This question also deals with appreciation of a person. The use of a person to the point that they dont want to to be around another person out of fear of being used. This person was a friend first and then it grew one sided into something else. After we called it quits i am not able to fully let her go. We try to be friends be i cant get a feeling of what she wants from me. I hide my true feelings around her because they will something cause us to get into an argument. Now the problem is that her family wants me around because they like me but i dont always want to be near her because the unknown feelings that might come out and cause trouble for me. We try to be friends to each other but it always turns into an arkward event. My problem is that i do actually love her but i cant hide it from her. I need to know how to supress these feelings.
2006-10-01 16:44:07 · 4 answers · asked by clark_kent4l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well it should be without the pain. I still have a strong attachment to her.
2006-10-01 16:45:57 · update #1
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2006-10-01 16:47:05 · answer #1 · answered by slaphappy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it, but distance is the best thing, plus the fact that its very awkward being around her really doesnt help.
If you have a good relationship with the fam then they should be able to understand why you might not be around so often.
As for the fact that you still love her: the relationship ended for a reason, unless its equal, it isnt fair.
distance yourself, let her go and hang out with your mates.
Remember, this is just advice, not the be all and end all, but from experience, hanging around makes things worse.
2006-10-01 23:51:27 · answer #2 · answered by iluvherby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I knew. I am friends with someone at least trying to be but it's hard because at one time we talked about being together now he is interested in someone else. I try to hide my feelings because it hurts when they are not returned. Sometimes I can't and then I have been angry with him for not returning the love to me. I really care about him and want to remain friends but it is very difficult sometimes. You have to decide if the friendship is worth the pain....sometimes I wonder if it is anymore.
2006-10-01 23:52:45 · answer #3 · answered by JustWant2B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude i feel ur pain so much, im in the exact same situation exactly..it sux cow balls man...im so srry, really man it sux, to words cant describe it..
2006-10-01 23:51:57 · answer #4 · answered by how many 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋