ask a question like that, you don't say how old you are but it seems your a are heading in the wrong direction, stick to talking you might learn something.
2006-10-01 16:49:40 · answer #1 · answered by glasgow girl 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not knowing your age group makes responding to your question a bit difficult. However, given that this guy's ex has herpes (herpes NEVER goes away and a person with herpes can infect others evenwhen they have no symptoms), I would advise you to just stay friends with him with no sexual contex. His wanting go down on you means that he is thinking of asking you to go down on him, and perhaps more. He may be playing games with you so do be careful.
Ask a good friend or a person that you trust for additional advise. If you don't have one or don't want to ask them, go to Planned Parenthood for free advise. They will keep your identy safe.
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/
Good luck!
2006-10-01 16:43:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure ... if you dig herpes. Some pretty hot women have herpes... doesn't mean I couldn't turn them down. I've done it. I'll do it again. I aint gettin that crap. It doesn't ever go away. It can always be spread. Wouldn't even use his bathroom...
2006-10-01 16:41:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 10:24:33 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look first off if your going to have any kind of sex w/this guy think twice. any kind of sex requires an attraction so thats not yur problem. he says he attracted to u mentally....honestly i think he has his own issues basically trust issues. he dosent trust you but he dosent mind going down town so to speak, take a pass on him sweetie. find someone clean and open to complete love w/you.
2006-10-01 16:45:00 · answer #5 · answered by peachy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO!! If that's the first thing he wants to do after your 2nd date, he's just looking for a typical booty call.
2006-10-01 16:40:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he has herpes! That's why he doesn't want to have sex with you
2006-10-01 16:42:01 · answer #7 · answered by sexxymamma86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he is not physically attracted to you...He just wants to play--that's all. Why do you want to be with this loser?
2006-10-01 16:39:59 · answer #8 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no he just wants it just like all the rest
2006-10-01 16:39:31 · answer #9 · answered by pussy2damngood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing else than to get you nude and do his thing
2006-10-01 16:43:33 · answer #10 · answered by gemini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋