Ok my bf is SXE for those of you who dont know what that is it's when you dont drink/smoke/do drugs/have sex before marrige ok well so he says he doesnt want to have sex until marrige but he loves me and he says that since he does he would have sex with me. Sometimes he acts like he wants to but other times he acts like he doesnt. Whats his deal? Does he want it or not?
2006-10-01 16:50:22 · 13 answers · asked by XSkittle_FantasticX 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay.....I dont force anything on him I've never acted towards him like I want to have sex. HE acts like he does sometimes. Its not a religious thing because he's atheist.
2006-10-01 16:57:39 · update #1
You said HE , of course he wants it, all men do all the time, unless there is something wrong with them.
2006-10-01 16:53:11 · answer #1 · answered by Heathertogo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it really matter? Give him a break he is battling morals with hormones. men are raging sex machines there sexual needs are way greater that ours, dont give him pressure your just confusing him and yourself. Enjoy being young, there is enough pressure to have sex out there, dont let it complicate a good friendship. Listen if he wants to wait respect him for it, hey its a difficult thing to remain celebate these days, if he feels that he has to then he could regret it then 2 people get hurt.
Enjoy each others company and dont get anxious about it, things will happen in there own time and virginity is a precious gift that can only be given once. let it be for the right reasons and in the right time. Good guys dont come along every day.
2006-10-01 17:05:23 · answer #2 · answered by seabiscuit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A wise person once said, "a man should treat a woman like a $100 bill he found on the sidewalk." I've always felt that was true.
Anyway, here's my adivce: make yourself a little bit unavailble for a while. Just, be busy. See how he is after a few weeks of that.
2006-10-01 16:57:23 · answer #3 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I s'pose i could answer this question better if i knew the age of your b/f. However it sounds to me that if he is a virgin he probibly is nervous about his first time or he really isn't ready,or he really wants to wait until marriage, which in some ways i find admirable, but really is unrealistic.I think you should respect his wishes. At the same time, i honestly believe he should not wait til marriage because no bride really wants an unexperienced partner.
2006-10-01 16:57:37 · answer #4 · answered by im_breathless06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh he wants it. Im sure he does.. its just a moral battle for him.
Im some religions pre marital sex is a sin I guess.. it just doesnt happen.
this maybe the case.
2006-10-01 16:54:10 · answer #5 · answered by timberleigh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does but he doesn't. Physically he really wants to but mentally and emotionally he would perfer to wait because he's made a commitment that is important to him. If you care for him, you will wait. If you don't, he may eventually blame you for his inability to wait.
2006-10-01 16:54:11 · answer #6 · answered by C K Platypus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, give it some time. He will come around when he figures out what he wants. Don't worry, let fate decide.
2006-10-02 06:40:43 · answer #7 · answered by ~jenn~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't push him, he will love you more if you understand. That's a big step for someone. He will when he is ready. He will respect you more for respecting his beliefs
2006-10-01 16:54:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he want. he's tempted, but his belief in sex is best left until marraige is holding him back
2006-10-01 16:53:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's ambivalent. It sounds like he doesn't know if he wants to or not.
2006-10-01 16:58:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋